Are avoidants actually avoidant… or are they reflecting something deeper back to you - especially if you have anxious attachment?

.

In today's episode of the F*CK TRAUMA Podcast, I’m breaking down one of the most perspective-shifting teachings you will ever learn about relationships:

Why avoidants show up the way they do, and how the Law of Assumption can transform the dynamic completely.

.

Not by chasing.Not by fixing.Not by abandoning yourself.
.But by understanding self-concept, your nervous system, and the inner story that avoidants mirror back to you.

.

Inside this episode, you’ll learn:

✨ Why anxious attachers are drawn to avoidants
✨ What the “abandonment mirror” actually is
✨ How your inner assumptions create avoidant patterns
✨ Why avoidant behaviour feels so familiar to your body
✨ How changing your identity changes how THEY show up
✨ How to shift the story of them and the story of you
✨ Embodiment practices to step into secure, chosen energy

.

This is the deeper layer behind everything I teach:
You are not powerless in your relationships, and avoidants are not “fixed this way.”

They reflect your inner world and when you shift, they do too.

.

If you haven’t listened to these episodes yet, start here:

They’ll give you the perfect foundation for today’s teaching:

🔹 You Can't Change Them Until You Change You (Self-concept & Law of Assumption)

🔹 Transform Your Relationships with the Law of Assumption

.

Want to go deeper?

Free Masterclass: ⁠Becoming Secure You⁠

Masterclass: ⁠Stop Attracting Avoidants⁠

Masterclass: ⁠Stop Them Pulling Away⁠

Signature Program: ⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠

.

Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

.

Enjoying the podcast?

Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!