Behind closed doors, Ireland’s swingers’ scene is bigger,and bolder than you might think. Jennifer Zamparelli meets Graham, a proud member of the community, who lifts the lid on what really happens at a swingers’ party, how jealousy can turn into joy, and why “ethical non-monogamy” isn’t just about sex.

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Welcome to the new sex and relationships podcast from the Irish Independent. Here's a flavour of what to expect. New episodes every Thursday.

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