The Hilary Silver Podcast

It Took Me 30+ Years to Realize What I’ll Tell You in 10 Minutes


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You want love, success, confidence, the dream body—because obviously. But what if I told you that the way you’re going after it is exactly why it keeps slipping through your fingers? Yeah, it’s not the goal that’s the problem. It’s how you’re wired to chase it.

 

In this episode, Hilary drops the truth bomb you didn’t know you needed: The constant grind for external validation—whether it’s from a relationship, your bank account, or the number on the scale—only reinforces the idea that you’re not enough without it. And that? That’s keeping you stuck.

 

Episode Highlights:

  • Why your biggest desires might be rooted in old insecurities (Hint: Your childhood is probably involved.)
  • The exhausting cycle of proving your worth (and how to break it)
  • Why desperate energy pushes away exactly what you want
  • How shifting your mindset flips the script on love, success, and happiness
  • The magic of deciding you're already worthy—before you have the “proof”
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    Episode Breakdown:

    • [00:00] Introduction
    • [01:16] The Belief-Proof Paradox
    • [03:03] The Powerlessness of External Validation
    • [06:04] The Addiction to External Proof
    • [07:07] High Achievers and the Need for Approval
    • [09:03] The Inherent Nature of Self-Worth
    • [10:06] Choosing to Believe in Yourself
    • [11:19] Worthiness Precedes Achievement
    • [12:00] The Importance of Self-Relationship
    • [12:32] Conclusion
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      This isn’t about sitting back and manifesting your dream life with good vibes alone. It’s about rewiring your beliefs so that you stop blocking yourself from everything you’re meant to have.

       

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