Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization Excusing BPD behavior is what so many people with Codependency do and it is a function of Codependent Externalization and need for taking more personal responsibility for yourself - not how anyone with BPD treated you terribly. It is important to get into a healing and recovery journey in therapy to break the trauma bond, learn to focus more on yourself, and to stop externalizing out your needs that can't be met by a person with BPD. Codependent needs that you need to learn how to meet internally for yourself. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts  This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at: 100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025

Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent ExternalizationExcusing BPD behavior is what so many people with Codependency do and it is a function of Codependent Externalization and need for taking more personal responsibility for yourself - not how anyone with BPD treated you terribly. It is important to get into a healing and recovery journey in therapy to break the trauma bond, learn to focus more on yourself, and to stop externalizing out your needs that can't be met by a person with BPD. Codependent needs that you need to learn how to meet internally for yourself.https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Bloghttps://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & morehttps://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at:100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025

Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization Excusing BPD behavior is what so many people with Codependency do and it is a function of Codependent Externalization and need for taking more personal responsibility for yourself - not how anyone with BPD treated you terribly. It is important to get into a healing and recovery journey in therapy to break the trauma bond, learn to focus more on yourself, and to stop externalizing out your needs that can't be met by a person with BPD. Codependent needs that you need to learn how to meet internally for yourself. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks &amp; more https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcasts&nbsp; This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at: 100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025

Excusing BPD Behavior is Codependent Externalization

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A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more. https://ajmahari.ca/sessionshttps://ajmahari.ca/gottatalk - After Hourshttps://ajmahari.ca/podcastshttps://survivngbpdbreakup.comhttps://survivingaborderline.comhttps://codependency.ca

A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more.&nbsp; <a href="https://ajmahari.ca/sessions" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://ajmahari.ca/sessions</a> <a href="https://ajmahari.ca/gottatalk" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://ajmahari.ca/gottatal</a>k - After Hours <a href="https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts</a> <a href="https://survivingaborderline.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://survivngbpdbreakup.com</a> <a href="https://survivingaborderline.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://survivingaborderline.com</a> <a href="https://codependency.ca" rel="noopener noreferrer">https://codependency.ca</a>

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