Inside The Mind Of An Addict

It’s Not Codependency—It’s Betrayal Trauma


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Have you ever been called too emotional, clingy, or even codependent because of the way you responded to a loved one’s addiction or betrayal? Here’s the truth: emotional reactivity in those situations isn’t codependency—it’s a trauma response.

In this episode, we dive into the critical difference between codependency and PTSD caused by betrayal trauma. When you’re living with someone struggling with addiction, it’s not uncommon to experience broken trust, lies, and emotional chaos. The rollercoaster you’re on isn’t because you’re overly attached—it’s because you’ve been hurt by someone you trusted.

You’ll learn:

  • What betrayal trauma actually is

  • Why trauma responses are often misunderstood (and mislabeled as codependency)

  • How living with addiction impacts your nervous system and emotional responses

  • First steps you can take to begin healing and reclaiming your peace

    If you’ve ever felt dismissed or judged for your emotions, this conversation will help you reframe your experience and remind you that your pain is valid.

    ✨ Resources Mentioned in This Episode

    • Soberlink Alcohol Monitoring System
      https://www.soberlink.com/amber 

    • Betrayal Trauma Healing Program (Dr. Debi Silbers)
      https://mypbtinstitute.com/~access/a14c2436f/ 

    • Free Downloadable Resources
      https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/free-resources 

    • Family Recovery Support Group (Facebook)
      https://www.facebook.com/groups/familyrecoverysupport 

    • Schedule an Appointment
      https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/make-an-appointment 

    • Learn About the Invisible Intervention
      https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/invisible-intervention 

    • Get Advice Anytime with Amber AI
      https://www.familyrecoveryacademy.online/24-7-coaching-with-amber-ai

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