How do you know when it’s time to say goodbye? Whether it’s a relationship or job or a living situation, the best goodbyes are the ones that come from a place of love, not destruction. 

In today’s episode, Michael and Star are opening up about their painful decision to close the chapter on their romantic relationship. Some of the topics they’ll cover in this episode are:

Goodbyes are a natural part of life and this episode encourages the idea that goodbyes can be good and peaceful. You can leave a situation full of gratitude and peace rather than resentment and destruction.

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As gay guys, our relationship with straight men can be quite complicated. In this episode, we’re exploring the complex connection between gay-straight male bonds, from platonic friendship to secret attractions. We'll also discuss common misconceptions and challenges that can arise when navigating these dynamics.

Some of the topics we’ll be covering are:

Whether you're a gay or straight, join us for this episode about exploring the nuances of gay-straight male connections. 

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In this episode, Matt speaks with Ken Reid, an attachment and trauma informed counsellor, about narcissism in the gay community. They unpack the intricacies of this topic from both perspectives; understanding the narcissistic person, as well as those who attract these types of people into their lives. Come learn what causes narcissism, how to deal with narcissistic people, and what you can do to heal the parts of you that are attracting narcissistic people.   

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In this episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we’re exploring a more playful and flirtatious side of ourselves as we dive headfirst into the captivating realm of crushes and attraction. Being "boy crazy," may seem frivolous but, today we are unfolding the intricate layers of emotions and experiences that come with navigating attraction.

As always, we are using our personal experiences to explore the unique dynamics of attraction, the thrill of infatuation, and the challenges that come with it. The questions we’re unpacking today are:

Join us for a candid conversation about the exciting, nerve-wracking, and sometimes surprising journeys of having a crush. Whether it's the electrifying feeling of butterflies or the vulnerability of unrequited love, this episode embraces the spectrum of emotions that make crushes a universal, yet uniquely personal, aspect of the human experience.

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In Part 2 of Finding Connection in the Gay Community, we shift the focus towards solutions, strategies, and the transformative power of authentic connections. If Part 1 delved into the challenges, Part 2 is all about fostering meaningful connections and platonic intimacy with other men.

In this episode, we provide tangible and actionable ways for our listeners to build and strengthen bonds within the gay community.  Some of the topics we’re covering:

Whether you're navigating a new city, exploring your identity, or simply seeking camaraderie, this episode provides a roadmap for building a supportive community around you.

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Join us for an intimate exploration into the common challenges and pain points that gay men encounter in our quest for connection within the gay community. Loneliness is a universal experience, but in this episode, we delve into the unique challenges that we face in our community such as:

This episode feels like a heartfelt conversation, sharing personal stories that aim to dismantle the stigma surrounding the struggle for connection. We discuss the multifaceted nature of loneliness within the gay community and how things aren’t always what they seem on the surface.

We aim to foster a deeper understanding of the pain of disconnection, and create a more empathetic dialogue around the challenges of finding connection within the gay community.

This is Part 1 of a two-part series, setting the stage for a continued exploration into the transformative power of authentic connections among gay men.

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In part 2 of this 2-part series, we are focusing on recovery from addiction, including the strategies that proved useful along our respective journeys, and the wisdom we’ve gained in the process.

Throughout the episode, we stress the importance of community and offer practical advice for those navigating recovery, while still acknowledging the unique challenges that we encounter along the way. Some of the topics we cover:

Part 2 of this series aims to empower listeners with knowledge, empathy, and hope on their journey toward a healthier, more authentic self.

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In part 1 of this 2-part series, we are exploring the complex and often unspoken realm of addiction and compulsive behaviour. In this episode, we are sharing our own experiences, including substance abuse and behavioral addictions.

In doing so, we hope to break the stigma surrounding addiction within the gay community, and foster a sense of understanding and support. Some of the topics we’ll be covering in this episode are:

Join us as we provide valuable perspectives on the intersectionality of gay identity and addiction.

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For many LGBTQ+ people, coming out to family is a pivotal moment and significant step toward self-acceptance and living authentically. However, regardless of your age, coming out to family members can be extra challenging due to cultural reasons, family dynamics, and a fear of not being accepted. 

Even once we have come out to our family members, we must navigate the delicate balance of how much access we give them into our gay lives, including our intimate relationships. In this episode, we’ll be exploring these questions and more: 

Listen in as we recount moments of fear, courage, and vulnerability in our pursuit of authentic self-expression and acceptance. 

If you or someone you know is looking for support, see the resources below or contact us at [email protected]. 

Resources

Coming Out Guide (for parents): https://www.strongfamilyalliance.org/parent-guide-gay/download

Coming Out to Your Parents (for LGBTQIA+): https://www.strongfamilyalliance.org/how-to-come-out-to-parents/

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In this extra special episode, Michael welcomes members of his own chosen family to explore the unique dynamics that make chosen families such an important part of the LGBTQ+ experience.

While providing a candid look at their own family dynamics, they delve into various subjects including:

Join us for this particularly personal episode as Michael and his family share thoughtful insights, intimate revelations, and amusing anecdotes.

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Michael DiIorio

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