Waking Up to Narcissism

Gaslight, Golden Child, and Growth: Understanding Narcissism vs Emotional Immaturity


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In this bonus episode of the "Waking Up to Narcissism Premium Q&A Podcast," host Tony Overbay, LMFT (host of the award-winning Virtual Couch podcast), dives deep into the core differences between narcissism and emotional immaturity. Sparked by a heartfelt letter from a listener, Tony breaks down the rare instances of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and contrasts it with the more common issue of emotional immaturity. He elaborates on the diagnostic criteria for NPD, the significance of whole object relations, and object constancy in maintaining emotional bonds. Highlighting an article by Eleanor Greenberg, the episode further discusses the truth behind NPD and shares coping strategies.


The episode unveils the intricate dynamics of narcissistic family systems, shedding light on the control, lack of boundaries, and roles like the 'golden child' and 'scapegoat.' Tony offers insights into the complexity of these relationships, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and seeking self-care. The episode is a valuable guide for anyone eager to grasp the nuances of narcissism, emotional immaturity, and the impact of both on relationships and self-perception.



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