When men try to make their personality more attractive, they make a fatal error. They think that incorporating more attractive qualities “cancels out” their true self. 

But this isn’t the case. Personality traits can be developed like skills — like learning math or shooting a basketball. And when you make this mindset shift, you can become more attractive without sacrificing your true self. 

In this episode, I reveal how to boost your attractiveness without losing yourself. Listen now. 

Show Highlights Include:

• How to fuse with a more attractive personality type without sacrificing your true self (3:31) 
• The weird way a divorce in your 20s “forces” you to become good with women (5:48) 
• Why shaming your quirky parts of your personality make finding love harder (8:41) 
• The insidious way pickup artist advice can work in the short term, but sacrifices your chance at finding true love later (13:40) 
• Why it’s flat-out impossible to have a long-term relationship without confronting your repressed parts of your psyche (14:45) 
• The “LASAE Method” for becoming as attractive as Brad Pitt (even if you look nothing like him) (20:57) 
• How being assertive and easy-going at the same time makes you the most attractive man in any room you walk into (22:32) 
• 21 scientifically-proven personality traits that make women swoon over you (23:32) 
• The counterintuitive reason women prefer introverts over extroverts (39:12) 

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