Broadcaster Toby Anstis joins Sarah Davidson for a powerful and deeply personal conversation about adoption, identity, and the lifelong impact of early attachment wounds.

Toby shares what it was like growing up adopted alongside his twin sister, how the fear of rejection shaped his need to belong, and why therapy helped him better understand self-worth, emotional triggers, and relationship patterns. He also opens up about unhealthy relationships, emotional abuse, gaslighting, and the importance of recognizing red flags before they escalate.

This episode is an honest and uplifting reminder that healing is possible — and that belonging starts from within.

Guest Info / Where to Find Toby Anstis

• Heart Dance Breakfast Show: Mon–Fri, 7:00–10:00am
• Heart Club Classics: Fridays, 7:00–11:00pm
• Search: “Toby Anstis Heart Dance” or “Toby Anstis Heart Radio”

Today’s episode is sponsored by Hunters Solicitors, a firm based in central London specializing in family law. Having a supportive family law team by your side can make all the difference when you're facing major life decisions.

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Join us in this enlightening episode as we sit down with Corey Lyon Folsom, a renowned love and relationship coach. Discover the transformative power of soul statements and learn how to shift from clinging to bringing in your relationships. Corey shares his personal journey and insights on self-acceptance, self-love, and the importance of staying true to your values. Whether you're navigating a breakup or seeking deeper connections, this episode offers valuable guidance to help you find happiness and fulfillment.

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In this episode of Heartbreak to Happiness, divorce coach John Hardy joins us to unpack the complex ties between toxic relationships, addiction, and emotional trauma. Together, we explore how trauma bonds form, how addiction influences love and attachment, and what recovery really looks like after divorce. John offers practical guidance on rebuilding self-worth, setting boundaries, and surrounding yourself with the right support network to create lasting happiness.

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Sara Davison and sex educator Ruth Ramsay unpack the links between sex, self-care, and authentic arousal. Learn how to reclaim pleasure, overcome guilt, and reset your sex life in just six minutes. A must-listen for anyone healing from heartbreak or seeking deeper intimacy.

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In this powerful episode of Heartbreak to Happiness, Sara Davison sits down with Rebecca Waclawyj, founder of Brighter Future Mediation, neurodivergent entrepreneur, and survivor turned advocate for safe, trauma-informed conflict resolution.

Drawing on over 15 years in the criminal and family court system—and her own lived experience of divorce and separation—Rebecca offers a candid, critical look at mediation in the context of domestic abuse. Can mediation ever be safe when power imbalances exist? When is it a healing alternative, and when does it risk retraumatizing survivors?

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Psychotherapist, author, and former model Dr. Nadine Macaluso joins us to unpack what healing really looks like after high-profile chaos. Best known for her past marriage to stockbroker Jordan Belfort (“The Wolf of Wall Street”), Nadine has spent the last two decades helping clients understand trauma bonds, rebuild boundaries, and develop secure attachment.

In this episode, we break down the difference between love-bombing and genuine intimacy, how narcissistic dynamics form, and practical tools to recognize and exit toxic cycles. Nadine also shares what the film got right—and wrong—the realities of co-parenting after public scandal, and the somatic and relational practices she uses in clinical work.

Whether you’re navigating a difficult relationship or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers grounded, science-backed steps to move from survival to self-trust.

What You’ll Learn

• How to spot love-bombing vs. authentic intimacy
• Why trauma bonds form and how to break them
• The role of boundaries in healing and secure attachment
• Somatic techniques to calm the nervous system
• Co-parenting after public scandal: what actually helps
• What The Wolf of Wall Street got right (and wrong)

About Dr. Nadine Macaluso

Dr. Nadine Macaluso is a licensed psychotherapist and author specializing in relational trauma, narcissistic dynamics, and attachment repair. She draws on both clinical training and lived experience to help clients cultivate security, agency, and healthier relationships.

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Sara Davison welcomes coach Keren Eldad to unpack how trading perfection for purpose changes everything—from healing heartbreak to finding real, lasting happiness. Keren shares her personal transformation, the pitfalls of the perfectionism trap, and practical tools to redefine success on your own terms. You’ll hear how boundaries fuel confidence, why imposter syndrome loses power when you get clear on values, and how the Paws Principle can help you make better decisions with calm and intention.

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In this episode of Heartbreak to Happiness, host Sarah Davison welcomes fashion stylist, author, and influencer Kat Farmer (DoesMyBumLook40). Kat shares her journey through divorce, career reinvention, and life in the spotlight with honesty and humour.

Discover insights on:

• Navigating divorce and personal growth
• Building confidence and resilience in midlife
• Fashion, style, and embracing new opportunities

A must-listen for anyone facing change and looking for inspiration to rebuild with strength and authenticity.

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In this empowering conversation, Nicki Williams—founder of Happy Hormones for Life—shares her personal journey from battling exhaustion, weight gain, and hormonal imbalance to helping thousands of women reclaim their energy and confidence. Discover practical, natural strategies for navigating perimenopause and menopause, including diet and lifestyle changes, stress management, and targeted supplements. Whether you’re just starting to notice changes or are well into menopause, you’ll learn how to manage symptoms, restore balance, and embrace this transformative stage of life with confidence.

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What happens when betrayal leads to a deeper investigation—not just of a partner, but of the very systems meant to protect us?

Join us in this insightful episode of Heartbreak to Happiness as we sit down with Graham Beesley, a seasoned law enforcement professional with over 25 years of experience. Discover how Graham has navigated the complexities of both covert and overt policing—delivering some of the most high-profile investigations of the past two decades. From military service to private sector surveillance and police corruption inquiries, his story is one of resilience, purpose, and transformation.

Graham shares how it’s possible to prove infidelity without following, explains the critical difference between stalking and harassment, and offers a candid look into how manipulation, abuse, and technology intersect in modern relationships. He also breaks down your legal rights during police encounters, the harsh reality of institutional corruption, and how apps like Snapchat may be tracking your children 24/7.

Learn how Graham turned career challenges into meaningful work—and how he ultimately found happiness and fulfillment in uncovering the truth.

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