Just me again this week, but I have a great episode for you. 

 

This episode sprung from a listener request. 

 

In dating, we often come across people that blow hot and cold, on and off. They message you loads, you have a great date, and they go cold, only to come back warm weeks, months, or even years later. Frustrating right?

 

But why? 

 

Why do men and women do this?

 

What is happening in their heads (and hearts) that causes this behaviour?

 

How can you break out of that cycle if you are the guilty, push/pull, hot/ cold person?

 

And what should you do if you are dating someone that is like this?

 

All I can say is that as a man that spent years blowing hot and cold and pushing and pulling women, I know exactly why I did it. I also know how to stop doing it and how to move into a far more functional way of relating.

 

The key topics are:

 

🧊 How to spot the hot and cold behaviour

🧊 Why do men & women blow hot and cold in dating

🧊 Fears that cause you to be afraid of commitment

🧊 How we can emotionally mature past

🧊 Why indecisiveness ruins people dating lives

🧊 How to deal with someone being hot and cold with you

🧊 How to get over your fear of commitment

 

 

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