Episode Overview

If you’ve ever realized your weight loss efforts were rooted in trying to please others, whether that’s a partner, a doctor, or society at large, this episode is for you. We dive into the shift from external to internal motivation, why relying on shame or fear doesn’t work long-term, and how to uncover your true values to create sustainable change.

In this episode, Jen and Annie discuss the very real and common fear many women have that others might stop loving or respecting them if they don’t change their bodies. But what if your goals were actually your own? What if you didn’t have to chase someone else’s standards? You’ll learn how to develop intrinsic motivation that feels good, empowering, and lasting without needing a cheerleader or a looming deadline.

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Key Points

• The difference between external and internal motivation and why it matters
• How cultural and relational pressure affects women’s goals
• Real examples of fear-based motivation (and how to spot them)
• How to reconnect with your values to create lasting behavior change