Let's ponder what makes us human and what makes an animal an animal and where the narcissist fits in this bigger picture.

Experts agree that many narcissists share common features with other types of personality disorders, especially Cluster B. It is also important to know there are distinguishing characteristics that set them apart. Sometimes they can even pair up and a person could have several different types of maladaptive, trauma based disorders. Let's take a look.

Today, we talk about different kinds of vision. The way we see things. The way the world looks through the eyes of a narcissist. And most importantly, we end with the big suprise. . .  what is HAPPY DONUT?

This episode comes with a disclaimner and trigger alert that the content, approach, and l;anguage may be too potent for people who are not a place to receive it. Are you stuck, ruminating and longing and craving and dreaming about the narcissist and unable to put them down and let them go? A self-aware narcissist and possible borderline who has amazing self-awareness and insight offers a strong dose of medicine that may be hard to swallow but possibly turn out to be the kick in your pants to get you unstuck and moving along. Narcissistic abuse recovery is not for the feint hearted. We discuss the victimhood trap and how we, the surviviors and thrivers, must be more "McGuyvers in our approach to recovery where we are solutions oriented problem solvers who get the job done whatever it takes. At some point, the focus is NOT on the narcissist, but on YOU! Take accountability for your part in it all, ask why, figure it out, and fix it. Freedom and happiness and health await those who are fierce and determined. Let's put down the "narc-pipe", end our addiction, get acquainted with our power and value, and do what we need to do to be ready for the future that's coming.

They will promise you the moon covered in chocolate and dipped in gold, but it is fiction. Even if they belive their own idealized snapshot of you for a while, make no mistake. It will end. They are not your forever love. The sooner you accept this truth, the easier it will be to recover.

Robert Torbay has attained the esteemed position as a leading expert of Cluster B disorders on the Quora platform. How does he stand apart from others in the field of this study?

Experts in the field typically offer polished, packaged programs at a cost to those seeking guidnace through the murky waters of narcissistic abuse recovery. Others write from a mental health perspective but not necessarily as gifted writers. And yet others write from the perspective of victims, empaths, and spokesmen due to their personal experience. Many have no training on the subject.

Robert Torbay is a unicorn in the sense that he can elucidate the internal mechanisms of Cluster B and execute it with the writing chops and gift of evocative words and imagery that convey a more visceral and authentic portrayal of the subject.

I have a special appreciation for his work because I, too, am not offering a program or anything for sale. I offer insight, well crafted words, and the gift of knowledge paired with empathy for the journey. He and I are truly unique in these ways.

Coming to us from his home in New Zealand, we are fortunate to get a glimpse behind the curtain with this enigmatic genius.

The covert narcissist is deadly.

They are impulsive, remorseless, reckless, and devoid of emathay or mercy.

Imagine what you could accomplish if you  conscience, morals, religious beliefs and sense of decency and integrity didn't stop you.

So what's stopping the narcissist?

Nothing.

And therein lies the problem.

You must know, that although a covert pathological narcissist is the pinnacle of sweetness and charm, he (she) is a destroyer. Perhaps the doom and despair the narcissist ushers in is actually the beginning of a new, improved 2.0 version of yourself.

Maybe it's too early in your recovery to latch on to that idea, but let it marinate. It has merit.

 Conversation with Myla Morningstar about narcissistic abuse. Essential, illuminating discussion that will help everyone understand what really happens in these ill-fated relationships.

Want to contact the guest speaker? Myla Morningstar Kinikini

Narcissist Survival Expert & Transition Life Coach “Victim by Chance, Survivor by Choice”

[email protected] to book life coaching sessions

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Quora spaces

Myla Morningstar’s Hidden: Covert Narcissism

https://mylamorningstarshiddencovertnarcissism.quora.com/?ch=17&oid=2260261&share=396067ef&srid=8R9qj&target_type=tribe

Myla Morningstar’s The Narcissist’s Wife

https://mylamorningstarsthenarcissistswife.quora.com/?ch=17&oid=1707559&share=396067ef&srid=8R9qj&target_type=tribe

Myla Morningstar’s The Art of Narcissism.

https://mylamorningstarandfriendstheartofnarcissism.quora.com/?ch=17&oid=2269528&share=396067ef&srid=8R9qj&target_type=tribe

Medium

Myla Morningstar Kinikini

https://medium.com/@mylabatsonkinikini

Want to contact the host, P. Pesqueda?

Email: [email protected]

Website: http://www.narctroopers

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The person with NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) will use deception and delusion to deceive both the people around them as well as themselves. It can have deadly consequences.