Today we're answering a listener question that we've been asking ourselves our whole lives: How TF does one get dressed (and, you know, feel good about what they're wearing)? Also: We grapple with the big challenges we're having with small talk.

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Check out Amy Smilovic, Katie Sturino, and Jenna Lyons-era J.Crew for styling tips. Another stellar rec from our editor Maddie: Allison Bornstein's TikTok.

If you have any small-talk tips (and advice for what to wear with Issey Miyake Pleats Please pants) we want them at 833-632-5463, [email protected], or @athingortwohq. For more recommendations, try out a Secret Menu membership.

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