The theory of #shared fantasy by #sam vaknin has been used in the narcissistic awareness community to describe the interaction between covert narcissists and their targets in the intimate relationship setting. It appears to purport an equal measure of pathology to both the narcissist and their victim/target with a measure of #victim blaming. This podcast seeks to correct the thinking behind this bias and correct the balance of truth in favour of an empathetic persons reality and good qualities.

This equalising of #NPD comparative to normal healthy human relationships expectations and shaming the narcissist’s targets post relationship is a very narcissistic perspective. The #fake reality created around this theory seems to attempt to pathologize ‘good human qualities’ and can produce shame around this subtle but mind bending theory.

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Signs you friend maybe a narcissist are listed in this podcast to assist in identifying how a narcissist behaves in a friendship situation. Your bestie, your homie, childhood friend or new friend are all covered here in relation to behaviour pattern recognition of a covert narcissist.

Expectations in friendships and how a narcissist will perform and whether they have your best interests at heart are scrutinized by personal examples provided throughout the discussion. #What to expect from a friend who is a narcissist and #how to leave a friend who is a narcissist safely are examined towards the final section of this educational material on toxic relationships and how to deal with them.

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The layering manipulation of a covert narcissist particularly in an intimate relationship needs to be exposed. Targets of a narcissist often struggle to explain/pinpoint exactly why they feel so unable to extricate themselves from this, under the radar, currently unnamed, brainwashing by their partner. I have termed this technique ‘ownership grooming’ as that is ultimately the desired psychological outcome of this sixth dimensional practice. Understanding and educating yourself on NPD is key to freedom and self development.

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What are the typical traits of a narcissist? What are the typical behaviours of a narcissist? This podcast uses the example of Megan Markle’s public behaviours to analyse a typical trajectory of a covert narcissist/npd in the intimate relationship setting and how that plays out. This is an opinion based analysis of events that have been previously reported upon in the public arena.

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Narcissists take a lot of things away from others in that they, steal that, which is not theirs. If you are currently contemplating an attempt to make a relationship work with a narcissist, firstly be aware of the potential consequences. Listed in this Podcast are 10 things a narcissist will try to steal from you, should you become involved, in any capacity, over a period of time in close quarters, with a covert narcissist.

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Putting structures on what actually happened in your relationship with a narcissist will considerably expedite a healing journey. Referring to this structural basic will dissipate cognitive dissonance and definitively assist in clearing a trauma bond. To reset neurological grooming patterns, landing back to this basic truth should be of value.

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Narcissists operate in all areas of life including being over represented on Social Media in the form of Trolls. Normally ignoring and blocking their nasty comments is the way to go. For the purposes of educating ourselves on how narcissists operate, this podcast provides an analysis of why narcissists leave such malign destructive comments, and what they mean by them. The more a narcissist attacks, the more effective the information being provided here is, as it’s effecting their ability to be destructive, and carry out their self serving agendas.

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There are certain people who share certain characteristics that threaten the narcissists sense of control. Central to a narcissist’s very existence and false reality is their sense of controlling people and situations with ease. Anyone who threatens a narcissist’s ability to use their narcissism to survive and advance in life is to be feared. It’s vital to learn these particular traits going forward to deter narcissists from pursuing us, by adopting these traits ourselves.

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Covert narcissists have understood this particular manipulation long before modern day commercial training programs used similar techniques in Goal setting and bonus payout incentives. Lovebombing combined with future faking are used by all narcissists who play out of the same evil handbook. The Narcissist essentially trades on the dreams of others. Narcissists give their targets the impression that following their agendas will be a benefit to them, while the only person it benefits is the narcissist themselves who obtain copious amounts of narcissistic supply.

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When the Narcissist hears you have moved on in your life post discard or after leaving a narcissist, that situation represents a new trigger to hoover in order to maintain control. The alternative to benefitting from the narcissist’s targets new gained success in life, is to attempt to sabotage it, either tactics are simply about controlling the narrative. Narcissistic supply is obtained once control is maintained or reasserted.

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