Congruent with Lisa Carpenter | The truth beneath success. Why it never feels like enough.

How to Say No Without Feeling Like a B*&#@


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Are you comfortable saying no to people when you want to? Or do you take on things you don’t want so that others won’t call you a b*&#@? Your energy is your #1 priority, but lacking boundaries leaks it from you like a sieve. It’s your responsibility to plug in the holes.

So in this episode, I talk you through setting clear boundaries and share some of my own stories. I also cover how to deal with your guilt and other people’s reactions when you draw that uncrossable line in the sand. The reward waiting for you on the other side is not only worth it but also serves as a stepping stone toward having a wonderful relationship with yourself first!

4:58 - What boundaries are not about

7:08 - What happened the 1st time I set a big boundary with someone close to me

10:34 - Examples of what weak boundaries look like

17:11 - Beware of using boundaries for these reasons

24:46 - What boundary setting requires from you

30:12 - How to apply this Brené Brown quote when setting boundaries

35:03 - What you teach others when you fail to follow through on your boundaries

39:20 - Things you can and can’t control when setting your boundaries

42:38 - Takeaways to help you start setting boundaries

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