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Welcome to today's episode! Today I explain the #1 reason why avoidants return after rejecting someone.

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► Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Why Avoidants Return

03:20 2 Minor Reasons for Returning

08:10 Avoidant's Ambivalence: Connection or Pulling Away?

12:10 The Rebound Phase

15:50 No 1 Reason They Return after Rejecting You (The Missing Puzzle Piece)

22:20 Building Interdependence

25:30 Breaking the Anxious-Avoidant Doom Cycle

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► Hi, my name is Robert! I make videos about how to build stable, secure relationships without losing yourself or waiting forever for the “perfect” partner. :)

► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.

I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.