Taylor celebrates Father’s Day by having her chosen father, Robb, come on the podcast and share how he entered into his.  Taylor was his “practice daughter” and now has two children of his own, who you have likely seen on her Instagram.  Robb shares his experience as a black father and reflects on the stereotype of black fathers. Taylor reflects on her relationships with the father figures in her life and her “daddy issues”. 

Resources:

Robb’s Instagram

Taylor invites friend Les Alfred, host of Balanced Black Girl podcast, back on the podcast for her 3rd interview!  Taylor and Les process gaining new white followers over the last two weeks during the Uprising, and the pressure to educate on social media.  The women share this safe space to discuss their experience in blackness and lend each other support.  

Taylor is joined by King and Jasmine, who are three-time award-winning adult film stars who have dedicated their craft to creating a more inclusive and ethically sound adult entertainment industry.  Together they own Jet Setting Jasmine and Royal Fetish Films where the love of the arts, film and sex education are combined to produce erotica that stimulates and engages the audience to push their sexual boundaries.  Taylor considers following in Jasmine’s footsteps of being a licensed clinical therapist who also works in Adult Entertainment.  

Royal Fetish Films

From the Spirituals to Hip Hop Webinar

Jet Setting Jasmine Website

Jet Setting Jasmine Instagram 

Jet Setting Jasmine Twitter

Jet Setting Jasmine Onlyfans 

King Noire Website 

King Noire Instagram 

King Noire Twitter 

King Noire Only Fans

Taylor has two conversations around race related recent news of Hannah Brown using the n-word, and the murder of George Floyd. Robin DiAngelo, author of white fragility, joins Taylor to discuss reverse racism, the good/bad binary of racism, and what white fragility is. Taylor is then joined by Vanessa Grimaldi, a white female friend from The Bachelor, to share the conversations they’ve been having around race with the recent news. 

White Fragility

White Fragility Work Book

Words that Don't Belong to Everyone

AASECT-certified supervisor, founder of the Northwest Institute on Intimacy, mother, wife and author Dr. Tina Sellers joins Taylor to discuss religious sexual shame.  As the author of Sex, God, and the Conservative Church, Tina shares her four-step model for healing religious sexual shame, which includes touch and non-touch exercises.  This episode will help empower you to rise above your sexual shame and embrace your value.

RESOURCES

Dr. Tina Sellers

Sex, God, and the Conservative Church

Books Mentioned:

Girls and Sex by Peggy Orenstein

Amber and Matt Barnett from Love is Blind join the pod to chat about life after reality TV. The two get very honest and vulnerable about their relationship, the impacts of reality tv, and their future plans. The couple and Taylor share stories about dating on TV and how it's not always as it seems.  

RESOURCES

Amber's Instagram

Barnett's Instagram

Dr. Emily Morse, founder and host of Sex With Emily, joins Taylor for a Q&A session to help answer questions submitted by listeners! The two give advice on various sexual health topics, including masturbation, orgasms, porn, sex toys, and finding deeper connection with both a partner and yourself. The two exchange personal stories and experiences, and Taylor has a few questions of her own! 

Kelz Dyke, #theaccountant, and Matthew "Jesus" Smith from Netflix's Too Hot To Handle join Taylor during quarantine to discuss life after reality TV! They give us a look behind the scenes, and share lessons they learned from their time on the show about building emotional connections vs. strictly physical relationships. We also learn about a new side of Kelz, as he shares stories about how his family, religion, and relationships have played a role in who he is today. Matthew lets us into his mindset behind leaving the show early, and he and Taylor chat about monogamy, masturbation, and more! 

RESOURCES

Kelz's Insta

Matthew’s insta

Do you know your aura color? This week on Let's Talk About It, Taylor gets her aura read by fourth generation psychic medium, Mystic Michaela, who specializes in reading auras, which are the colorful life force energies around individuals. Taylor gets some dating tips as Mystic Michaela reads the aura of two potential love interests.  

Resources: 

Mystic Michaela's Podcast

Mystic Michaela's Website

Mystic Michaela's Instagram

Taylor and Justin meetup via Zoom to discuss the Polyvagal Theory, and Justin's belief that we are stuck - not broken. The two apply the concepts from the theory to the current global situation, and breakdown the science behind why the isolation and lack of social engagement is causing anxiety and depression in many of us. As a society, our safety feels threatened, and the two dive deep on how to get curious and look inward to mindfully move into a healthier state of mind. 

RESOURCES

Justin LMFT

Justin's Instagram

Polyvagal Podcast