Tony unpacks the complexities of co-parenting with a narcissistic or emotionally immature individual. Addressing a listener's question, Tony delves into the nature of developing children, labeling them as 'little narcissists' due to their inherently self-centered perspective. Tony identifies this as a critical stage of normal human development and explains how these traits vary distinctively in the adult narcissist. He also shares his four-pillar framework for effective communication - assuming good intentions, avoiding declaring the other person wrong, asking questions before commenting, and leaning in and staying present. He demonstrates how these can be applied in co-parenting scenarios.

00:00 Introduction and Welcome

00:17 Reflecting on the Past and Looking Forward

00:58 Discussing Parenting and Co-Parenting

01:37 Understanding the Impact of Co-Parenting with a Narcissist

02:06 Exploring the Concept of 'Little Narcissists'

02:46 Case Study: Sarah's Experience with Divorce

04:03 The Importance of Communication in Parenting

05:07 Understanding the Impact of Parental Decisions on Children

06:01 The Role of Therapy in Understanding Childhood Experiences

06:15 Understanding the Self-Centered Nature of Children

07:08 The Impact of Parental Divorce on Children

09:26 Navigating Parenting Challenges with a Difficult Partner

11:47 Understanding the Concept of 'Little Narcissists' in Parenting

14:59 The Difference Between Healthy Self-Care and Emotionally Immature Selfishness

25:34 Understanding Egosyntonic and Ego-Dystonic Concepts in Parenting

28:44 Understanding Egosyntonic Narcissism and Emotional Maturity

29:14 Co-parenting with a Narcissistic or Emotionally Immature Partner

29:27 The Importance of Fostering Healthy Development in Children

30:30 The Four Pillars of a Connected Conversation

31:41 Applying the Four Pillars in Different Contexts

35:27 The Role of the Four Pillars in Co-parenting

57:53 The Impact of the Four Pillars on Children

01:00:02 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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