Mostly Dating

Welcome back! Today we're doing things a little differently. In this solo episode, Carleigh introduces six new segments:

• "what should I say?" where a listener asks what to say to their partner, friend, family member, coworker, etc. in a certain situation.
• "keep going or call it?" where a listener describes their scenario and ask whether they should stay in a relationship/go on another date/continue a friendship/etc.
• "expanders" dating/relationship success stories to help be each other's expanders
• "a letter to my younger self" where a listener writes the advice they'd tell their younger self about dating/life
• "friendship files" specific to friendship dilemmas/conflicts
• "not proud of it" anonymous confessionals of the things we do that we wish we didn't

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Welcome back! Today's episode is all about *boundaries*: how to set boundaries in early dating, what boundaries you should set for a relationship that lasts, signs you need to set better boundaries, and what to do when someone isn't respecting your boundaries.

We also chat about green flags in an argument with your significant other and we answer a wide range of listener questions about dating and relationships.

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Welcome back! In today’s solo episode I talk about not feeling seen, heard, or understood in your relationship, how to get back to your authentic self, and what to do when you feel like you're constantly putting on an act in relationships, friendships, etc.

We also talk about things you should know before defining the relationship, advice for meeting the family, and more,

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Welcome back! In today’s solo episode I talk about timelines for breakups, how to know when you're ready to get back out there, and what to do when you don't feel ready at all.

I also discuss ways to get to know someone better without just asking questions and more types of dates you should always go on before defining the relationship, and answer listener questions on sharing a dog with your ex, going to couple's therapy, and more.

As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! 

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Welcome back! Today we're chatting with Ilana Dunn, dating coach and host of the hit podcast Seeing Other People.

We chat about:

• How to deal with misaligned timelines in relationships
• What to do when you have no idea what someone is looking for in dating
• Conversations you should have before moving in together
• How to continue getting to know your partner in a long term relationship

& more!

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Welcome back! Today we're joined by Erica Stein, health coach, wellness astrologist, and host of the Courageous Wellness Podcast.

Erica breaks down all the elements of the astrological birth chart and how to use it to optimize your wellness and your relationships. 

Listen along as she gives Carleigh a deep dive into her own chart and learn what aspects of your chart to use for insights into your ideal partner and best relationship.

Find Erica on Instagram @courageouswellness and @wellnessastrology to learn more about booking a reading with her.

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Welcome back! You may remember her from her famous “my mom’s watching” line on The Bachelor Season 29. Sarafiena Watkins quickly became a fan favorite this year, and today she’s joining Carleigh to spill all the tea.

we chat about:

• Dating in NYC & Sarafiena’s dating life before the bachelor.
• What led her to apply for the show (and what the process was like)
• Her initial impression of Grant and of the other women
• The friendships she formed on the show (yes, we address the drama too)
• The moment Sarafiena fell for Grant
• Moving on after having her heart broken on TV
• Where she is in her dating life now (+ whether her DMs are open 👀)

& a lot of great listener questions

Follow Sarafiena at @sarafienawatkins, and of course tune in tonight 3/24 for The Bachelor finale. 

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Welcome back! In today’s solo episode I talk about the six types of dates I think you should always go on before defining the relationship, and then dive into listener questions about who should plan early dates, why you shouldn’t try to get a lot of likes on dating apps, should a relationship feel like work? and more.

As always, find me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@mostlydating⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. And if you're enjoying the pod, please leave a rating & review! 

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Welcome back! Today we’re joined by Sabrina Zohar, dating and relationship expert and host of the Sabrina Zohar Show.

what we talk about:

• Sabrina’s old dating patterns and relationship history that led her to becoming a coach
• How Sabrina met her current partner and what made it different from past dating experiences
• How to take accountability for your the part you play in your dating outcomes (+ how to break those patterns)
• Real, actionable tips for anxious daters (speaking from experience and psychology)

• How to get over "what could have been" with someone you never really dated
• Conversations to have to find out if they're emotionally available
• How to be authentic on early dates and find what you’re *really* looking for

& a lot more!

Find Sabrina on Instagram @sabrina.zohar and @thesabrinazoharshow or head to her website to take one of her courses.

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Welcome back! Today we're joined by spirit channel and medical intuitive & healer, Christine Lang. 

what we talk about:

why people are drawn to those who they think need to be “fixed” & how to decide if a relationship is worth the investment you’re putting into it. 

relationship issues manifesting as physical symptoms

supporting a partner through shifts and life changes in a long term relationship

signs someone is emotionally available

why you’re not attracting the best people you could be

should you wait for someone who says they aren’t “quite” ready

+ our spirits answer a few controversial listener questions

Listen to our first episode with Christine here: Are We Using Triggers As An Excuse To Not Do The Work?

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