Think you’re “too much,” “too independent,” or “too intimidating” for love? You’re not. You’re just done playing small!

In this episode, Hilary Silver sits down with Ready for Love grad Kara Judd, a powerhouse executive who finally got honest about what was really holding her back in relationships. Kara opens up about how she stopped blaming her success, her height, and her “strong personality,” and started doing the deeper work, rewriting the stories that kept her settling for less.

Now she’s in a healthy, equal relationship built on respect, communication, and growth. This isn’t a fairy tale, it’s what happens when you heal your patterns and show up as your real self.

Episode Highlights:

Why accomplished women still feel insecure in love

How subconscious beliefs shape attraction and dating patterns

Kara’s process for rewriting old stories and showing up differently

What a truly equal relationship looks like after doing the work

Why being “too much” is actually your greatest strength

The difference between being chosen and choosing yourself

Episode Breakdown:

00:00 Kara’s Love Story and Dating Breakthrough

03:10 How Childhood Beliefs Sabotage Love

05:26 The Wake-Up Moment That Changed Everything

08:45 Attracting a High-Quality Man After Healing

12:30 Boundaries, Space, and Real Connection

15:22 From Self-Sabotage to Self-Worth

18:44 How Confidence Changes Love

21:10 Real Love Starts with Self-Honesty

Tune in and find out what really changes when you stop settling and start showing up fully.

✨ I’m Hilary Silver, LCSW, former psychotherapist turned master coach and founder of Ready for Love. I help high-achieving women show up in love as confidently as they do in their careers.

💡 Through this podcast, I share my WOMAN-centered, SELF-centered approach—time-tested methods that blend psychology, brain science, relationship skills, and no-BS dating advice.

🎙️ Since 2017, we’ve helped over 10,000 women with a 98% success rate, making Ready for Love the #1 program in the world for women who’ve tried everything else.

✨ Ready to stop repeating the same patterns and finally create the love you deserve? 

🎯 Watch my free masterclass to learn the proven 4-step Ready for Love Method: https://readyforloveinc.com/masterclass

💬 Apply for a free Love Breakthrough Call with my team: https://readyforloveinc.com/apply

Connect With Kara Judd:

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kara-judd-4477a01/

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