We’ve…never talked about this before. We’ve talked about using the TBM work to release shame and tap into authenticity. But this is the first time that we have specifically (and explicitly!) dived into sex and pleasure and the role they play in manifestation. In this groundbreaking episode, Jessica is joined by Dr. Emily Morse, renowned sex therapist, author and host of the popular podcast, Sex with Emily. Together, they dive into the untapped connection between sexuality, pleasure, and shadow. Dr. Emily breaks down common sexual myths, helps us understand and normalize orgasm struggles, libido, and most importantly the shame and stigmas that may be holding you back in your relationship to yourself and others. Together, Jessica and Dr. Emily share how embracing your inherent pleasure can unlock your magnetic potential and lead your most magnetic life. With candid insights, shame-free explorations, and practical tools, this episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to embrace their full, sexy, authentic self. 

**Trigger Warning: conversation around emotional/psychological healing from sexual trauma (00:32:10 - 00:34:00)

 

Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast

 

In This Episode We Talk About:

• The connection between pleasure, sexuality, and manifestation
• How sexual shame and trauma block your manifestations
• The importance of cultivating a healthy relationship with your body
• Breaking down the myths around orgasm and female sexuality
• How societal messaging impacts sexual wellness and confidence
• The role of masturbation in personal empowerment and healing
• How to create more space for pleasure in daily life
• Tools for cultivating desire and reconnecting with your sexual energy
• Understanding the "orgasm gap" and how to close it
• The influence of early sexual education and societal shame on sexual identity
• How to reconnect with your partner after the honeymoon phase
• Creating rituals to shift from masculine to feminine energy
• Self-acceptance as a foundation for manifesting more pleasure and abundance
• Common misconceptions about kinks, fantasies, and their role in trauma healing
• How sex and embodiment play a key role in personal growth and manifestation

 

 THEMES / TIME STAMPS:

• The power of pleasure in manifestation & understanding our sex/pleasure relationship to ourselves (00:15:15)
• Defining kink and fantasy, and understanding different pathways towards healing our trauma and relationship to sex (00:30:30)
• Understanding that pleasure is our birthright and integral to calling in our manifestations (00:55:15)

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HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips 

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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.

At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.

Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
 – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth
 – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work
 – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth
 – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self

With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.

Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.

 

Where To Find Us!

• @tobemagnetic (IG)
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• @Jessicaashleygill
• @tobemagnetic (youtube)
• @expandedpodcast