In this episode, Colleen traces a quiet, familiar fear that surfaces whenever we step into new territory — the fear of becoming “too much.” What begins as a loving message to stay safe or small can become an inherited boundary that keeps us from expansion.

Through her own reflection, she reveals how deeply patterned beliefs about worth, service, and visibility shape the nervous system’s response to growth. This isn’t a story about trauma, but about awakening — seeing how the rules we once followed out of love can quietly hold us back from the life we’re ready to create.

 

🔑 Key Takeaways:

• Growth often feels unsafe because it challenges early emotional conditioning

• Even supportive family messages can reinforce limiting patterns

• The nervous system interprets expansion as risk until safety is redefined

• True empowerment begins when we stop confusing smallness with love

 

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