Hot and Unbothered

How to Stop Obsessing Over Boys & Start Obsessing Over You: self respect, validation + individuality


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You’re not crazy, clingy, or broken—you’ve just been conditioned to believe your worth is tied to someone else choosing you.

In this episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host, Brianna Gomez, dives deep into the self-worth shift that changes everything. We’ll unpack why we lose ourselves in situationships, how to break the cycle of obsessing over men, and what it really means to choose YOU—first and fully. You’ll learn how to recognize when your attention is leaking, how to detach and how to turn your emotional energy inward—into self-respect, peace, and power.

If you’ve ever felt like you're giving too much and losing yourself in the process, this is your reminder: you are the prize. And the glow-up begins the moment you stop chasing and start remembering who you are. Your worth was never up for debate. Your peace is not a negotiation. And your obsession belongs back on your healing, your habits, and your highest self.

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See you next Bri-day!

xo, Bri 💌

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