There’s often a fine line between love and neediness, especially for men. Women have a sixth sense to sniff out neediness, which can leave you confused and unconvinced unconditional love even exists. 

But when you look closely into the differences between love and neediness, you’ll see how diametrically opposed these two states are. 

Love comes from a place of abundance, neediness from lack. Love is based on internal validation, neediness on external validation. 

But if you can’t even tell the difference between the two, it’s impossible to bridge the gap from neediness to love. 

So, how can you bridge the gap and transform neediness into love? 

In today’s episode, you’ll discover the difference between love and neediness, practical steps to cultivate self-love and suffocate neediness, and how to nurture unconditional love in relationships (even if neediness rears its ugly head).

Listen now. 

Show Highlights Include:

• How to spot the early signs of neediness before they wreck your chances of finding true love (1:43) 
• The subtle mindset shift that frees you from the toxic stranglehold of neediness and warps you into love (4:51) 
• Do you cringe when you find yourself becoming needy? Here’s how to bridge the gap between neediness and love (6:08) 
• Why people pleasers struggle the most at finding unconditional love (and how to avoid common mistakes people pleasers make—even if you are one) (8:29) 
• How healthy boundaries prevent unconditional love from morphing into unconditional neediness (10:54) 
• The indestructible two-step antidote to neediness (12:30) 
• This book will not only stop your neediness in its tracks but also helps you build unconditional self-love (18:50) 
• Practical “self-reflection” steps that steer you away from neediness and open the door to true, unconditional love (25:18) 
• How to transform neediness into an opportunity to deepen communication in relationships (28:52) 

Does your neediness, fear, or insecurity sabotage your success with women? Do you feel you may be unlovable? For more than 15 years, I’ve helped thousands of people find confidence, fulfillment, and loving relationships. And I can help you, too. I’m therapist and life coach David Tian, Ph.D. I invite you to take this quick quiz to access my free Masterclasses on dating and relationships at https://dtphd.com/quiz now.

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