Hotter Than Ever

Lisa Ann is a name synonymous with adult film fame, but her journey goes far beyond the screen. She has also been a talent agent, written two books, and is now a radio host for fantasy sports, including the "Lisa Ann Does Fantasy Bettor" show on Youtube. Lisa's story is one of resilience, reinvention, and empowerment. Her ability to navigate two vastly different worlds and emerge as a strong, influential figure is a testament to her determination and unwavering commitment to personal growth.

Join Erin as she delves deep into Lisa Ann's remarkable life story, from her early years as a teenager to her evolution from adult film stardom to becoming a respected voice in the world of sports radio and fantasy football, including the wisdom and life lessons she learned along the way. Get ready as we discuss:

1. Lisa Ann's journey to achieve three essential goals: traveling the world, achieving financial independence, and making her own schedule
2. Building a strong sense of self and learning to prioritize your own thoughts and values over others' opinions
3. How Lisa’s time in the p*rn industry helped foster her sexual self-discovery and taught her the importance of connection and communication in sex
4. Her unwavering advocacy for female empowerment and “interracial” representation within the adult entertainment industry.
5. Insights into the changing landscape of adult content, from strict regulations in the '90s to the rise of aggressive and degrading material in today’s online world
6. The complexities and risks of platforms like OnlyFans and the importance of online safety
7. Lisa’s transition into the world of fantasy sports–a lesson in maximizing the opportunities you’re given by doing your homework and working hard

OUR GUEST: Lisa Ann is an icon in the Adult Industry with over two decades of success. Her career spans from being the most searched adult star to feature dancing, producing, directing, and running a talent agency for adult performers. In 2014, Lisa Ann shocked the world with her retirement, driven by her newfound passion for SiriusXM Fantasy Sports Radio. She dominated the Fantasy Football scene, winning the SiriusXM Celebrity Host League in her debut year. Her retirement mantra was simple, "it’s time to get out of bed and put some clothes on!" Since her retirement, she has written two books, including her autobiography, "The Life," providing an unfiltered look into the world of an adult star. This marked the beginning of her love for writing and a world of opportunities.

Want more Lisa Ann? Find her online at https://thereallisaann.social/ and follow her on:

1. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thereallisaann/
2. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheRealLisaAnn/
3. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/thereallisaann
4. TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thereallisaann
5. Twitter: https://twitter.com/thereallisaann

WATCH “Lisa Ann Does Fantasy Bettor” every Wednesday night 7-9pm (ET) at https://www.youtube.com/@bettornetwork

LISTEN to “The Lisa Ann Experience” https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lisa-ann-experience/id1525220847

Lisa Ann’s BOOKs are:

1. “The Life”: https://thelifelisaann.com/products/the-life-by-lisa-ann
2. “The Life Back”: https://thelifelisaann.com/products/the-life-back-hardcover

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Broad Collective

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Can improv comedy be used as a tool to improve your life?

Drawing from her wealth of experience teaching improv to groups from nuclear physicists to CEOs, award-winning comedian, author, and speaker Katie Goodman demonstrates how the principles of improv can help you live more creatively, spontaneously, and courageously. Whether it’s learning to navigate the unexpected, being present with what’s right in front of us, or silencing your inner critic, Katie’s contagious enthusiasm and practical wisdom prove that there’s so much more that can be gleaned from improv than just making you laugh.

In this episode, Erin gets specific with Katie to extract those practical gems you can apply right now. Here's what's on the table:

1. The 8 ways improv comedy can serve as a practical tool for dealing with the unexpected, effective communication, being present, and more! Learn more HERE
2. How constraints can breed creativity
3. Gagging your inner critic and replacing it with an inner coach to guide your towards your goals and avoid the negative self-talk
4. Learning to embrace small changes and the thrill of ‘getting lost’ to uncover your authentic self
5. Showing up as our authentic selves, in both our professional and personal lives. Find your niche and rock it.

OUR GUEST: Katie Goodman is an acclaimed comedian, author, and speaker with a comedic career garnering 3+ million online views and TV appearances. She's the creator of "Broad Comedy," a national Off-Broadway touring show blending comedy and self-help, recognized by luminaries like Arianna Huffington, Comedy Central, and more. With a Philosophy degree from the University of Pennsylvania, Katie's diverse expertise led to her MacArthur Genius Grant nomination for theater work. With over two decades of experience, she's empowered 30,000+ individuals through improv comedy tools to enhance creativity, courage, and confidence. Beyond her New York City base, Katie travels nationwide, sharing her wisdom through speaking events, comedy shows, and corporate workshops, helping people thrive in handling life's challenges. She's also the author of "Improvisation For The Spirit," offering insights into leading a more creative, spontaneous, and courageous life using improv comedy techniques.

Want more Katie? Find her online at https://www.katiegoodman.com/ and follow her on:

1. IG: ​​https://www.instagram.com/thekatiegoodman/
2. FB: https://www.facebook.com/KatieGoodmanComedy/
3. Twitter: https://twitter.com/KatieGoodman

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Broad Collective

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Why do we care so much about what others think of us? We've all been there, meticulously curating our lives to be oh-so likable. But guess what? It's time to shed that people-pleasing skin and unleash our unfiltered, unapologetic, and authentic selves. In this episode, Erin fearlessly tackles the age-old conundrum of whether you'd rather be liked by everyone (yawn) or adored by those who truly get you. In a culture that breeds chameleons, it’s time to start being the neon unicorn you were born to be.

From middle school drama to navigating the corporate world, Erin shares laugh-out-loud anecdotes and hard-earned wisdom on why being your authentic self is not just liberating; it's downright magnetic. This includes:

1. Getting honest: are you willing to settle for being liked by many but not truly known, or do you crave deep connections with those who genuinely understand you?
2. Focusing on connecting with those who truly resonate with you, rather than the approval of the herd
3. Why your job in life is to be the best version of yourself and share your unique gifts with the world
4. How people-pleasing and faking happiness can limit your self-expression and personal growth
5. Cultivating a positivity bias and how it can help you attract the right people and opportunities

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Broad Collective

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When we say women over 40 are “Hotter Than Ever”, we mean it and so does Dr. Anna Cabeca. As a triple-board certified OBGYN, best selling author, and host of “The Girlfriend Doctor" podcast, Dr. Anna is on a mission to break the stigma that menopause means “it’s all downhill from here” and instead help women reclaim their vibrancy, sexuality, health, and happiness before, during, and after menopause. Through her multi-decade medical career and her own personal experiences, Dr. Anna has not only been able to successfully reverse her own early onset menopause and infertility, but help countless women thrive in this phase of life. It’s all part of what Dr. Anna refers to as getting in touch with your vitality during your “second spring” of life.

Join Erin and Dr. Anna in this insightful conversation as they discuss the importance of holistic health and reclaiming your agency to enjoy a healthier and happy life in your second spring when confronting menopause. Other topics include:

1. Discussing the gaps in women’s healthcare that Dr. Anna experienced first hand
2. How discovering ancient healing practices, medicinal foods, and lifestyle shifts that reversed Dr. Anna’s early menopause diagnosis and enabled her to naturally conceive a child at 41
3. How a “food as medicine” approach and the mind-body connection play crucial roles in women's health and challenge conventional medicine
4. Empowering oneself to take control of their health and address root causes rather than merely managing symptoms
5. Debunking menopause myths and shedding light on perimenopause
6. Bio-identical hormones and the potential for rejuvenation during menopause
7. How removing stress, choosing positivity, and reconnecting with love and intimacy can help you become happier and healthier in menopause

OUR GUEST: Anna Cabeca, DO, OBGYN, FACOG, is best selling author of The Hormone Fix and Keto-Green 16 and MenuPause . Dr. Anna is triple-board certified and a fellow of gynecology and obstetrics, integrative medicine, and anti-aging and regenerative medicine. She holds special certifications in functional medicine, sexual health, and bioidentical hormone replacement therapy. She lectures frequently on these topics throughout the world to large audiences and is known nationally as The Girlfriend Doctor and is host of The Girlfriend Doctor show. She has personally developed natural products to help women balance hormones and thrive through menopause including the highly acclaimed Julva® cream for the vulva and MightyMaca® Plus , a powerful superfood blend. She now lives in Dallas with her daughters, horses and dogs.

Want more Dr. Anna? Find her and her products online at https://drannacabeca.com/ and follow her on:

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2. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thegirlfrienddoctor/
3. YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmWLoqXyvtSyylB7bjCipnA

You can find her books at:

1. The Hormone Fix https://drannacabeca.com/products/the-hormone-fix
2. Keto-Green™ 16: https://drannacabeca.com/products/keto-green-16
3. MenuPause: https://drannacabeca.com/pages/f-menupause-sneak-peek-opt-in

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Broad Collective

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“If you’re breathing, you’re sexual.” Dr. Juliana Hauser is on a mission to connect people with their essence – their truest self – through uncovering, demystifying, and reclaiming their unique sexuality. Through her work as a sex therapist and educator with countless clients, Dr. Juliana has demonstrated how showing up for yourself in the bedroom can help you show up for yourself in EVERY corner of your life.

In this episode, Erin and Dr. Juliana strip away societal taboos, inviting you to explore the hidden depths of your desires and rediscover your sexual agency to lead a happier and more fulfilled life. Other topics include:

1. Why sexuality is both a core expression of us and a core experience for us
2. Defining “holistic sexuality” and how it encompasses sensuality, connection, love, intimacy, desire, and pleasure
3. Sexual agency, and how it helps you better understand who you are and seek what you want in life, unapologetically
4. Rediscovering your desires by breaking free from societal expectations
5. How hearing “no’s” can help you better trust “yes’s”
6. How to apply skills from your sex life into other parts of your life (and vice versa!) to create success and fulfillment
7. Creating a sex plan and changing the discourse around sex
8. What sexual fantasies can tell us about ourselves and why they shouldn’t be judged

OUR GUEST: Dr. Juliana Hauser, is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT), licensed professional counselor (LPC), and holds a PhD in Counseling Education. As a seasoned therapist and educator with a focus on sex positivity, she's authored sex-positive programs for Planned Parenthood, managed a halfway house, and worked with sexual abuse survivors and abusers. Her conversational therapy style has earned her the nickname 'you’re like my best girlfriend…with a PhD.' Join Dr. Hauser in her mission to spread holistic, non-intimidating sex positivity worldwide.

Want more Dr. Juliana? Find her online at https://dr-juliana.com/ and follow her on:

1. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjulianahauser/
2. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drjulianamorris/

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Step into the mystical as we delve into the realm of the "Woo". Erin ponders the enigmatic world of modern spirituality, offering a fresh perspective on astrology, human design, crystals, manifestation, intention setting, mantras, altars, and the belief that everything happens for a reason. Basically, Erin sorts all the bullsh*t that can come with contemporary interpretations of these practices, so you don’t have to. And once the dust settles, it becomes clear the power these tools can hold in helping us show up as our best selves each day and in savoring the present.

In this episode, Erin shares why after a long relationship with skepticism, she has since dubbed herself “Woo-Adjacent”, covering topics like:

1. Embracing the Woo: How contemporary spirituality offers an alternative to conventional religion
2. Astrology Alchemy: Erin’s secret horoscope obsession and how even the most rational minds can find solace and guidance in the stars
3. Manifestation Magic: The power of intention setting and vision boards in shaping your dreams and desires into reality
4. Mantras and Altars: Unearthing the significance of daily rituals and grounding practices that empower your journey toward authenticity
5. Force vs. Flow: Shifting from a mindset of control and force to one of ease and trust in the universe's guidance
6. Embracing the Unknown: Exploring the mysterious third path where life's surprises and opportunities unfold

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Magic mushrooms? Psychedelics? Microdosing? Drugs once considered countercultural are being reinvented as part of the plant medicine movement. As Tracey Tee, the founder of “Moms on Mushrooms” (M.O.M) explains, it’s perhaps the best ‘assistant’ you can find when it comes to your unique healing and personal growth. In a world overwhelmed by information and distractions, Tracy helps women forge a new path to reconnect with their hearts and true selves through the power of psychedelics.

Whether you're a seasoned advocate or a curious skeptic, join Erin as she delves into this eye-opening conversation with Tracy, who takes us on a journey from the depths of COVID-induced despair to the transformative power of micro-dosing with magic mushrooms, including:

1. Tracy’s journey, from co-creating "The Pump and Dump Show" for moms to her current role in the plant medicine movement
2. What is micro-dosing and how does it differ from traditional therapies?
3. Magic mushrooms’ role in mental wellness and personal growth
4. Changing the approach to mental health to empower individuals to take charge of their healing journey.
5. The cultural shift surrounding plant medicine and its potential to offer new perspectives on life, emotions, and inner peace.
6. Importance of community, intention, and readiness for change in the context of personal growth.
7. Exploring the skepticism about "woo”, while acknowledging its potential for healing and growth
8. Challenging preconceptions and encourages self-compassion, exploring the transformative power of psychedelics.

OUR GUEST: Tracey Tee, active in the momosphere for over a decade, co-created The Pump and Dump Show, starred in its nationally touring comedy, and co-produced the Band of Mothers Podcast. She's also the CEO of Band of Mothers Media. Inspired by her own psilocybin journey during the pandemic, in 2022, she launched M.O.M. (Moms on Mushrooms), an online microdosing course for moms. Tracey's mission is to unite mothers through plant medicine for personal growth and healing. M.O.M. has gained widespread recognition, featuring on NPR, Today Show, Piers Morgan, Rolling Stone, CBS Saturday Morning, PBS, Colorado Public Radio, NBC News, and Romper Magazine. Tracey resides in Denver, Colorado, with her husband of 21 years and their 12-year-old miracle daughter. She aims to create a conscious, Sacred Feminine-inspired model of doing business.

Want more Tracey? Find her online at https://www.momsonmushrooms.com/ and follow her work on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/momsonmushroomsofficial/

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Broad Collective

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Despite traveling to 102 countries and scuba-diving with shark countless times, writer and travel expert Lisa Niver wouldn’t call herself “brave”. She prefers “brave-ish”. As Lisa explains in her memoir Brave-ish: One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty, cultivating bravery is like planting seeds—it takes patience and practice to see it grow. Years later, the fruits of those seeds have led Lisa on an incredible journey of self-discovery, adventure, and transformation.

In this captivating episode, Lisa reminds us that it’s never too late to live our own "Brave-ish" life, explore the world, and create the life we dream of. In addition, Erin and Lisa discuss:

1. Lisa's transformation and liberation after getting divorced at 47
2. Her pursuit of 50 new adventures before turning 50 and the lessons she learned along the way
3. The significance of self-care, rest, and reflection in achieving personal growth
4. Redefining bravery as a muscle that grows through practice and facing fears
5. The power of embracing change, stepping out of our comfort zones, and taking challenges head-on
6. The importance of honest self-assessment, finding balance between adventure and community
7. Crafting a unique, unconventional life path

OUR GUEST: Lisa Niver, an award-winning travel expert, has explored 102 countries on six continents. A University of Pennsylvania graduate, she spent seven years sailing with cruise lines like Princess Cruises and Royal Caribbean, and three years backpacking across Asia. Her articles appear in esteemed publications like AARP and WIRED, and she hosts the podcast Make Your Own Map, featuring interviews with figures like Deepak Chopra and Olympic medalists. With multiple journalism awards and finalist recognition, Niver is also a #3 travel influencer in 2023. She shares her insights on KTLA TV, YouTube (2 million views), and in her memoir "Brave-ish, One Breakup, Six Continents and Feeling Fearless After Fifty."

Want more Lisa? Find her online at http://wesaidgotravel.com/ and follow her on:

1. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisaniver
2. TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisaniver
3. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisa.niver
4. Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisaniver
5. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LisaNiver
6. Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/wesaidgotravel/
7. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisaellenniver/

You can find her book at: https://lisaniver.com/braveish/

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What do you do when you are faced with the choice between leaving a life you love or leaving yourself behind? These are the questions that essayist, professor, and mother Kelly McMasters explores in her memoir The Leaving Season, as she details her remarkable journey from being a sophisticated writer in New York City to a rural mom of two in Pennsylvania. It was in this transition that Kelly came to define her unique relationship to motherhood, find liberation in divorce, and discover the beauty that comes with choosing yourself and unapologetic happiness.

Join us for a deeply emotional and powerful conversation, as Kelly and Erin explore themes of love, loss, transformation, motherhood, self-discovery, and freedom, including:

1. Breaking free from a life that no longer allows you to be you
2. Raw emotions of motherhood: when you don’t think of yourself as a “natural mother”; the freeing feeling of becoming a single mother after divorce
3. The fantasy of marriage and how it masks the reality of what happens when relationships grow apart
4. Complexities of divorce, finding critical distance, and softening anger from past relationships
5. Reinvention as a mother and finding empowerment on your own terms
6. Dating after divorce: creating a relationship in a way that works best for you and letting go of the fantasy
7. What it means to no longer apologize for using your voice

OUR GUEST: Kelly McMasters is an essayist, professor, mother, and former bookshop owner. She is the author of several books including her recent memoir-in-essays The Leaving Season, and co-editor of the ABA national bestseller Wanting: Women Writing About Desire (Catapult, 2023). Her essays, reviews, and articles have appeared in The New York Times, The Washington Post Magazine and The Paris Review. Kelly serves as an Associate Professor of English and Director of Publishing Studies at Hofstra University.

Want more Kelly? Find her online at www.kellymcmasters.com and follow her on:

1. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelly_mc_masters/
2. Facebook: www.facebook.com/kelly.mcmasters.3

You can find her books at:

1. The Leaving Season: A Memoir in Essays: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-leaving-season-kelly-mcmasters/1142386744
2. Wanting: Women Writing About Desire: https://bookshop.org/p/books/wanting-women-writing-about-desire-margot-kahn/18576719?ean=9781646220113

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Broad Collective

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What does it mean to find “the lid to your pot?” Bela Gandhi, founder of Smart Dating Academy, shares her journey from business school to unlocking her gift for igniting meaningful connections. From her work with countless clients, Bela delivers insights on love, attachment, and embracing the best version of ourselves on the journey to finding lasting happiness.

Bela takes the reins as your love life's personal trainer in this transformational conversation with Erin. They delve deep into relationships, from the evolutionary roots of our romantic preferences, to the impact of family dynamics on dating patterns, and so much more, including:

1. Unmasking the truth behind relationship failures
2. Why someone “good on paper” is not always worth the paper it’s written on
3. The fascinating role of DNA in our dating preferences, including the allure of tall men
4. Understanding the difference between what we think we want vs. what we truly need for lasting love
5. Discovering your "elevator people" and aligning happiness with potential partners
6. Breaking free from destructive relationship cycles fueled by family of origin dynamics
7. Debunking misconceptions about attraction and chemistry
8. Why we’re acculturated to want the wrong things in a relationship
9. Why Bela has her clients wait 15+ dates before exploring physical intimacy (WHAT?!) and the importance of standing in your emotional strength
10. Redefining relationships as fundamentally contractual and knowing when to renegotiate those contracts

OUR GUEST: Bela Gandhi is a born cupid with a gift for helping people find love. Her matchmaking journey began in college when she had a lightning bolt moment, predicting a perfect match for her roommate who eventually got married and had beautiful kids. While getting degrees in Finance and German and working in Mergers & Acquisitions, Bela's passion for matchmaking persisted. After her family business was acquired, she founded Smart Dating Academy in 2009, incorporating online dating into her proven process. Now, with a life she adores, a fantastic husband, and two amazing kids, Bela is dedicated to spreading love and helping others find their perfect match.

Want more Bela? Find her online at http://www.smartdatingacademy.com/ and follow her on:

1. Smart Dating Academy Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/smart-dating-academy-the-podcast/id1583496218?uo=4
2. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyIAVW4NhaLg7TbTJSVZlew
3. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/smartdatingacademy/
4. Twitter: https://twitter.com/BelaGandhiLove
5. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/smartdatingacademy

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Broad Collective

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