The Art of Charm

Learn 4 Powerful Conversations That Connect Us All | Chuck Wisner


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In today’s episode, we cover conscious conversations with Chuck Wisner. Chuck is a business and personal consultant and an advisor to leaders in high-profile companies in several industries such as Google, Rivian, Apple, and Tesla, and is the author of The Art of Conscious Conversations: Transforming How We Talk, Listen, and Interact. 

Conversations are an important aspect of running a business with employees, so what conversations should you be having with your employees and what types of questions should you ask?

What to Listen For

  • Introduction – 0:00
  • How many different kinds of conversations are there and why do you need to know them all?
  • Advocacy vs Inquiry – 22:55
  • Why is it important to balance advocacy for yourself and inquiring about others?
  • The 4 Questions to Ask in Conversations – 34:16 
  • What kinds of questions should you ask yourself when you’re talking to someone if you want to spark more engaging conversations?
  • Conversational Bypass – 48:30
  • Why is it important to touch on all four types of conversations in business and planning meetings in order to get the most out of your team? 
  • The next time you’re in a meeting, think about how you can use all four conversation types to get your point across. When you advocate for yourself and inquire about others, it will create a more balanced and engaging discussion. Asking the right questions of yourself before talking to someone can help set the tone for a more productive exchange. Touching on all four conversation types is important in business because it allows for different perspectives to be explored and helps everyone feel heard. 

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