The Mel Robbins Podcast

How Do I Learn to Love Myself, Really?


Listen Later

Whatever you're doing right now, stop and make time for this conversation.

 

Every single day, I get questions from listeners about self-love, self-hatred, and what it actually means to like yourself.

 

I understand why it’s confusing. 

 

The topic of self-love is so broad, and there is very little actionable advice on how exactly you learn to like yourself, especially if you’ve spent your whole life being hard on yourself.

 

So don’t worry, I’ve decided to attack this topic of self-love in a completely unique, surprising, and tactical manner. This is also one of the most personal episodes I’ve released because I’m inviting you to join a conversation I’m having with our 17-year-old son, Oakley.

 

This is not a “podcast interview.” This is an intimate conversation between a mother and a son about the most important topic you could discuss: self-love. 

 

When Oakley was in middle school, he hated himself, and as his mom, it was awful to see him so lonely and sad. In today’s conversation, he shares things with me about this time in his life that I never knew.

 

And more importantly, we unpack the moment he had an epiphany that changed everything.

 

You will absolutely relate to everything he shares and his reflections about it.

 

I’m so proud to share this conversation with you. You will be blown away because you’ll not only feel like you’re part of our family, but we’re also welcoming you into our hearts.

 

You will laugh out loud, even though your heart might break a little. And by the end of it, you’ll have not only wisdom, but also a couple of simple tools to help you learn how to like yourself a little more.

 

This conversation is a must-listen for EVERYONE in your life. And especially for young adults because when they hear these insights from someone their age, it’s way more compelling than getting advice from an adult.

 

I do want to be up front about one thing: Oakley is 17 and like most 17-year-olds, whether they do it in front of you or not, he has a case of the F’s, meaning he drops the F-word a fair number of times, and I made a decision to record it as is and allow him to speak freely.

 

And, I just can’t emphasize enough how much insight this is going to give you into your own relationship with yourself.

 

I hope you will make the time to spend a half hour with the two of us, because I know you will leave feeling seen, understood, and liking yourself a little better.

 

I cannot wait to hear what you learn.

 

Xo Mel 

 


For complete show notes, go to melrobbins.com


Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

The Mel Robbins PodcastBy Mel Robbins

  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7
  • 4.7

4.7

12,947 ratings


More shows like The Mel Robbins Podcast

View all
Comedy Bang Bang: The Podcast by Earwolf and Scott Aukerman

Comedy Bang Bang: The Podcast

13,212 Listeners

The Mindset Mentor by Rob Dial

The Mindset Mentor

13,620 Listeners

The Sporkful by Dan Pashman

The Sporkful

3,938 Listeners

The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes

The School of Greatness

21,193 Listeners

The Rachel Hollis Podcast by Three Percent Chance

The Rachel Hollis Podcast

16,668 Listeners

Oprah's Super Soul by Oprah

Oprah's Super Soul

31,971 Listeners

Ologies with Alie Ward by Alie Ward

Ologies with Alie Ward

24,318 Listeners

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett by DOAC

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

8,877 Listeners

Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee by Dr Rangan Chatterjee: GP & Author

Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee

3,944 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

27,679 Listeners

No Dogs in Space by The Last Podcast Network

No Dogs in Space

2,223 Listeners

The Walkout by SiriusXM

The Walkout

186 Listeners

Park Predators by audiochuck

Park Predators

17,887 Listeners

Coaches Clubhouse by SiriusXM

Coaches Clubhouse

32 Listeners

SmartLess by Jason Bateman, Sean Hayes, Will Arnett

SmartLess

58,081 Listeners

Rise and Schein by SiriusXM

Rise and Schein

111 Listeners

Aussie Football Rules America with Eddie McGuire by SiriusXM

Aussie Football Rules America with Eddie McGuire

24 Listeners

Huberman Lab by Scicomm Media

Huberman Lab

29,257 Listeners

Dear Gabby by Gabby Bernstein

Dear Gabby

6,103 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

We Can Do Hard Things

41,556 Listeners

Book Club with Michael Smerconish by SiriusXM

Book Club with Michael Smerconish

94 Listeners

Shattering Gleam: A Podcast About Music and Gender by SiriusXM

Shattering Gleam: A Podcast About Music and Gender

18 Listeners

LPN Deep Dives: Crescent City by The Last Podcast Network

LPN Deep Dives: Crescent City

427 Listeners

The Daily Motivation by Lewis Howes

The Daily Motivation

915 Listeners

Owned with Rex Chapman by SmartLess Media

Owned with Rex Chapman

163 Listeners

The Jamie Kern Lima Show by Jamie Kern Lima

The Jamie Kern Lima Show

2,638 Listeners

A Really Good Cry by iHeartPodcasts

A Really Good Cry

276 Listeners

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast by Civility Media

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

8,372 Listeners

The Bone Whisperers by SiriusXM & NYU Langone

The Bone Whisperers

28 Listeners

Victoria & Friends by SiriusXM

Victoria & Friends

18 Listeners

Sidebar: A Suits Watch Podcast by SiriusXM Podcasts

Sidebar: A Suits Watch Podcast

789 Listeners

Smith Sisters Live Deep Dive by SiriusXM

Smith Sisters Live Deep Dive

86 Listeners

The Oprah Podcast by Harpo

The Oprah Podcast

1,554 Listeners

The Trendcast by SiriusXM Media

The Trendcast

2 Listeners