It’s one of the most painful dating experiences: everything feels amazing… and then she disappears.

In this raw, relatable episode of Just Ask Her, we unpack three powerful submissions from men navigating ghosting, rejection, and confusion after what felt like real connection:

• Luke opens up about an overseas trip that changed everything with a woman he thought he was building something real with. Now she’s gone—no warning, no clarity—and he’s still holding on.

• Spencer shares the story of his whirlwind 4-date romance with a woman who seemed all-in—until she ghosted him after planning two more dates. What gives?

• Conor bravely tells us what it’s like being 30, never having been in a relationship, and constantly getting close—only to be shut out. He asks: What am I doing wrong, and how do I keep going?

💬 Gracie and Tracy go deep in this one, breaking down what ghosting really means, why it often has nothing to do with you, and what women are thinking when they pull away after connection. We also explore:

• What to do when you still have feelings but she cuts contact

• The truth about mixed signals and sudden disappearances

• Why “perfect dates” don’t always lead to commitment

• How to rebuild your confidence after being ghosted

• When (and how) to reach out again—or let go completely

Whether you’ve been left on read or still playing back every moment of your last date, this episode will give you clarity, closure, and hope.

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