A relationship is an investment from both parties. When these investments tip to one side or another, it plants the seeds of resentment and destruction. 

This is why nice guys and people pleasers who bend over backwards for their partner find themselves cheated on and heartbroken. While bad guys get the girl (even though it doesn’t blossom into true love).

The best way to ensure a relationship is growth-oriented and fulfilling is by balancing the investment scales. But how do you do this in a non-manipulative way? 

That’s what we discuss in today’s episode. Besides discovering how to balance a relationship’s investments, you’ll also learn common pitfalls men make that tank their attractiveness, how to improve your self-worth, and why setting boundaries allows love to blossom. 

Listen now. 

Show Highlights Include:

• How men unknowingly plant seeds of resentment in their relationships when they commit this mistake… (1:15) 
• Why buying your girlfriend the most expensive ring in your budget may cause her to get cold feet (5:54) 
• The counterintuitive reason only aiming for sex in a relationship ensures you don’t have it or a deeper connection with women (17:17) 
• A few ways to increase your girlfriend’s investment in your relationship and strengthen your connection (17:47) 
• The “Trading Technique” to use on your first few dates that makes your date dream about you when she falls asleep (21:34) 
• Why endless pampering ruins almost as many relationships as cheating (24:51) 
• The single most effective “Attraction Amplifier” that most men are afraid to use (27:44) 
• How you plummet your perceived value after a date goes well (29:21) 

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I’ve helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I’m therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to take this quick quiz to access my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://dtphd.com/quiz now.

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