Been There Got Out Podcast

Fear vs. Intuition: How to Know Your Gut is Right After Gaslighting


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Making critical decisions in high-conflict divorce when you can barely trust your own judgment? This interview is essential viewing.
 
After experiencing gaslighting, manipulation, and betrayal in a toxic relationship, many people struggle to trust their instincts—especially when the stakes are highest. Should you push for a custody evaluation? Is your ex really alienating the kids, or are you being paranoid? How do you read the Guardian ad Litem? What if you're wrong about everything? 

Strategic intuition expert Jock Brocas—who used intuitive intelligence to stay alive in military operations and high-risk security situations—shares practical techniques for cutting through fear and confusion to make sound decisions when everything is on the line. 

This conversation goes far beyond typical "trust your gut" advice. You'll learn pattern recognition techniques, box breathing for high-stakes court situations, and how to distinguish between fear-based panic and genuine intuitive warning signs. These are military-grade tools adapted for family court survival. 

Perfect for anyone facing custody evaluations, court hearings, mediation with a difficult ex, or any high-conflict situation where you need clarity but fear is clouding your judgment. 

WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:

✓ Strategic intuitive intelligence: Combining your experiences, training, and natural intuition
✓ Why fear gives you the wrong signals exactly when you need accuracy most
✓ Pattern recognition for identifying your ex's manipulation tactics
✓ How to tell if it's genuine intuition or just anxiety/ego
✓ Box breathing: Military technique for staying calm in court or evaluations
✓ The power of "the pause" before responding to provocations
✓ Simple practices that train your mind to recognize signals vs. noise
✓ Why going silent is your superpower in high-conflict situations
 
ABOUT JOCK BROCAS:

Jock Brocas brings a unique combination of military intelligence, high-risk security experience, and spiritual research to the question of how we make critical decisions under pressure. With 25+ years as a professional medium and extensive work in executive protection and undercover operations, Jock now works with lawyers, scientists, and professionals on strategic intuition. He's completing a master's in psychology (PhD starting October) and founded Help4Lawyer to support legal professionals in high-stakes cases. Author of "Powers of the Sixth Sense."
 
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