In today’s real-time coaching session, Christine works with Catherine, who is navigating a pivotal life decision about whether to continue a long-distance relationship that is heading toward a significant next step—or to step away.

As someone who struggles with indecision and fears making the “wrong” choice, Catherine is looking for clarity, confidence, and security in her next steps. Through their conversation, Christine helps her uncover a powerful truth: clarity often comes after we take action, not before.

What unfolds is a healing dialogue around people-pleasing, fear of mistakes, and the patterns that keep us disconnected from our intuition. Rather than rushing toward a binary decision, Catherine finds a third path—one rooted in authentic expression, boundaries, and self-trust.

 

Consider/Ask Yourself:

• Do you often fear making the wrong decision, and delay choosing altogether?
• Have you historically prioritized others’ needs over your own in relationships?
• Are you waiting for a sign instead of trusting your own intuition?
• What might shift if you gave yourself full permission to speak your truth?

 

Key Insights & A-HAs:

• Indecisiveness isn’t always resistance—it can be sacred space while we wait for the most aligned choice to emerge.
• The “right” decision isn’t always black or white. Sometimes clarity reveals itself in a third, unexpected option.
• Unspoken needs can’t be met. Self-expression is essential to healthy relationships.
• Even if a decision “doesn’t work out,” it doesn’t mean it was wrong—it was your classroom for growth.

 

How to Deepen the Work:

• Journal on a time when your “mistake” led to unexpected growth.
• Practice speaking a boundary in a safe relationship—start small.
• Ask: What is my body telling me when I think about each possible choice?
• Instead of asking “What should I do?”, ask “What would feel most like self-honoring?”

 

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Are you a high-achieving woman who’s done “everything right”—but still feels like something’s missing?

Join Christine for a free live masterclass on August 18th at 4 PM PT to learn the formula for deep fulfillment that doesn’t rely on over-achieving or perfectionism.

Register at: christinehassler.com/masterclass Replay available for those who can’t attend live.

 

Retreat Invitation: October 17–19

If you want deeper clarity, emotional release, and intuitive alignment in a live, immersive space—Christine’s women’s retreat might be your next step.

Even if early bird pricing has passed, you can email Jill by August 10th and she will honor the early rate. Contact: [email protected] Details and application: christinehassler.com/retreat

 

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