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What’s the first thought in your head when you wake up and realize you “did it again?”
Beating yourself up and thinking that you’re back at “square one” only amplifies the hangover. And you probably think that’s exactly what needs to happen. Because you believe in punishment. Feeling bad is what motivates you to get your sh!t together.
And the problem is, that can work. For a while. You tuck your tail between your legs and wait for the anxiety to pass.
But shame-based motivation is a short-term solution. The better you do, the better you feel. And when your confidence returns, your commitment to the plan recedes. Because if failure must be punished, then success deserves a reward.
Welcome back to Square One. What the hell is wrong with you and why can’t you just stick to the plan?
Would you like to hear Plan B?
In this episode, discover:
The mistakes you’re making that perpetuate the cycle of self-sabotage.
The counterintuitive strategy for loving yourself through a hangover
How to avoid waking up at Square One, even when you over-drink
PLEASE NOTE: On November 13, the title of this podcast will change to It's Not About the Alcohol.
CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PODSQUAD for the relaunch of the It’s Not About the Alcohol podcast. You’ll be eligible to win a $100 Amazon gift card, a private coaching call with me ($300 value) OR a 12-week membership in The Next Chapter ($3000 value).
Register for my free masterclass to Stop Over-Drinking to learn my Accelerated Recovery Process@ to permanently resolve alcohol use disorder.
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What’s the first thought in your head when you wake up and realize you “did it again?”
Beating yourself up and thinking that you’re back at “square one” only amplifies the hangover. And you probably think that’s exactly what needs to happen. Because you believe in punishment. Feeling bad is what motivates you to get your sh!t together.
And the problem is, that can work. For a while. You tuck your tail between your legs and wait for the anxiety to pass.
But shame-based motivation is a short-term solution. The better you do, the better you feel. And when your confidence returns, your commitment to the plan recedes. Because if failure must be punished, then success deserves a reward.
Welcome back to Square One. What the hell is wrong with you and why can’t you just stick to the plan?
Would you like to hear Plan B?
In this episode, discover:
The mistakes you’re making that perpetuate the cycle of self-sabotage.
The counterintuitive strategy for loving yourself through a hangover
How to avoid waking up at Square One, even when you over-drink
PLEASE NOTE: On November 13, the title of this podcast will change to It's Not About the Alcohol.
CLICK HERE TO JOIN MY PODSQUAD for the relaunch of the It’s Not About the Alcohol podcast. You’ll be eligible to win a $100 Amazon gift card, a private coaching call with me ($300 value) OR a 12-week membership in The Next Chapter ($3000 value).
Register for my free masterclass to Stop Over-Drinking to learn my Accelerated Recovery Process@ to permanently resolve alcohol use disorder.
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