If you’re standing at the edge of a major transition, this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale.

In today’s conversation, I’m sharing what dating after divorce actually taught me, and why I had to stop outsourcing my safety, my worth, and my clarity to external validation. We talk about moving too fast, learning discernment the hard way, recognizing hypervigilance and “validation addiction,” and what it’s looked like to genuinely come home to myself after years of defining “who I am” through partnership, attention, or being chosen.

This is an honest, higher-level reflection on healing, nervous system truth, father wound patterns, and the spiritual lessons that have shaped my new standards, boundaries, and pace. If you’re newly single, considering divorce, or simply wanting to date from self respect instead of scarcity, I made this one for you.

WE EXPLORE

✧ The truth about dating after divorce.

✧ Hypervigilance, nervous system overwhelm, and what it’s trying to protect.

✧ How “validation addiction” can quietly run your dating life (and how to interrupt it.)

✧ Why behavior matters more than words when you’re discerning a partner.

✧ The shift from “pick me” energy to self leadership, especially with a father wound.

✧ What it looks like to be alone on purpose (no back burners, no distractions.)

✧ EMDR, healing past relationship imprints, and down-regulating dating anxiety.

✧ My biggest lessons on going slow, asking better questions, and letting your body tell the truth.

✧ The spiritual initiation of surrendering your will to a Divine Will (especially when it’s not easy.)

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Hard times make powerful, empowered women. As we find ourselves in the midst of an economic winter, now is the time to stop shrinking and start thriving in your own business ecosystem.

For the third and final episode of the Money Motivation Series, I unpack how to navigate and support yourself during a slow economy as an entrepreneur. These soul-based tools will give you the knowledge to feel empowered and abundant, no matter the economic season you might be in. I also break down what a business ecosystem is, how to build a healthy ecosystem of your own, and how to set yourself up for long-term success.

By the end of this episode, you’ll be able to pair clarity, community, and organization together to take back control over your life, your money, and your business. Plus, stay tuned for a sneak peek into what to expect from my upcoming classes and courses (including my FREE LIVE event on February 3rd!)

WE EXPLORE

 ✧ How to navigate slow “economic winters” as a entrepreneur.

 ✧ Why clarity + service can support you and your work during slower seasons.

 ✧ The different economic seasons (+ how to tell which one you’re in right now.)

 ✧ Why building trust and community sets you up for the long game.

 ✧ What a healthy business ecosystem looks like.

 ✧ How slower economies + hard times cultivate powerful women.

 ✧ What to expect from my free LIVE event (how to join + enrollment bonuses!)

FREE LIVE EVENT
Join me LIVE on February 3rd to Uplevel Your Finances for 2026: (free rsvp) https://nataliabenson.myflodesk.com/money-uplevel

In this live class, we’ll cover:
 ✧ My financial organization process (personal finance meets astrology)
 ✧ Weekly spending system + tracking that builds nervous system safety
 ✧ How to stop overspending and create real wealth habits
 ✧ How to use your money blueprint to soften resistance and create change

MWMM ENROLLMENT BONUSES
 ✧ Free access to the 5-Day 2026 Money Up Level Intensive (March 2026)
 ✧ VIP Money Chat: How to Stop Overspending + Build Real Wealth
 ✧ A 4-part Women, Divorce + Healthy Financial Partnership course
 ✧ Last-chance access to original member pricing (pricing increases in 2026)

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Want to stop overspending without shame, restriction, or another “try harder” spiral? This episode is your permission slip to get organized in a way that actually feels nourishing.

In episode two of the Money Motivation Series, I’m breaking down overspending as emotional regulation and showing you how to create real nervous system safety with money, using a weekly spending account, simple tracking, and a system that meets both sides of your money blueprint: the practical (2nd house) and the emotional subconscious (8th house).

You’ll learn why this is not a willpower issue, how to give your money a job so it stops running your life, and the tools I use personally as a lifelong “spender” who’s committed to building a cash-positive future. If you’re ready to feel calmer, clearer, and more in control of your spending in 2026, this is where we start.

WE EXPLORE

✧ Why overspending is often emotional regulation, not a discipline problem.
✧ Spender vs. Saver paradigm, and how to meet your money habits in the middle.
✧ 2nd house vs. 8th house money in astrology: practical systems vs. emotional patterns.
✧ Why “budgeting” can feel triggering and how a weekly spending account creates freedom.
✧ How to set up a weekly spending account (and what to track each week).
✧ My 3-category tracking method: groceries, eating out, miscellaneous.
✧ The hidden cost of money avoidance and how it compounds over time.
✧ Sinking funds: how to plan for predictable expenses without using debt.
✧ Living cash-based, why I chose it, and what it revealed about my patterns.
✧ “Give your money a job or it will give you a job,” and how to apply that immediately.

FREE LIVE EVENT

Join me LIVE on February 3rd to Uplevel Your Finances for 2026: (free rsvp) https://nataliabenson.myflodesk.com/money-uplevel

In this live class, we’ll cover:
 ✧ My financial organization process (personal finance meets astrology)
 ✧ Weekly spending system + tracking that builds nervous system safety
 ✧ How to stop overspending and create real wealth habits
 ✧ How to use your money blueprint to soften resistance and create change

MWMM ENROLLMENT BONUSES
 ✧ Free access to the 5-Day 2026 Money Up Level Intensive (March 2026)
 ✧ VIP Money Chat: How to Stop Overspending + Build Real Wealth
 ✧ A 4-part Women, Divorce + Healthy Financial Partnership course
 ✧ Last-chance access to original member pricing (pricing increases in 2026)

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UP NEXT

Next up in the Money Motivation Series: Navigating a Slow Economy as a Woman & Entrepreneur

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In today’s episode, I’m kicking off the Money Motivation Series with a conversation I wish every woman had before (or during) a relationship transition: women, breakups, and money. Because when your heart is already processing grief, uncertainty, and major identity shifts, the last thing you need is to be spiraling about your finances too.

I’m walking you through the foundational pillars of financial self leadership, including why knowing your numbers creates emotional steadiness, how to assess your real earning capacity, and the mindset shift that moves you from need to desire to choice so you can make decisions from sovereignty, not survival.

If you’re contemplating a separation, navigating divorce, rebuilding after a breakup, or you simply want to feel more anchored in your financial reality, this episode is your reminder: you cannot out-earn a money avoidance problem. But you can absolutely build a clearer, calmer, more mature relationship with your money, one simple step at a time.

WE EXPLORE

 ✧ Why money clarity cultivates nervous system safety during major transitions.
 ✧ The first step to financial self leadership: tracking what comes in and what goes out.
 ✧ How to separate personal vs. business expenses for clean, empowering decision-making.
 ✧ The truth about earning capacity, and why it is always expandable.
 ✧ Money as energy: what it means to “hold more” without self-sabotage.
 ✧ The Need, Desire, Choice paradigm and how it changes everything in relationships.
 ✧ Why you cannot out earn money avoidance, and what to do instead.
 ✧ How financial organization creates the power of choice when life gets emotionally intense.

FREE LIVE EVENT

I’m hosting a Live Money Up Level Class + Enrollment Party on February 3 inside of MWMM.

In this live class, we’ll cover:
 ✧ The MWMM financial organization system
 ✧ Money transitions + financial self leadership
 ✧ Moving from need to desire to choice
 ✧ Creating emotional safety and grounded clarity with your finances

To join the free event: https://nataliabenson.myflodesk.com/money-uplevel

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Next up in the Money Motivation Series: How to Stop Overspending (and actually feel good about money in 2026).

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I’m here to extend an invitation I know a lot of women struggle with: giving yourself the permission to disappoint. As women, we are taught to always be palatable, even at the expense of our own autonomy or desires. Today’s conversation will open your eyes to reinvention, self ownership, identity, and desire as a spiritual tool for healing and transformation. I share powerful ways to honor and embrace new self identity, regardless of societal expectations or disappointment, and step into total ownership of who you are and how far you’ve come.

I also break down the fears I know hold so many of us back, whether it’s the fear of not being liked, not being accepted, or the fear of allowing ourselves to desire. These fears keep us small, but when we tap into + own our deepest desires, that’s when real magic happens.

This is your time to honor yourself, take ownership of want you want and who you’re meant to be, and stop fearing disappointment from the things that were never meant to serve you!

WE EXPLORE

 ✧ Why giving yourself the permission to disappoint is your power.

 ✧ Honoring the self, ego, and other with the Aries-Libra axis.

 ✧ How to own your most audacious self outside of societal expectations.

 ✧ The inner work it takes to reinvent + embrace your self identity as a woman.

 ✧ What it looks like to operate in need versus desire.

 ✧ The most powerful way to own your deepest desires.

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If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship because you weren’t sure you could make it on your own financially, I promise you, you can create not just security but limitless abundance. Today, I’m sharing my very real, very tender “year after divorce” update through the lens of money, worth, and spiritual rebirth. We dive into what it looks like to rebuild your life after a breakup or divorce, not just emotionally and spiritually, but in the very practical sense of knowing how to generate, organize, and steward your own money as a woman.

I walk you through the grief, healing, and identity shifts I’ve moved through since my separation, what I’ve learned about discernment in relationships, and why being able to financially care for yourself is one of the most empowering spiritual practices you can have. Plus, we get into money mechanics: how to begin generating on your own, get financially organized post-divorce or breakup, and how your astrology (especially Venus & Jupiter) can support your unique way of creating abundance.

Let's talk about the patterns that keep us in misaligned partnerships, how to recognize when something is truly complete, and why learning to love your own company is a massive wealth portal.

WE EXPLORE

✧ Rebirth after divorce: what my first year post-separation has really looked like.
✧ How grief (death, divorce, identity shifts) can become a portal into emotional & spiritual maturity.
✧ The moment I realized I actually enjoy my own company and how that changed my relationship with money.
✧ How women’s financial dependence can keep us in misaligned relationships (and what it means to reclaim your power to generate.)
✧ Practical money foundations after divorce or breakup: organizing your accounts, tracking, and building a cushion.
✧ Using your Venus & Jupiter placements to understand your unique way of attracting and generating wealth.
✧ The difference between a hard season in a relationship and a true deal-breaker your body is trying to tell you about.
✧ Why wishing well for past partners (and friends) is a powerful spiritual wealth practice.

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Is there a place for AI in astrology? This is a question I’ve been wondering for a while now, and today I talk about how we can use AI responsibly in a more clarifying, empowering way. I share my thoughts about AI as a tool of the spiritual and esoteric, as well as the mastermind that completely shifted my perspective on the usage of these connective technologies. I also shed some light on what place I believe AI has in our future and why it’ll never replicate or replace the human spirit. Most of all, I want to leave you with some powerful ChatGPT prompts you can use to support you in your astrological journey.

WE EXPLORE

 ✧ Where AI has a place in astrology + how to use it responsibly.

 ✧ How I utilize the power of AI in a thoughtful way.

 ✧ The mastermind that shifted my perspective on AI.

 ✧ What role AI will play in our future (+ why it will never replace humanity).

 ✧ ChatGPT prompts to support your astrological studies.

 ✧ How connective technology will expand us as humans.

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Your first step to reclaiming your goddess energy begins here! My guest today is Gaby Herstik, author and modern witch who blends spirituality with sensuality. Together, we explore the divine realm of sacred sexuality and its role in honoring, healing, and reclaiming your pleasure. We talk about how embodying our dark feminine and stepping into our goddess energy opens pathways for more magic, more presence, and more intimacy in our lives. Plus, a peek into some powerful rituals to connect deeper to your desires as you embrace your dark goddess era.

WE EXPLORE

 ✧ Meditation, banishing negative energy, and feminine energy.

 ✧ The lore of the dark goddess, Lilith, and her connection to feminine sexuality.

 ✧ How to reclaim our dark feminine energy and our sacred sexuality.

 ✧ The rituality of BDSM, kink, and desire.

 ✧ How to explore your unique sensuality through your chart.

 ✧ The healing power of sex, lust, and goddess energy.

 ✧ Embodying your goddess energy through glamor magic.

 ✧ How connection to our sovereign sexuality transforms how we show up.

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If you want to create the life you envision and make bigger moves without fear, then this episode will speak to your soul. Today, I sit down with Lori Harder, founder of glōci, host of the Earn Your Happy Podcast, and one of the major expanders in my life. From the moment she made the decision to shop shrinking and start playing bigger, Lori guides us through her journey of entrepreneurship; the challenges, the launches, the pivots, and everything in between. We talk about key components to build your dream, align with your life’s purpose, and show up powerfully as a leader while you cultivate even more expansive identities. This is your opportunity to tap into the real-real process it takes to not just show up for your dreams, but make them a reality!

WE EXPLORE

 ✧ How Lori showed up consistently to build her podcast to over 65M downloads.

 ✧ How to hold identities and expansions you create for yourself.

 ✧ The challenges of entrepreneurship (+ Lori’s power pivots through them).

 ✧ How to tell when you’re meant to get over the walls in front of you.

 ✧ The process behind tapping into your courage to make a pivot.

 ✧ What it has looked like to build, launch, and pivot with glōci.

 ✧ The parallels between taking care of your health + building a business.

 ✧ How to get unstuck and start making bigger moves.

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Do your income swings feel like feast or famine? In this week’s episode, I’m sharing a replay of my Stability Method masterclass, your step-by-step path to consistent cash flow. We’ll bring the energetic + astrological (hello, Venus placement!) together with practical, tangible tools (money dates, tracking, and simple systems) so you can create steady months, soothe your nervous system, and finally feel safe receiving. You’ll learn how to map your current money story, design a plan for your debt, and build offers aligned with your unique Venus energy so consistency isn’t a mystery, it’s a lifestyle.

WE EXPLORE
 ✧ The Stability Method: clarity → cash flow → consistency (what each step looks like).
 ✧ Feast/famine cycles: why they happen (ancestral patterns, safety) + how to shift.
 ✧ Money Dates 101: a weekly ritual to track, plan, and increase income.
 ✧ Venus by sign + house: using your “money-making magnetism” to design offers.
 ✧ Nervous system & numbers: regulating emotion while organizing your finances.
 ✧ Vision Month planning: filling income gaps with value-aligned, repeatable revenue.
 ✧ Debt with a plan: releasing shame, creating a clear payoff pathway.
 ✧ Practical dashboards: simple business/personal tracking to know your real numbers.

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