Joyful Courage for Parenting Teens

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  • Eps 137: A solo show to inspire you into ACTION to create the LIFE you want!!

    Join the Joyful Courage Tribe in our community Facebook group - Live and Love with Joyful Courage.  Raising our children while growing ourselves...

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    Gratitude to the community, specifically my one on one clients and the membership.

    • Themes
    • Collective experience
    • My own filter
    • Always in the learning, growing, developing
    • Humaning is simple, not easy

    Knowing what we want, not taking action to get there

    • Identifying what we want
    • Reading/learning tools/strategies
    • Sitting on the outside of it
      • Procrastination
      • Self talk
      • Sneak messages
        • Fear/worthiness/perfectionism

    Finding Nemo

    • Working so hard to get to his goal
    • Dealing with the monkey mind of dory (is there a metaphor here?)
    • Perseverance despite fear
    • Turtle
      • Come into the current, dude
        • Less effort
        • Less resistance
        • More results
        • Bigger possibilities

    The Secret/ Law of Attraction / FLOW

    • What is this all about?
    • The Law of attraction is the belief that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts people can bring positive or negative experiences into their life. The belief is based on the idea that people and their thoughts are both made from "pure energy", and that through the process of "like energy attracting like energy" a person can improve their own health, wealth and personal relationships.
      • What you think about you bring about
        • Yes thought AND actively taking steps that move you in that direction
        • NEMO HAD TO SAY YES AND ENTER THE FLOW TO BE A PART OF THE FLOW

    What the heck does this have to do with parenting?

    • Paying attention to the flow
      • What makes it easy to be easy going, even when things are challenging?
      • What do you notice about when your family is more easy going?
    • Under the surface/foundation
      • Routines
      • Common language
      • Needs are met
      • Connected
      • Belonging and significance
    • Have you defined where you want to flow to take you?
      • More of a way of being than a destination, unless you are setting specific goals
      • It is an ACTIVE process – we must be in action
      • FLOW state shows up because it all becomes easier the more we choose in

    Choosing in

    • I say this a lot
    • Being a yes
    • Seizing the opportunities to “practice” the tools
    • TAKING ACTION

    If you want things to BE different then you need to BE different

    • Interrupting the patters
      • Discover what your patterns are
      • Pay attention/mindfulness
        • Ex – phone use
          • When do you use it
          • What do you notice about right before you pick it up?
          • Where do you use it
          • What routines can you play with that will interrupt your pattern
            • DECIDING to do something different/interrupting
            • Leaving it upstairs in the morning
          • Ex – getting mad at my teenager/taking her angst personally
            • When do you do it
            • What do you notice about right before you yell
            • Where are you typically when you yell
            • What routines can you play with that will interrupt your pattern
              • DECIDING to practice something different
              • Internal work of allowing HER to be responsible for her feelings and allowing ME to be responsible for mine
              • Creating a “one liner” that supports me in knowing/sharing where I am at
              • Taking care of myself
              • Offering my daughter opportunities to develop tools for taking care of herself – LIFE SKILL
            • Ex – being resentful that no one “helps”
              • When do you do it
              • What do you notice about right before resentment shows up
              • Where are you typically when you are feeling
              • What routines can you play with that will interrupt your pattern
                • DECIDING to practice something different
                • Creating routines around that particular time of the day
                • Getting face to face and asking for help
                • Smiling
                • Putting on music
                • Being an invitation instead of a nag

    All starts with out DECISION to be different

    • The voices in our head
      • “talking to ourselves”
      • true self talking with ego
        • true self has our back – ego THINKS it has our back but is really about what is easy, safe and /or familiar
      • Simple, but maybe not easy
      • The quicker we decide to act on an idea, the more likely we will follow through
        • Getting out of bed
        • 5 second rule
        • Melanie Robbins (hopefully a guest)
          • Example:
            • Snooze button
            • Exercise
            • Making a smoothie
            • Finishing this outline
            • Putting down my phone
            • Staying off social media

    Challenge for you today:

    • Be clear on the direction you WANT to be going, and WHY you want to go there
    • Notice your patterns that are getting in your way
    • Interrupt the patterns by doing something different
    • Repeat all day long

    Listen, we all thrive in community. We thrive when we are being supported and joined by a bunch of other people who are diving into the practices and the work that we are engaging in. Do yourself a favor and JOIN THE #JOYFULCOURAGE10 – this is EXACTLY what you need to step into your OWN flow of parenting. This is the jumpstart you need to manifest the family vibe that you desire. We are on a collective journey, and the #JC10 is the party bus you didn’t know that you wanted on – disco ball and all!!  Sign up RIGHT NOW, we start April 1st – www.joyfulcourage.com/jc10

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    #Joyfulcourage10

    Get ready to commit to ACTION that will change everything!

    #Joyfulcourage10 is a 10 day program to kick-start your work in growing awareness and bringing more intention to your parenting. Find out more at www.joyfulcourage.com/jc10

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    Mother’s Journey

    Are you interested in bringing A Mother’s Journey to your community? Get in touch with me! All MJ workshops happening because people like you reach out and say COME! Fill the room with the mamas you love and enjoy a say of love and learning. Email Casey at [email protected] to explore the possibility. 

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    All the goods at www.joyfulcourage.com/yes

    Intention Bracelets

    Back by popular demand!! The Joyful Courage intention bracelets are back in stock and I am THRILLED to have been able to have had the community vote on the reminders that are on them…. Breathe, Pause, Trust, Surrender, Kindness – what do you need?

    DAILY INTENTION CARDS

    What do you think about the Daily Intention Cards???  These cards are designed to support you in your conscious, intentional parenting practice.

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    Be a Subscriber

    Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Joyful Courage Podcast on Apple Podcast to get the latest shows STRAIGHT to your device!!  AND PLEASE rate and review the Joyful Courage Parenting Podcast to help me spread the show to an ever-larger audience!!

    CLICK HERE to watch a video that shows up how to subscribe with your iPhone!

     

    36 min
  • Eps 136: Kelly Bos talks about how NOT to become your child's inner critic

    Today’s guest is Kelly Flannigan Bos, MSW. Kelly is a clinical therapist focusing on individual, marriage, and family relationships. She helps people find meaning and joy in their relationships - with themselves and others. As a well-known relationship expert, she has appeared in a professional capacity in countless media markets as a guest and writer. Today we are discussing an article she wrote in November called, “I don’t want to write the script for my child’s inner critic.” Join us!

    “We’re not always going to have the perfect reactions and we can certainly apologize when we haven’t kept our cool or done the right thing. There’s ways to model other things like resolution or forgiveness.” 

    “Does a good brow beating make us feel better, more able to face the challenges ahead of us? Usually not. We often shame ourselves into inertia. Would we ever say these words to a friend? There is a better way. We can be kind to ourselves and get better results and I definitely want kind self talk for my kids." 

    “It’s a constant journey but it’s one I know I want to be on so I just keep starting again and if I can be self-compassionate to myself, then I have something to give outside as well.”

    What you’ll hear in this episode:

    • The role of self-compassion in parenting
    • The three tenets of self-compassion
    • Moving past the isolation of the shame of not meeting our own expectations
    • Over-identification with our problems and how mindfulness can make a difference
    • Worry and the reality of the lack of accuracy of our future prediction
    • Phases of parenting and worry
    • Brain development and parenting – developmental challenges
    • Getting out of the emotional whirlwind
    • The role of self-comfort, recognizing and acknowledging our own suffering
    • Self-compassion as a way to build capacity for parenting challenges
    • Self-compassion and it’s relationship to compassion we can extend to others
    • Self-compassion for avoiding depletion
    • Making self-compassion part of common language in the family
    • Family meetings as a vehicle for communicating self-compassion
    • Separating the child from the behavior
    • Problem solving to avoid over identification with problems
    • Fear as a barrier to positive parenting
    • Self care as self-compassion
    • What to do when you have no room for self-care

    • Resources:

      I don’t want to write the script for my child’s inner critic

      Where to find Kelly:

      Facebook

      Twitter

      Instagram

      Website

      Youtube

       

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      42 min
    • Eps 136: Kelly Bos talks about how NOT to become your child's inner critic

      Join the Joyful Courage Tribe in our community Facebook group - Live and Love with Joyful Courage.  Raising our children while growing ourselves...

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      Today’s guest is Kelly Flannigan Bos, MSW. Kelly is a clinical therapist focusing on individual, marriage, and family relationships. She helps people find meaning and joy in their relationships - with themselves and others. As a well-known relationship expert, she has appeared in a professional capacity in countless media markets as a guest and writer. Today we are discussing an article she wrote in November called, “I don’t want to write the script for my child’s inner critic.” Join us!

      “We’re not always going to have the perfect reactions and we can certainly apologize when we haven’t kept our cool or done the right thing. There’s ways to model other things like resolution or forgiveness.” 

      “Does a good brow beating make us feel better, more able to face the challenges ahead of us? Usually not. We often shame ourselves into inertia. Would we ever say these words to a friend? There is a better way. We can be kind to ourselves and get better results and I definitely want kind self talk for my kids." 

      “It’s a constant journey but it’s one I know I want to be on so I just keep starting again and if I can be self-compassionate to myself, then I have something to give outside as well.”

      What you’ll hear in this episode:

      • The role of self-compassion in parenting
      • The three tenets of self-compassion
      • Moving past the isolation of the shame of not meeting our own expectations
      • Over-identification with our problems and how mindfulness can make a difference
      • Worry and the reality of the lack of accuracy of our future prediction
      • Phases of parenting and worry
      • Brain development and parenting – developmental challenges
      • Getting out of the emotional whirlwind
      • The role of self-comfort, recognizing and acknowledging our own suffering
      • Self-compassion as a way to build capacity for parenting challenges
      • Self-compassion and it’s relationship to compassion we can extend to others
      • Self-compassion for avoiding depletion
      • Making self-compassion part of common language in the family
      • Family meetings as a vehicle for communicating self-compassion
      • Separating the child from the behavior
      • Problem solving to avoid over identification with problems
      • Fear as a barrier to positive parenting
      • Self care as self-compassion
      • What to do when you have no room for self-care

      What does Joyful Courage mean to you?

      I think this question is such a great one and it changes often a little bit depending on what we are talking about but I wanted to bring it back to a self-compassion idea. So, joyful courage, when we talk about it today, I’m thinking it really means being able to be loving to myself, even when I don’t feel very lovable, be loving to myself and find that sense of happiness and peace and joy. So being able to push on through things, to hold myself, and know that I’m going to get through this, and I can do something different tomorrow, or I can continue to do it this way, whatever it is, whatever the message needs to be, courageously give yourself that message and you push forward and you’re loving and kind, not judge yourself and finding that you’re a part of many, many people struggling today and you’re not the problem. You’re okay in this moment.

      Resources:

      I don’t want to write the script for my child’s inner critic

      Where to find Kelly:

      Facebook

      Twitter

      Instagram

      Website

      Youtube

       :::::

      #Joyfulcourage10

      Get ready to commit to ACTION that will change everything!

      #Joyfulcourage10 is a 10 day program to kick-start your work in growing awareness and bringing more intention to your parenting. Find out more at www.joyfulcourage.com/jc10

      :::::

      Mother’s Journey

      Are you interested in bringing A Mother’s Journey to your community? Get in touch with me! All MJ workshops happening because people like you reach out and say COME! Fill the room with the mamas you love and enjoy a say of love and learning. Email Casey at [email protected] to explore the possibility.

      :::::

      All the goods at www.joyfulcourage.com/yes

      Intention Bracelets

      Back by popular demand!! The Joyful Courage intention bracelets are back in stock and I am THRILLED to have been able to have had the community vote on the reminders that are on them…. Breathe, Pause, Trust, Surrender, Kindness – what do you need?

      DAILY INTENTION CARDS

      What do you think about the Daily Intention Cards???  These cards are designed to support you in your conscious, intentional parenting practice.

      :::::

      Be a Subscriber

      Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Joyful Courage Podcast on Apple Podcast to get the latest shows STRAIGHT to your device!!  AND PLEASE rate and review the Joyful Courage Parenting Podcast to help me spread the show to an ever-larger audience!!

      CLICK HERE to watch a video that shows up how to subscribe with your iPhone!

       

      39 min
    • Eps 135: Solo Show - Follow up of the Politics Show and Letting go of Attachment

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      Not a lot of show notes today…  I am sharing the feedback and follow through of the Parents and Politics show and talking about letting go of attachment and fear.

      Enjoy!!

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       #Joyfulcourage10

      Get ready to commit to ACTION that will change everything!

      #Joyfulcourage10 is a 10 day program to kick-start your work in growing awareness and bringing more intention to your parenting. Find out more at www.joyfulcourage.com/jc10

      :::::

      Mother’s Journey

      Are you interested in bringing A Mother’s Journey to your community? Get in touch with me! All MJ workshops happening because people like you reach out and say COME! Fill the room with the mamas you love and enjoy a say of love and learning. Email Casey at [email protected] to explore the possibility.

      :::::

      All the goods at www.joyfulcourage.com/yes

      Intention Bracelets

      Back by popular demand!! The Joyful Courage intention bracelets are back in stock and I am THRILLED to have been able to have had the community vote on the reminders that are on them…. Breathe, Pause, Trust, Surrender, Kindness – what do you need?

      DAILY INTENTION CARDS

       

      What do you think about the Daily Intention Cards???  These cards are designed to support you in your conscious, intentional parenting practice.

      :::::

      Be a Subscriber

      Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Joyful Courage Podcast on Apple Podcast to get the latest shows STRAIGHT to your device!!  AND PLEASE rate and review the Joyful Courage Parenting Podcast to help me spread the show to an ever-larger audience!!

      CLICK HERE to watch a video that shows up how to subscribe with your iPhone!

       

      29 min
    • Eps 134: Featuring Rebecca Eanes and the Positive Parenting Movement

      Today’s guest is Rebecca Eanes, the author of two books for parents: Positive Parenting The Essential Guide and The Newbie’s Guide to Positive Parenting. She is back to talk to us about her newest resource for parents: The Positive Parenting Workbook. Rebecca leads a community of over a million on her Facebook page, Positive Parenting Toddlers and Beyond. Join us!

       “I see and speak about parenting as a journey… and the journey is a continuous invitation to continue to practice being the parent we want to be as often as possible.”

      “Parenting is one long personal development workshop.”  

      “My kids are the best mirrors because in them I have seen my own negative attitudes and bad moods and emotional reactions in really every area that I needed to improve upon.”

      “I think we definitely grow ourselves up in the process of helping our kids grow up.”

      “Our kids are going to make mistakes every day. If they had perfect parents, they would not know how to get through this world.” 

      “Be as gentle and respectful with yourself as you are trying to be with your kids. You are not perfect either and you don’t have to be. We are all growing, we are all learning, we are all flawed, and we all need grace. This is a journey and there’s not a destination yet that I’ve seen. It’s an ever going thing so be good to yourself along the way.”

      What you’ll hear in this episode:

      • Dealing with swearing and supporting kids in navigating different rules in different situations
      • Positive parenting and what it really means
      • The role of mutual respect in positive parenting
      • Identifying underlying issues under disrespect
      • Shifting focus: from disrespectful behavior itself to supporting learning that leads to respectful behavior.
      • Leadership in positive parenting
      • Non-negotiables and positive parenting
      • The value in personal development and parenting
      • Moving from behavior patrol to positive parenting
      • The origins of the Positive Parenting Workbook
      • Discipline as part of the parenting pie
      • 7 Pillars of family culture as part of positive parenting
      • Words of wisdom for parents working towards positive parenting

      • Resources:

        Positive Parents websiteThe Positive Parenting WorkbookThe Newbie’s Guide to Positive ParentingPositive Parenting: An Essential GuidePositive Parenting In Action 

        Where to find Rebecca:

        Facebook TwitterInstagramPositive Parents websitePinterestCreative Child Magazine Mother.ly

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        33 min
      • Eps 134: Featuring Rebecca Eanes and the Positive Parenting Movement

        Join the Joyful Courage Tribe in our community Facebook group - Live and Love with Joyful Courage.  Raising our children while growing ourselves...

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        Today’s guest is Rebecca Eanes, the author of two books for parents: Positive Parenting The Essential Guide and The Newbie’s Guide to Positive Parenting. She is back to talk to us about her newest resource for parents: The Positive Parenting Workbook. Rebecca leads a community of over a million on her Facebook page, Positive Parenting Toddlers and Beyond.  Join us!

         “I see and speak about parenting as a journey… and the journey is a continuous invitation to continue to practice being the parent we want to be as often as possible.”

        “Parenting is one long personal development workshop.”   

        “My kids are the best mirrors because in them I have seen my own negative attitudes and bad moods and emotional reactions in really every area that I needed to improve upon.”

        “I think we definitely grow ourselves up in the process of helping our kids grow up.”

        “Our kids are going to make mistakes every day. If they had perfect parents, they would not know how to get through this world.” 

        “Be as gentle and respectful with yourself as you are trying to be with your kids. You are not perfect either and you don’t have to be. We are all growing, we are all learning, we are all flawed, and we all need grace. This is a journey and there’s not a destination yet that I’ve seen. It’s an ever going thing so be good to yourself along the way.”

        What you’ll hear in this episode:

        • Dealing with swearing and supporting kids in navigating different rules in different situations
        • Positive parenting and what it really means
        • The role of mutual respect in positive parenting
        • Identifying underlying issues under disrespect
        • Shifting focus: from disrespectful behavior itself to supporting learning that leads to respectful behavior.
        • Leadership in positive parenting
        • Non-negotiables and positive parenting
        • The value in personal development and parenting
        • Moving from behavior patrol to positive parenting
        • The origins of the Positive Parenting Workbook
        • Discipline as part of the parenting pie
        • 7 Pillars of family culture as part of positive parenting
        • Words of wisdom for parents working towards positive parenting

        What does Joyful Courage mean to you?

        I think Joyful Courage means being brave enough to go against the grain to live true to you and confident enough to believe in yourself and to do so with joy.

        Resources:

        Positive Parents website
        The Positive Parenting Workbook
        The Newbie’s Guide to Positive Parenting
        Positive Parenting: An Essential Guide
        Positive Parenting In Action 

        Where to find Rebecca:

        Facebook
        Twitter
        Instagram
        Positive Parents website
        Pinterest
        Creative Child Magazine 
        Mother.ly

        ::::: 

        #Joyfulcourage10

        Get ready to commit to ACTION that will change everything!

        #Joyfulcourage10 is a 10 day program to kickstart your work in growing awareness and bringing more intention to your parenting. Find out more at www.joyfulcourage.com/jc10

        :::::

        Mother’s Journey 

        Are you interested in bringing A Mother’s Journey to your community? Get in touch with me! All MJ workshops happening because people like you reach out and say COME! Fill the room with the mamas you love and enjoy a say of love and learning. Email Casey at [email protected] to explore the possibility.

        :::::

         All the goods at www.joyfulcourage.com/yes

        Intention Bracelets

        Back by popular demand!! The Joyful Courage intention bracelets are back in stock and I am THRILLED to have been able to have had the community vote on the reminders that are on them…. Breathe, Pause, Trust, Surrender, Kindness – what do you need?

        DAILY INTENTION CARDS 

        What do you think about the Daily Intention Cards???  These cards are designed to support you in your conscious, intentional parenting practice.

        :::::

        Be a Subscriber

        Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Joyful Courage Podcast on Apple Podcast to get the latest shows STRAIGHT to your device!!  AND PLEASE rate and review the Joyful Courage Parenting Podcast to help me spread the show to an ever-larger audience!!

        CLICK HERE to watch a video that shows up how to subscribe with your iPhone!

         

        31 min
      • Eps 133: Politics and Parenting

        Politics and Parenting - can we keep them separate?

        Do we want to?


        I don’t imagine that everyone who follows Joyful Courage share all of my views. I am guessing that you all realize that I am a flaming liberal – and if you didn’t, well, cats out of the bag.

        • I support dignity and respect for all humans.
        • Black lives matter to me.
        • Immigrant lives matter to me.
        • Woman having equal rights, including rights over their body matters to me.
        • I believe that people have the right to gather and worship in a way that works for them.
        • I believe in climate change and the duty we ALL have to honor the earth.
        • I believe that people who are raised to feel connected, loved and as though they matter don’t show up at public or private events with the intent to kill.
        • I do not believe that private citizens have the right to own weapons of war.
        • I believe our schools should be safe and secure.
        • I do not believe that teachers should have guns.
        • I believe in a health care system that is proactive in supporting the mentally ill.
        • I believe in compassion.
        • I believe in civic action.
        • Some of what I just shared may turn you off to my work and my message. I hope it doesn’t, because at the most foundational level, I believe in love – living it, spreading it, being it. And that is what will save the world.

          “Love thy neighbor as thyself” is a message of all major religions – and when THIS is our come-from, when THIS message is what we start to live, the world will be healed.

          And I acknowledge that it isn’t easy. It isn’t easy to put ourselves out there and speak our truths

          • we don’t want to offend
          • we don’t want to argue
          • we worry about what people think
          • we want everyone to be comfortable
          • And right now the environment is so TOXIC! It is so challenging to talk about the issues that matter the most to us. It is scary to get vulnerable and say what we need to say, to lead from the front.

            Today I declare that I am no longer going to worry about ruffling feathers. I will continue to share the content that you have come to love, and I will elevate it by pushing my fear aside.

            I will bring more of myself.

            I will bring more of my authenticity and truth.

            I will leave behind wanting everyone to like me.

            I am done with school shootings, and my guess is you are too.

            It is time to have hard conversations.

            It is time to look for solutions.

            It is time to get involved, ask questions, reach out and trust that your voice is valued. 

            Humans are hurting.

            Weapons of war are too available.

            Schools aren’t secure.

            So lets do something about it.


            Today is about action.

            Thank you.

            Thank you for listening. I feel as though it is my responsibility to speak these truth, it is my responsibility to not pretend that all is well and good and that the world our children are inheriting is going to magically be peaceful.

            We are in the creation of the world we live in. Everything we do is part of the creation.

            • What we buy
            • Who we vote for
            • Whether or not we speak up when we get that intuitive hit that what we are witnessing is wrong
            • We are in the creation even when WE DO NOTHING. Even when we turn away because it is too hard, or too scary, or too vulnerable – we are STILL in the creation of the world we live in.

              I choose to be in action. And I hope you join me.

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              27 min
            • Eps 133: Politics and Parenting

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              Politics and Parenting - can we keep them separate?

              Do we want to?

              Issues:

              • Birth
              • Breastfeeding
              • Spanking
              • Schooling
              • Homework

               I am recoding Thursday, Feb 22, a week ago, a community woke up to realize that the tragedy that had rocked their community the day before was not a nightmare. 19 year old Nicholas Cruz showed up at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida and killed 17 people. Kids, adults, 17 people who are now being grieved by friends and family….

              I am done with this headline

              I am also done with feeling like I can’t speak my truth for fear of offending people.

              I dove into following the teens that have been energized into action.

              I posted my thoughts on my personal FB page.

              Wednesday, I posted on my IG account and linked the post to my FB Biz page.

              I posted a meme that said “The children almost broken by the world will become the adults who save it.” Crediting Frank Warren for the quote. Here is the post I wrote:

               

              So here is how I am feeling.... My kids aren’t broken, HOWEVER this school shooting/random acts of violence BS had got to stop. Humans are hurting, guns are too available, schools aren’t secure - there is a lot going on under the surface here. I will no longer complain about it, I will ACT. I will be IN ACTION. And with this action I will inspire others to see how THEY can act, including the two that matter most to me. 
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              Rowan and Ian, I love you. I will fight for you. I will get uncomfortable, and curious, and let go of what people think to fight for YOUR future and YOUR safety. You, and ALL kids deserve this from the adults that came before you.
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              Stay tuned.

               

              I got one reply from one of my followers asking me to not get political. She acknowledged that wasn’t why she followed me and advised me to continue on as the resource I am in creating change. She was totally respectful in her tone, however, she was clear with her message. 

              Sorry, not sorry. I will not be silent. I am a political being. I speak about things that relate to the public affairs of our country.  WE ARE RAISING ADULTS – future leaders and citizens of the world – how is that not political???

              I don’t imagine that everyone who follows Joyful Courage share all of my views. I am guessing that you all realize that I am a flaming liberal – and if you didn’t, well, cats out of the bag.

              • I support dignity and respect for all humans.
              • Black lives matter to me.
              • Immigrant lives matter to me.
              • Woman having equal rights, including rights over their body matters to me.
              • I believe that people have the right to gather and worship in a way that works for them.
              • I believe in climate change and the duty we ALL have to honor the earth.
              • I believe that people who are raised to feel connected, loved and as though they matter don’t show up at public or private events with the intent to kill.
              • I do not believe that private citizens have the right to own weapons of war.
              • I believe our schools should be safe and secure.
              • I do not believe that teachers should have guns.
              • I believe in a health care system that is proactive in supporting the mentally ill.
              • I believe in compassion.
              • I believe in civic action.

              Some of what I just shared may turn you off to my work and my message. I hope it doesn’t, because at the most foundational level, I believe in love – living it, spreading it, being it. And that is what will save the world.

              “Love thy neighbor as thyself” is a message of all major religions – and when THIS is our come-from, when THIS message is what we start to live, the world will be healed.

              And I acknowledge that it isn’t easy. It isn’t easy to put ourselves out there and speak our truths

              • we don’t want to offend
              • we don’t want to argue
              • we worry about what people think
              • we want everyone to be comfortable

              And right now the environment is so TOXIC! It is so challenging to talk about the issues that matter the most to us. It is scary to get vulnerable and say what we need to say, to lead from the front.

              Today I declare that I am no longer going to worry about ruffling feathers. I will continue to share the content that you have come to love, and I will elevate it by pushing my fear aside.

              I will bring more of myself.

              I will bring more of my authenticity and truth.

              I will leave behind wanting everyone to like me.

              I am done with school shootings, and my guess is you are too.

              It is time to have hard conversations.

              It is time to look for solutions.

              It is time to get involved, ask questions, reach out and trust that your voice is valued. 

              Humans are hurting.

              Weapons of war are too available.

              Schools aren’t secure.

              So lets do something about it.

              Here is what I have done over the past few days….

              • I emailed the admin team at my daughters HS to voice my concern and to educate myself around what is already in place. I also offered myself as a community member to partner with them to be in deeper relationships with parents and community about how they are keeping our kids safe, including fostering a sense of belonging.
              • I put the monthly principal/parent meet-and-greets on my calendar so that I would go. I am not planning on being on the outside looking in anymore. I want those administrators to know me by name. I want to support them, challenge them and work with them to make my kids schools better
              • I put in a call to our district “safety and risk assessment” person. I left a message and will follow up with an email. Again, I invited myself into the conversation and offered myself as a partner in the work he is already doing.
              • I emailed out local “community coalition” about an idea of have for running a film festival in our town to highlight documentaries that invite conversations around teens and screens, toxic masculinity, the message our girls are getting, and anxiety. I am going to foster community conversations about the things so many of us have opinions and fears about but ARENT TALKING ABOUT.
              • All of this on top of calling my representative and showing up to meetings and rallies for smarter gun laws….

              This may not have been why you tuned into the podcast today. I thought I gave a pretty good heads up with the title “Parenting and Politics”.  The good news is there are over 100 other episodes you can turn to today for parenting tips and inspiration.

              Today is about action.

              Thank you.

              Thank you for listening. I feel as though it is my responsibility to speak these truth, it is my responsibility to not pretend that all is well and good and that the world our children are inheriting is going to magically be peaceful.

              We are in the creation of the world we live in. Everything we do is part of the creation.

              • What we buy
              • Who we vote for
              • Whether or not we speak up when we get that intuitive hit that what we are witnessing is wrong

              We are in the creation even when WE DO NOTHING. Even when we turn away because it is too hard, or too scary, or too vulnerable – we are STILL in the creation of the world we live in.

              I choose to be in action. And I hope you join me.

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              24 min
            • Eps 132: A conversation with Liz Haske about letting go of worry

              Today’s guest is Liz Haske, a mother, an international teacher and instructional coach and children’s book author. She has over 15 years elementary classroom experience in six different countries and is super passionate about empowering children to be their most courageous selves. Her first book, When Worry Takes Hold, was released in November 2017 and aims to help young children cope with worry by using mindful breathing. Join us!

               

              “It’s about a young girl who’s afraid to do different things and she realizes that she has the power inside her and if she puts her hands on her belly, she can be brave.”

               

              “Stories help us be better people if we are reading the right books”

               

              “We want to empower these little people to realize they can do it. They can develop the tools and they can be confident and they can face what is presented to them in healthy and positive ways.”

               

              “Worry gets bigger and bigger the more that we do it.”

               

              “We can be brave, and everyone has worries … whether it’s helping our kids be brave or us being brave to face whatever parenting challenge it may be.”

               

              “Courage is just a deep breath away.” 

               

              What you’ll hear in this episode:

              • The basis & inspiration for When Worry Takes Hold
              • Worry as a visitor and the power to ask it to leave
              • Acknowledging & expecting worry
              • Externalizing worry and setting limits
              • Following the why – getting to the root of big feelings
              • Manifestations and signs of worry
              • Addressing underlying worry vs. addressing the behaviors
              • Taking a wide view to problem solving worry
              • How not to take worry related behaviors personally
              • Why trying to talk kids out of their worries doesn’t work
              • Managing worry as a practice
              • Tools for managing worry and how they can be applied to other situations
              • Mindful breathing vs. “Let’s take some deep breaths”
              • The power of mindful breathing
              • How to know when to get professional help (duration, intensity, impact, age appropriateness)
              • Journaling worries to find patterns and icebergs
              • Liz’s upcoming projects on the horizon
              • The importance of exercising self-compassion
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                Resources:

                When Worry Takes Hold

                Where to find Liz:

                Facebook

                Instagram

                Website

                Twitter

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                42 min

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