Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

EP 45: Attachment Theory Applied: The Shift from Anxious to Avoidant & Vice Versa


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Has this trainwreck ever happened to you?!

 

You play it super cool in the beginning of the relationship (you know catch flights, not feelings am I right) 

 

THEN gradually the person “wears down” your walls and

 

You.Let.Them.In.

 

And this absolutely terrifies you, but you did it anyways, because well they earned your trust and deep down you really don’t want to die alone 

 

But hold up.

 

It seems like the SECOND they know you like them- they do a total 180

 

All of a sudden you are PURSUING THEM

 

And you go, what in the actual hell

 

How dare you take entrance into the heart for granted.

 

That’s extremely VIP access boo, and now here you are pulling away from ME?! The nerve! 

 

Well if you can relate to the above-THEN YOU NEED THIS PODCAST EPISODE 

 

In this episode I break down the Anxious to Avoidant Pendulum Swing; I tell you: 

-What it is

-Why it happens 

-Aaaaand exactly what to do when it is happening to you 

(so you don’t go through this maddening push-pull anymore) 

 

MAKE SURE YOU GO GIVE IT A LISTEN and if you want to stop experiencing patterns like these-go apply to my 8 week ESL relationship course. 

 

It is time to stop wasting your time in situationships like the above. Click here to apply now! Link is also in my Instagram bio– @drmorgancoaching 

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