Your body has been holding the truth all along—through chronic pain, gut instincts, and nervous system activation that won't settle. Learn why listening to your body is essential for healing from betrayal trauma, even when you're still waiting for full disclosure or struggling with hypervigilance. 

Discover how to find closure without confession, reconnect with your body's wisdom, and move from seeking external proof to reclaiming your internal knowing.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How trauma shows up as chronic illness and what your body is trying to tell you

• Why healing from betrayal doesn't depend on your partner's honesty

• 5 somatic practices to rebuild trust with yourself and calm your nervous system

Referenced in this episode:

• The Elements of Abuse podcast series with Kim Day and Amie - Part 1: The Power of Awareness, Part 2: The Power of Accepting Reality, Part 3: The Power to Act

Chapters

• 01:36 Listening to Your Body

• 02:47 Chronic Pain

• 05:30 Disconnecting From the Body

• 07:12 Consequences of Ignoring the Body

• 11:09 Somatic Work and Healing

• 21:45 Practical Steps for Body Awareness

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• Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica: Ready to experience the deep somatic healing discussed in this episode? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey. 

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