Episode #10: The Other "L" Word No One Wants To Talk About

Introduction

In this thought-provoking episode of The Hilary Silver Podcast, Hilary takes on the epidemic of loneliness, which she calls "the other L word." Exploring the nuances between situational and existential loneliness, Hilary shares insights on how we contribute to our own feelings of isolation by not allowing true, authentic connections in our lives. She challenges listeners to reconsider how intimacy can be fostered not just with those close to us, but in everyday interactions with everyone.

Episode Highlights

• Understanding Situational vs. Existential Loneliness: Hilary defines two types of loneliness and discusses their impacts.

Episode Breakdown

[00:00:36-00:01:02] Introduction to the topic of loneliness, termed as "the other L word."

[00:01:42-00:02:19] Discussion on situational loneliness: circumstances where one may feel lonely due to changes in their social environment.

[00:03:04-00:04:02] Exploration of existential loneliness: feeling alone despite being in social settings or relationships.

[00:06:09-00:07:01] Real-life examples of how to solve existential loneliness through deeper connections.

[00:07:01-00:09:03] The challenges of making new friends as an adult and the deeper problem of existential loneliness.

[00:17:58-00:18:10] Closing thoughts: encouragement to face the internal fears that lead to loneliness.

Listener Takeaways

• Recognize the Type of Loneliness: Identifying whether your loneliness is situational or existential can guide you in addressing it effectively.

This episode is a powerful reminder that while loneliness is a common human experience, the power to change our circumstances always lies within our own actions and choices.