In this episode, Geoff Steurer shares the second part of his interview with Jaylynn, a woman who was betrayed by her husband's secretive pornography use. She talks about the healing process she's been involved with for the past few years. Program highlights include: - What her life is like now versus in the beginning of her journey - How the nature of her prayers has changed through this process of healing. - She talks about why she began helping other women and wanted to talk openly about this problem. - She shares why she believes we need to be more open about our personal struggles and share our stories with others - She identifies two things that have made the biggest difference in her marriage - Why “surrendering” is more of an active process than passively giving up. - She identifies the initial boundaries she set up in the beginning of her recovery process and how she learned to set healthy boundaries. - She shares advice she gives bishops who are working with betrayed women. - How women can get started in their recoveries, including the one thing a betrayed woman can do now to start the process of recovery Links from this episode: LDS 12-Step Program https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/?lang=eng https://salifeline.org/ Setting boundaries in recovery: https://utahcoalition.org/project/how-do-i-set-boundaries-in-recovery/ The Illuminate Podcast is hosted by Geoff Steurer, MS, LMFT.