Flying Free

Nine Tricks Emotional Abusers Use to Pull Us Back Into the Cycle (and six clever ways to respond!) [347]


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In this episode, we're taking a look at the classic emotional abuse push-pull cycle that makes us feel like we’re starring in a soap opera we never auditioned for. 

This one's for the Christian woman who’s been there, twisting herself into a holy pretzel trying to keep the peace, hold the family together, and love like Jesus while getting emotionally sucker-punched by someone who claims to love her. 

What We Cover: 

  • The nine mind-warping tactics emotional abusers use to keep you locked in their circus of dysfunction.
  • Why your loving heart (and need for connection) makes you the perfect target, and why that’s not a flaw.
  • The six empowering, grown-up strategies to unhook yourself from their drama without turning into a fire-breathing dragon.
  • Why explanations are overrated, and how less really is more (especially when you're dealing with a manipulative guilt ninja).
  • How to set boundaries like a boss while still loving people, but from a safe distance.

Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question here

Related Resources:

  • Liked this episode? Here are some others you might want to check out: “Your Marriage Abuse Cycle Exercise” and “How to Respond to Emotional Abuse Tactics.”


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