Hotter Than Ever

“Change is often uncomfortable and is almost always good.”

Today, we’re delving into a topic near and dear to our hearts: reentering the dating scene. This week, our hot listener is looking for Erin’s top three tips for women over 60 venturing back into dating. While the prospect of dating again may be uncomfortable, Erin is your trusty guide to transform this experience into a golden opportunity for self-discovery and, of course, a bit of fun.

Join us as Erin shares her essential tips for navigating the dating landscape during this exciting phase of life, including:

1. Treating your dating app profile as a marketing project to attract the best matches
2. Cultivating an open mind to potential matches you might not have considered
3. Turning virtual connections to real-life dates (and keeping it casual)

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Broad Collective

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“I am dedicated to having experiences that are aligned with my curiosity,”

Have you ever wondered what it’s like to attend a sex conference? Erin did the daring deed so that you wouldn’t have to. In this episode, Erin takes us on the wild ride that was attending the Vibe Expo, a trade show dedicated to sensory exploration, pleasure, play things, sensual ecstasy, and intimacy insights. Although it sounds right up Erin’s alley (and it is), it was still a step outside of her comfort zone. From Tiki-themed sex toys to BDSM gear, she shares the craziest highlights and the unexpected rewards, including:

1. The power of embracing your curiosity, even when it doesn’t fit in with societal norms
2. The fun in exploring business opportunities that align with your passions
3. The joy that comes with normalizing pleasure and celebrating sexuality

Have you been enjoying our new advice episodes this year? If you’re looking for advice about some aspect of life over 40, Erin is here to offer her thoughts on whatever you’re going through. DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show!

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Broad Collective

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“We need to revise our imagery of what elderhood looks like.”

Welcome back to another episode in the Hotter Than Ever advice series! In today’s episode, we’re tackling two hot listener questions around how to balance aging gracefully, while also looking youthful and attractive. We dive into the age-old debate: should we use Botox, plastic surgery and hair dye to keep looking young? Or do we embrace the full force of natural aging, wrinkles, gray hair, and all?

For Erin, it’s all about doing whatever makes you feel like the best version of yourself. Whether your version of sexy is getting a boob lift or letting your hair go full silver fox: you do you.

Join us for Erin's candid insights on beauty, aging, and navigating the labyrinth of societal expectations surrounding women's appearance. It's time to own your hotness at any age.

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Broad Collective

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“Female friends are treasures and they hold a mirror to one another in a way that no one else can.”

Do you have that ride-or-die friend who's witnessed your every transformation throughout years? That friend who will stay by your side and be supportive, loving, and nonjudgmental no matter the new paths you’re exploring? For our host Erin, that friend has been Amber Rickert—a licensed clinical social worker, psychotherapist, and trauma specialist and also Erin’s best friend for the past 30 years.

In this funny and touching episode, Erin and Amber take you on a journey through their friendship, from the freezing winter night they met in college to the present. This engaging conversation delves into the profound aspects of female friendships, and the supportive and nonjudgmental role they play in one another's lives. Together, they explore:

1. Discovering the generosity and kindness of women through their friendship
2. Sharing a love for adventure, risk-taking, and leading lives that defy convention.
3. Embracing their different approaches to relationships
4. Navigating conflicts through open communication and feedback
5. Supporting each other through diverse life choices, with a commitment to judgment-free acceptance
6. Candid discussions about their journeys with recovery programs
7. What it would be like to cohabitate together as they age

OUR GUEST: Amber Rickert, LCSW, MPH: Psychotherapist specializing in PTSD, developmental trauma, and couples therapy. With practices in Vermont and California, Amber is dedicated to transforming lives through the power of relationships. Focused on breaking through challenges, she helps clients navigate the unconscious mind. Passionate about the transformative energy of friendship and partnership, Amber believes in changing the world one relationship at a time.

Want more Amber? Find her online at www.amberrickert.com

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Broad Collective

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“Is it possible to mostly grieve your marriage before it ends?”

Welcome back to another episode in the Hotter Than Ever advice series! In these episodes, Erin gives her opinionated (but not professional) feedback on your questions and quandaries on everything from love, to sex, relationships, career, aging, ambition, divorce, and more!

In today’s episode, we’re tackling a listener question that Erin knows all too well: how soon is too soon to start dating after divorce? While some people in our listener’s corner have been telling her to give it time because it’s only been six months, she knew long before then that the marriage was over. Plus, there was no sex for the last year and a half.

Tune in for Erin’s advice based on navigating a very similar situation, and why post-divorce the perfect time to embrace your newfound freedom and play the field, but keep it light.

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Broad Collective

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“There's so much more in life on the other side of discomfort.”

We’re kicking this week off by discussing New Year’s resolutions. Not the clichés that fall by the wayside as quickly as they’ve started, but commitments that can lead to genuine growth and fulfillment.

While each of us is constantly evolving and changing every day of our lives, there’s something special about taking time to reflect on how we want to change going forward and getting clarity on our roadmap for the future. Join Erin as she shares her 2024 goals, including:

1. Faith that everything good is on its way personally, professionally, and in relationships
2. Creating more love, connection, friendship, and community
3. Setting clearer boundaries—especially post-divorce
4. Forging deeper intimacy, honesty, and self-expression in relationships
5. Continuing the path of sexual exploration and listening to your body
6. Pursuing the people and things that spark joy

Have you been enjoying our new advice episodes this year? If you’re looking for advice about some aspect of life over 40, Erin is here to offer her thoughts on whatever you’re going through. DM us on IG @hotterthaneverpod or text/leave a voicemail on the Hotter Than Ever Hottie Hotline at (323) 844-2303 and your question could end up on the show!

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Broad Collective

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“The money is the indicator of how much they care about keeping you.”

Welcome back to another episode in the Hotter Than Ever advice series! Informed by her very subjective POV and life experience, each week Erin takes a crack at answering your questions and quandaries on everything from love, to sex, relationships, career, aging, ambition, divorce, and more!

Today, we’re unpacking one listener’s corporate dilemma. She’s a seasoned tech professional who’s always been a top-performer, but recently found herself with no bonus or salary increase this year. Is she being pushed toward the door? Is it age bias? If corporate life has expired for us, how do we find the courage to opt-out of the bullshit? Tune in as Erin shares her POV from many years in the corporate world, including the importance of following the money, asking the right questions, and letting your intuition guide you to your next steps.

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Broad Collective

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“How do I keep his interest without scaring him away?”

Happy 2024 Hotties! We’re so excited to bring you our first (ever!) advice episode! Informed by her very subjective POV and life experience (as opposed to actual expertise) each week Erin addresses your questions and quandaries on everything from love, to sex, relationships, career, aging, ambition, divorce, and more!

In this episode we’re diving into a hot listener question about maintaining interest in a rekindled high school romance, post-divorce. Tune in as Erin shares her advice for success, including honest self-expression, clear communication, and letting go of what you can’t control.

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Broad Collective

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“Could I have a bigger imagination about this point in my life than I thought I might need to have?” Annabelle Gurwitch is no stranger to reinvention–or as she prefers to call it, adaptation. As an actress and TV show host turned best-selling author, she understands the importance of embracing change in order to shift your life circumstances. In her latest memoir “You're Leaving When? Adventures in Downward Mobility,” Annabelle chronicles one of those changes: her decision to welcome an unhoused couple into her home after becoming an empty-nester. This decision not only shifts many of her own beliefs, but also beautifully underscores the importance of discarding preconceived notions at the doorstep of understanding.

In this episode, Annabelle’s insights illuminate the intricacies of downward mobility, the pursuit of adaptation over reinvention, embracing creativity, and fostering community amidst personal and societal shifts. Annabelle’s ability to infuse humor into each of these subjects is just one of the many reasons you don’t want to miss this conversation. Here’s what’s on the table:

1. Defining ‘downward mobility’ and its impact on the middle class and women.
2. Navigating life and career changes with resilience and flexibility.
3. Embracing the unconventional path of being a creative and a freelancer.
4. Coping with missed opportunities and unexpected life turns.
5. Redefining the terms of relationships in midlife and post-divorce.
6. Understanding others' experiences and humanity without passing judgment.
7. Why small actions matter, even when the world’s problems feel overwhelming.
8. Creating enduring significance and meaning in life's choices through pursuing long-term goals.
9. The strength of friendships and community during tough times.

OUR GUEST: Annabelle Gurwitch, a New York Times Bestselling author, actress, and activist, skillfully blends humor and insight in her work. Her latest book, "You're Leaving When? Adventures in Downward Mobility," was a 2021 New York Times Favorite Book for Healthy Living and a Thurber Prize finalist in 2022. Her versatile career also spnas TV and film, from co-hosting TBS's "Dinner & a Movie" to roles in "Seinfeld" and "Dexter". Annabelle co-hosts the podcast "Tiny Victories" and lectures at institutions like The School of the New York Times. Her impact extends through patient advocate talks and recognition in the Museum of the Southern Jewish Experience.

Want more Annabelle? Find her online at https://www.annabellegurwitch.com/ and follow her on:

1. Instagram: @annabellegurwitch1
2. X/Twitter: @LAGurwitch
3. Facebook: @annabellegurwitchauthor

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Broad Collective

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“How much time do you think you have left?” Posed by friend and episode 6 guest, Sheri Salata, this question became part of Erin’s catalyst to launching Hotter Than Ever in April 2023. Since its inception, this podcast has been dedicated to empowering women to cultivate lives brimming with joy and authenticity. Thirty-six episodes and 25 interviews later, we couldn’t be more grateful for the community that has been built around this mission and the extraordinary conversations with countless incredible women that have followed.

As 2023 comes to a close, join Erin as she reflects on the year and shares her top 10 insights from guest conversations. We explore everything from sexuality, self-talk, and trauma to pursuing long-term goals and finding last joy. Here’s a glimpse of the takeaways:

1. Self-love: The antidote to countless life hurdles
2. The profound link between sexual empowerment and overall agency
3. Mastering your inner dialogue and silencing the self-critic
4. Learning to appreciate your perfectionism and ambition
5. Trauma is intergenerational and why it’s important to break the cycle
6. Looking inward to find the answers you’re looking for
7. The myth of quick fixes; the magic of meaning lies in long-term goals
8. The power in not only accepting, but embracing change
9. Discovering sources of enduring joy in your life
10. Crafting depth and meaning for lasting happiness

We’re also excited to announce an exciting update–Hotter Than Ever will be moving to two episodes a week starting in January 2024! If you have a question, an issue, or some aspect of your life you want advice on, reach out and we’ll chat through it on our new second weekly episode! Get in touch with us by leaving a voicemail or sending a text to the Hotter Than Ever Hotline at (323) 844-2303 or DMing us on Instagram @hotterthaneverpod.

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Broad Collective

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