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Many survivors of a Covert Narcissist on a healing journey are very cautious about engaging in another close relationship in case they should be unlucky enough to meet another narcissist. This hyper vigilance in relation to trusting another person is very understandable and discernment is definitely advised. However it would be the best success to overcome all the Narcissist tried to do and re emerge with a strong belief in the good in people. To that end this podcast lists 14 signs a person could potentially have indicators that they are highly narcissistic upon your initial and earlier encounters. The list is not exhaustive and neither does it predict for certain a person is a narcissist notwithstanding should they tick the box on all 14 points. It does however give some indication to perhaps take this relationship very slowly and not allow yourself to be put under any pressure. Part 2 of the podcast coming soon will cover the traits of a narcissist as displayed within a close relationship over time to assist in assessing the probability of NPD should a clinical diagnosis not be an option.

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Two very important manipulations utilised by a covert narcissist and often overlooked are that of hooking and isolating their primary source of narcissistic supply from family, friends and locality. This manoeuvre is essential to establish full control over their target in order to illicit early, full and exclusive supply. The narcissist also uses a hook at this early stage to validate their new partner by escalating and creating any old arguments or relationship niggles within the targets main support structure. However, once the narcissist has established isolation and full control of their target they often then revert to the additional familial supply sources using a leverage option of negotiating peace between all warring parties, albeit it the war was generated by the narcissist themselves. This is a diabolical double trade and needs to be handled by the targets family in a similar way to the British Royal Families management of Prince Harry and the narcissistic style and actions taken by Megan Markle in my opinion. I have assessed Behaviours and actions in the public domain of this high profile duo to demonstrate the typical behaviour of a narcissist as outlined above. This podcast has a twist at the end in relation to the latest developments and an insight I have not heard vocalised elsewhere to date. I hope you find value here in a situation that may resonate with a difficult person that may have entered your own family circle.

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Narcissists generally always hoover their ex targets whether romantic partners, family members or friends. They hoover for various reasons but principally to either control or obtain narcissistic supply from old sources of supply. Hoovering is part four of the covert narcissist’s behaviour cycle, the forerunning parts of which are lovebombing, devaluation and discard. In order to maximise a positive hoovering result, ie. Successfully hoovering/sucking back into the relationship their former target, emotive occasions are utilised in full force. Predictably the narcissist will pick special occasions and annual recurring events such as the holidays, thanks giving, Christmas etc where sentimentality and emotions run high. People are often emotionally vulnerable around such occasions as memories of better times may come to mind. The narcissist understands this vulnerability will more easily Segway an opportunity to break through any boundaries that their former target may have in place. Basically, expect the narcissist to be more likely to Hoover around the holidays.

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On the surface a narcissist unblocking their ex partner may seem inconsequential as merely a simple action, however it is actually loaded with agendas known only to a covert narcissist. Having cruelly and intentionally discarded their partner in a very disparaging fashion without providing closure, narcissists often double down on the cruelty element by blocking their ex on social media etc. With claims of never wanting to as much as set eyes on the former love of their life and blocking all forms of communication with the narcissist, out of the blue you realize you’ve just been unblocked!! Immediately people try to second guess why the totally unexpected has happened, what does it mean and what on earth is going on in the narcissist’s head by taking such an action. This podcast provides 10 reasons a Narcissist Will unblock you out of left field and allow you to reach the most probable answer to the questions such an unexpected action might raise.

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There is an ongoing debate trending particularly on YouTube that malignant narcissism is the direct result of childhood trauma and is simply a mental health disorder or condition resulting from this early life experience. There is a lot of emphasis on debunking any theory that does not fully support this simplistic and frankly disproven science based conclusion of a far more complex malignant behaviour pattern. The behaviours of narcissists can be highly destructive to the extent that they severely negatively impact the lives of their targets. The twist or cleansing of these malign behaviours is the idea that the narcissist suffered a difficult childhood and therefore compassion and an intellectual forgiveness must be sought. Where this twist to another’s destruction is understandable it diverts away from the fact that the acts perpetuated by a narcissist can be described as evil, and the narcissist is aware they cause pain, but justify that by saying the person deserves to be treated badly. This podcast seeks to straighten things out by looking to the spiritual energy surrounding malignant narcissism as the crux of the truth. Without the truth we are not based in reality, and chaos is the arena in which evil thrives, so let’s continue throwing a light into the mixed up narrative currently bandied about particularly by some online narcissists.

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The intimate relationship with a covert narcissist and its analysis is a great place to start when studying the Narcissistic Personality Disorder in its must fulsome incorporation of most of the typical behaviours of narcissistic individuals. The Narcissist’s behaviour cycle of love bombing, devaluation, discard and hoover, in conjunction with an array of malignant manipulations to gain control of their target/source of narcissistic supply are easily recognisable in the intense romantic relationship. The Narcissist offers their partner all of their dreams on a platter under the guise of a fair, loving and democratic relationship structure, however, once in a position of control, the target understands that they are actually in the grip of a loathsome dictatorship. This false advertising and subsequent revelations of the con the Narcissist pulled to gain a vote of support, witnessed in a one to one relationship is also identifiable on a bigger public stage in our world today. Once you understand the true nature of a narcissist, a public narcissist is easier to spot. They thrive on causing division and will frequently gaslight the narrative to cause as much chaos as is possible particularly when their attempts to gain control are unsuccessful.

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The narcissistic FOG targets of narcissists get entrapped in and remain so post discard or when the relationship is long gone, is difficult to explain away using the school of psychology alone. The narcissist is actually best explained in analogous terms as a spiritual criminal or sole thief/trader, such is the inexplicable hold they exert over their supply sources, ie human beings. It is noticeable to loved ones of a target of a covert narcissist, that while they remain physically present throughout the relationship with their narcissistic partner they don’t appear themselves or to be present in spirit. Also, despite logically knowing the narcissist is out to destroy a person, it appears difficult for their former partners/targets to escape the pull of a narcissist even returning to the relationship, despite knowing it’s not a good move. This podcast looks at things like this Fog or trancelike state aka traumatic bond and spiritual soul ties to uncover some of the mysteries and energy surrounding these toxic behaviours of npd individuals

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The narcissist’s discard is a most devastating experience initially, comes out of left field, and is dished out to their target at the worst possible time and usually in the cruelest of ways. Overcoming and recovering from such an emotionally, psychologically, spiritually and sometimes physically devastating life event can at first appear insurmountable. Akin to an NDE in terms of soul challenging, it can however be turned on its head and used to great advantage by a narcissists former partner, friend, or family member. Recovering from and reversing the narcissistic discard is totally possible, is highly recommended, and the results of such a reversal are exceptionally rewarding in a healing capacity. Harnessing the power of this painful experience with a narcissist and utilizing that energy for personal freedom and, as a transformative breakthrough out of the matrix so to speak, becomes a blessing. The physical effect of such an escape is oftentimes, a narcissist looking to return to the relationship quicker than their normal cycle would predict. God’s armor is advised during this transformative time of personal recovery to deflect and protect the light within.

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Understanding the relationship dynamics with a covert narcissist or NPD individual is the first step in a healing journey of the narcissist’s former partner or target of narcissistic supply. Identifying the motivations behind a narcissist’s behaviour may provide many answers to previously inexplicable actions taken by them during the course of your relationship. Understanding what a narcissist fears most can give a huge insight into for example why they leave the relationship so quickly and without notice. A Narcissist’s fears and paranoia motivates their self defense mechanism or personality disorder to go on the offensive. Understanding the predictability of such apparently unpredictable behaviour based on what a narcissist fears the most provides clarity, and is helpful in depersonalising your experience with one.

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In order to depersonalise our interactions with full blown covert narcissist, it’s important to understand how they operate and their thought processes as related to their targets. In understanding why they act towards others and say and do destructive things, that we can find healing from the emotional suffering they insist on to regulate themselves. Narcissists follow a major behaviour cyclical pattern, lovebombing, devaluation, discard and hoover on repeat. However, there are also cycles within cycles of behaviour patterns and dynamics on repeat, just as the smaller cogs turn the bigger ones and so the outer wheel of the personality disordered narcissist turns. The manner in which a narcissist acts with their target is cyclical and predictable on repeat. Understanding this objectification and repetitive behaviour may help others depersonalise their experience and expedite healing.

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