April 29, 2025

Grief, Growth & Grit: Pearl on Losing Her Son and Learning to Live Again

38 minutes

Welcome to another heartfelt episode of Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads 💥—the podcast normalizing mental health conversations. This week, we talk with Pearl Chiarenza about grief, resilience, setting boundaries, and finding joy again.

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Mental Health Quote:

"Healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives."

Guest Bio - Pearl Chiarenza:

Pearl Chiarenza is a Mental Fitness Life Coach, author, speaker, and founder of the SHERO community, which hosts events and pajama retreats for women. Pearl empowers women to live unapologetically through mental fitness, self-care, and resilience. She’s a mom, a wife, and a fierce advocate for self-discovery.

Website: https://www.wsliving.com/

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/soulful-self-care-conversations/id1565952559

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pearl_chiarenza/

Facebook: https://www.wsliving.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKRrlLHaqK0FDKOl42jgZVA

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pearl-chiarenza-8269a8b/

Podcast Shoutout! 🎧

Go check out How to Be a Grownup by Caitlin & Jenny — funny, real talk for moms navigating the chaos of life! 🙌

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT

Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes

Key Takeaways:

Grief is not something you "get over"—you learn to live with it.

Setting boundaries is vital to protecting your mental health.

Healing is an active process: it requires therapy, community, and self-love.

Actionable Items:

Write your "Joy List"—10 things that genuinely make you happy.

Practice saying "No" without apology.

Stay connected with your support tribe.

Important Timestamps:

[00:00-05:00] Meet Pearl and Mental Health Journeys

[05:00-15:00] Coping with Grief and Family Toxicity

[15:00-25:00] Breaking Free from People-Pleasing

[25:00-30:00] Pearl’s Healing Practices

[30:00-37:00] Advice to Her Younger Self and Life Lessons

[37:00-End] Resources, Final Words, and Where to Find Pearl

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April 29, 2025

Grief, Growth & Grit: Pearl on Losing Her Son and Learning to Live Again

38 minutes

💬 We want your feedback! Please leave us a message (written or voice) at: https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a

Mental Health Quote:

"Healing doesn't mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives."

Guest Bio - Pearl Chiarenza:

Website: https://www.wsliving.com/

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/soulful-self-care-conversations/id1565952559

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pearl_chiarenza/

Facebook: https://www.wsliving.com/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKRrlLHaqK0FDKOl42jgZVA

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pearl-chiarenza-8269a8b/

Podcast Shoutout! 🎧

Go check out How to Be a Grownup by Caitlin & Jenny — funny, real talk for moms navigating the chaos of life! 🙌

Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-be-a-grownup-a-humorous-guide-for-moms-with-ck-gk/id1600435714

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/18bYm4GWnS5JKiKcTqRQsT

Website: https://www.ckandgkpodcast.com/episodes

Key Takeaways:

Grief is not something you "get over"—you learn to live with it.

Setting boundaries is vital to protecting your mental health.

Healing is an active process: it requires therapy, community, and self-love.

Actionable Items:

Write your "Joy List"—10 things that genuinely make you happy.

Practice saying "No" without apology.

Stay connected with your support tribe.

Important Timestamps:

[00:00-05:00] Meet Pearl and Mental Health Journeys

[05:00-15:00] Coping with Grief and Family Toxicity

[15:00-25:00] Breaking Free from People-Pleasing

[25:00-30:00] Pearl’s Healing Practices

[30:00-37:00] Advice to Her Younger Self and Life Lessons

[37:00-End] Resources, Final Words, and Where to Find Pearl

Subscribe, Rate, and Review!

⭐ Subscribe for more inspiring mental health conversations.

⭐ Rate and review us on your favorite platform or visit: https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews

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🌟 Help California Wildfire Victims 🌟

American Red Cross – Wildfire Relief: https://www.redcross.org/about-us/our-work/disaster-relief/wildfire-relief.html
California Community Foundation – Wildfire Recovery: https://www.calfund.org/funds/wildfire-recovery-fund/
California Fire Foundation – Wildfire & Disaster Relief: https://www.cafirefoundation.org/what-we-do/for-communities/disaster-relief/
GoFundMe – California Wildfire Relief: https://www.gofundme.com/c/act/wildfire-relief/california
Los Angeles Fire Department Foundation: https://supportlafd.org/

Your support, big or small, can help relieve those in need. Thank you for making a difference! 💛

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If You Need Support, Reach Out