Delanie Fischer and Kelsey Cook are joined by world-renowned sexologist and educator, Goody Howard. Goody explains the differences between fetishes and kinks, what partners can do if their fetishes or kinks don’t align, how to boost your excitement around sex if you’ve been in a rut, where you can start with self-exploration, and answers alllll of our burning questions like, “do vibrators desensitize you over time?” “is there a way to really  enjoy giving oral?” “what’s the most unique fetish or kink you’ve heard of?” This episode is jam-packed with life-changing gems of wisdom that you can apply to your life -- no matter who, or what, you’re into. Grab your notebooks, it’s a hot one!

*Please practice safety when attempting a new act with yourself, or a partner. 

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