Hey girl,

In this heartfelt episode, I sit down with the brilliant Dr. Thema to talk about the deeper emotional aspects of love and self-worth. We explore the importance of self-compassion, especially for women of color, and why so many struggle with being kind to themselves. We also discuss actionable ways to shift this mindset and the transformative power of self-forgiveness.

Matters of the heart go far beyond romantic relationships—they start with how we treat ourselves. Dr. Thema and I unpack the importance of self-compassion and self-forgiveness as the foundation for emotional wellness and loving connections. Stay tuned for more episodes focused on love, healing, and personal growth!

Dr. Thema Bryant BIO:

Dr. Thema Bryant is a psychologist, author, professor, sacred artist, and minister who is leading the way in creating healthy relationships, healing traumas, and overcoming stress and oppression. Dr. Thema is the author of the newly released bookMatters of the Heart(February 4, 2025; Penguin Random House) , which aims to empower readers to connect with themselves and to others, delving into topics such as control issues, emotional unavailability, practical activation activities, case studies, and teaching how toshift mindset and patterns around romance. Dr. Thema Bryant completed her doctorate in clinical psychology at Duke University and her post-doctoral training at Harvard Medical Center’s Victims of Violence Program. Upon graduating, she became the Coordinator of the Princeton University Share program, which provides intervention and prevention programming to combat sexual assault, sexual harassment, and harassment based on sexual orientation. She is currently a tenured professor of psychology in the Graduate School of Education and Psychology at Pepperdine University, where she directs the Culture and Trauma Research Laboratory. Dr. Thema is an ordained elder in the African Methodist Episcopal Church and leads the mental health ministry at First A.M.E. Church in Los Angeles. Most recently, she was the 2023 president of the American Psychological Association (APA) and is the host of The Homecoming Podcast.

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I sit down with financial educator Tiffany “The Budgetnista” to talk about one of the most important yet challenging aspects of relationships—money. We discuss how to navigate finances in dating, partnerships, and long-term commitments, while also sharing practical strategies for financial empowerment and security.

Finances can make or break a relationship, but with the right mindset and tools, money can be a source of strength rather than stress. Tiffany and I dive deep into how to navigate financial conversations with confidence and clarity. Stay tuned for more transformational relationships and financial advice!

BIO:

Tiffany "The Budgetnista" Aliche is America's favorite personal financial educator and
author of the New York Times Best Seller, Get Good with Money, and companion workbook,
Made Whole. Through her Get Good With Money Movement, she's helped over two million
women save, manage, and pay off hundreds of millions of dollars.
A former teacher for ten years with a Master's degree in Education, Tiffany was
instrumental in getting The Budgetnista Law (A1414) passed in January 2019, making financial
education mandatory for middle school students in New Jersey.
The Budgetnista is an NAACP nominee and the first Black woman to grace the cover of
Money Magazine (solo). She’s also been featured on Good Morning America, the TODAY show,
PBS, TIME, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, Reuters, ESSENCE Magazine,
FORBES, Fox Business, MSNBC, CNN. Tiffany is also featured as a financial educator in a
Netflix documentary “Get Smart with Money.”

Resources Mentioned in This Episode:

• Website: TheBudgetnista.com
• Get Good with Money Plan (course): GetGoodWithMoneyPlan.com
• Find out how to watch Tiffany's new show on PBS LINKED HERE

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I explore the concept of detachment in dating and why it’s a game-changer for creating healthy relationships. Many people approach dating with fear, anxiety, and a need for control, which often leads to disappointment and frustration. I break down what true detachment looks like and how embracing it can lead to more fulfilling connections.

Detachment in dating is one of the most powerful shifts you can make to create deeper, more meaningful connections. By letting go of the need to control and focusing on the present moment, you allow love to unfold naturally. Stay tuned for more transformational relationship advice!

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3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about what I used to do when I dated, check it out here.
   
   
   

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Coach Anwar

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Hey girl,

In this episode, I get personal as I share my past experiences in dating and how I mastered the art of making men fall in love with me. I also open up about my time living in Germany, exploring the cultural differences in dating and relationships. It’s a fascinating and insightful conversation for anyone curious about love, attraction, and cross-cultural experiences.

My experiences offer a unique perspective on dating, love, and cultural influences. Whether you're navigating relationships or exploring new romantic landscapes, my insights provide valuable lessons on connection and self-growth. Stay tuned for more episodes with powerful love and relationship advice!

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3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about Shirley’s journey to engagement, check it out here.
   
   
   

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Coach Anwar

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Hey girl,

In this episode, Coach Anwar sits down with Shirley, one of his clients, to discuss her inspiring journey to finding love. They explore the personal growth, mindset shifts, and actionable steps that Shirley took to finally meet her perfect match. It’s a heartwarming and insightful conversation for anyone looking for love or guidance on their romantic path.

Shirley’s journey is a powerful reminder that finding love starts within. With dedication, self-awareness, and the right guidance, it’s possible to rewrite your love story. Tune in to future episodes for more inspiring stories and actionable advice from Coach Anwar!

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2. Join the Get Your Guy Club- Wanna have Dating Support for a year to help you get your guy but at your own pace. You can get access to my 2 weekly group calls, my private Facebook group, Monthly 1on1 calls, and my online course with 40+ hours of content for just monthly payments of $300…
3. ​Check Out the Get Your Guy Coaching Podcast- With more than 100 episodes, you can binge and learn so much with my podcast. The latest episode is all about flirting 101 and talking yo’ish, check it out here.
   
   
   

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Coach Anwar

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Hey girl,

In this episode, we will dive into the art of flirting and mastering the confidence to "talk your ish." Discover how to use body language, playful banter, and authentic self-expression to create meaningful connections. Whether you're navigating the dating scene or just want to elevate your communication game, this episode is packed with tips and insights to help you stand out and make an unforgettable impression. Tune in and get ready to level up your charm!


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Hey girl, 

In this episode, you'll hear my unfiltered 2024 rants! From random thoughts on dating dynamics to fresh perspectives on love, relationships, and everything in between, these candid clips will have you nodding, laughing, and maybe even rethinking how you approach your love life. Get ready for real talk, bold insights, and a little tough love sprinkled with humor. Tune in—you don’t want to miss this!

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Hey girl,

In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on matchmaking and how to meet and talk to guys on Instagram. From setting up a profile that pops to getting guys to slide into your DMS with confidence, we’ll cover all the tips you need to build real connections. Plus, we’ll dish out the dos and don’ts to help you avoid awkward moments and keep it fun. Ready to level up your Instagram game? Let’s dive in!

BIO:

Kimberly is on a mission to help women discover meaningful and lasting relationships. Happily married for eight years (and counting!) to her husband in sunny Atlanta, Georgia, she knows a few things about love.

Specializing in working with successful women who are rocking their careers but haven’t quite found Mr. Right yet, Kimberly brings class, femininity, and a whole lot of heart to her coaching. Thanks to her savvy matchmaking skills, dozens of women have gone from single to engaged. As a wife and mom, she finds pure joy in helping her clients leap into loving relationships.

IG:https://www.instagram.com/thedatebetternetwork/?hl=en
Website: https://datebetternetwork.com/

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Hey girl,

In this episode, we dive into the complex emotions that come with reflecting on past dating mistakes. Whether it’s staying in the wrong relationship, struggling to communicate your needs, or feeling like you’ve made missteps along the way, we’ve all been there. But how do you move forward without the weight of regret holding you back?

Here’s what we’ll explore:
✨ Why it’s important to acknowledge and accept your past choices.
✨ Strategies to reframe your mistakes as valuable lessons.
✨ Tips for silencing that critical inner voice.
✨ How self-forgiveness can pave the way for healthier relationships.

It’s time to let go of the guilt and embrace a mindset of compassion and growth.

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Hey girl,  in this episode, we'll explore the transformative power of getting into your celebrity energy and embracing your role as the star of your own life. Join us as we chat with celebrity coach Whitney Uland, who shares her insights on how to tap into your main character's energy and become the person you're meant to be. Learn practical tips for boosting your confidence, embracing your unique qualities, and attracting the right people into your life. Tune in to discover how to shine brightly and live authentically in every aspect of your life.

BIO:
Whitney Uland is a celebrity life coach and course creator. In her signature mentorship program, The Self-Made Celebrity, she teaches clients around the world how to tap into their Celebrity Energy so that they can create the life and careers that they know they are meant for. For more information, find her on social media @whitneyuland or her podcast, How to Be Famous with Whitney Uland.

Check her out:
Website: https://www.howtobefamous.org/
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-famous-with-whitney-uland/id1512877614
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@whitneyuland3402
IG: @whitneyuland


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