Shedding Self Judgment in Favor of Self Love

Getting lost in a marriage happens for a variety of reasons – you grow apart from your spouse, your kids move out, other changes happen in your lives. But at the end of the day, it may boil down to the fact that you don’t really know yourself. Ashley Abramson is a solution focused self love mentor and trauma coach who joins Seth and Pete to talk about the important journey you need to make – whether it’s before you get married, during your marriage, during your divorce, or after you’re single again – to figure out who you are and how to love yourself again.

Can you really love your spouse or kids without loving yourself first? Truly loving yourself the most at the end of the day is critical. You really don’t know what love is until you’ve learned to love yourself, as Ashley says. To be clear, self love means knowing who you are and why you do what you do. Getting curious. Bringing Awareness. Only through that can you truly know who you are.

Seth, Pete and Ashley also talk about not seeking happiness in something else because it can lead to issues, as well as a theory about why it’s important to never have anything that you’re not willing to lose. It’s a powerful conversation that may help you get to the bottom of your issues.

Plus, Seth and Pete take on a listener question about options when family court fails.

Links & Notes

• Ashley and Big Miracle Energy on the web, YouTube, and Patreon
• Find Ashley on LinkedIn, Instagram, or Facebook
• Ashley’s book The Journey to... bME
• Schedule a consult with Seth
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