Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

EP 626: Why Love Feels So Hard: The Attachment Styles Running Your Relationships


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If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “Why does this keep happening to me?” when it comes to love… this episode is for you. I’m not giving you dating hacks or surface-level advice. We’re going deeper. Because the truth is, it’s not that you’re bad at relationships or that something is “wrong” with you, it’s that your attachment style is running the show. In this episode, I’m breaking down exactly why love can feel so hard, how anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment patterns keep repeating, and what it actually takes to rewire your brain for secure, healthy love.

Inside this episode:

  1. Why you’re not broken and how anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment create painful relationship cycles (even when you’re trying your best).
  2. The hidden fears driving each attachment style: from self-abandoning and over-functioning to sabotaging intimacy and pushing love away.
  3. What it really takes to become securely attached, beyond “therapy speak” and how to start embodying the version of you who attracts healthy, emotionally available love.


I share vulnerably about my own journey, from disorganized attachment and chaotic relationship patterns to building a secure, deeply connected marriage. And I want you to hear this clearly: you can change. Your nervous system can heal. Your patterns can shift. Healthy love that feels safe, consistent, and secure is absolutely available to you.

But it requires more than just knowing the language of healing. It requires doing the deep work to rewire your beliefs, regulate your nervous system, and show up differently.

If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally become the securely attached version of yourself, I want to personally invite you to explore your next step.

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🔗 Additional Episode Links:
  1. Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quiz
  2. Follow me on IG → @drmorgancoaching
  3. Grab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet

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