No Alcohol Needed: The Podcast

No Alcohol Needed: The Podcast

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  • E82: How Do You Regain Trust After Quitting Alcohol?

    For many of us, our actions and behaviors have left our family and loved ones no longer trusting us, even after we've stopped drinking. So that begs the question - how do you regain trust after quitting alcohol? We've gathered Rachael, founder of Addict with Purpose; Michael, founder of SoberPress; and our adventurous friend Nadine to talk about what regaining trust from others - and in ourselves - has looked like in our lives.

    You start getting trust back when you start telling the truth.

    In this episode:

    • Learning to trust oneself
  • Consistency and time as the foundation of trust
  • Learning to do things that build trust
  • The value of authenticity in trust building
  • Honesty is a core component of trust
  • Living the apology
  • Understanding that we can't put a timeframe on someone else's trust
  • How to apologize with action
  • Learning to trust yourself through the hard times
  • Humility and its role in building trust
  • Also: learning to trust others
  • To learn more about Nadine, Rachael, and Mike, click here

    Visit our website at Through the Glass Recovery for access to weekly zoom support meetings, our weekly newsletter, and other resources to support your sobriety.

    38 min
  • E81: Self Esteem and Sobriety: Building Confidence After Quitting Drinking

    Let's chat about self esteem and sobriety - and why it's so important. Life doesn't automatically just get easy when you quit drinking. Uncomfortable emotions still crop up from time to time, and one of the best things we can do is develop the skills to move through those emotions in a healthy way. One of the emotions that throws people for a loop is insecurity, so that's what we're gonna tackle today.

    In this episode, we've invited sober influencer Azure, sober podcaster Brianna, and sober influencer Ginelle to come share with us how they've dealt with insecurity, and what they've done to increase their self esteem since they stopped drinking. If we can learn healthy ways to step out of insecurity and into confidence, we'll be able to handle life that much better. Stay tuned for some great insight and some helpful tips that you'll be able to use the next time insecurity gets the best of you.

    "This isn't a game I play alone."

    In this episode, you'll hear about:

    • The difference between external and internal self esteem
  • The value of trusting and believing in your own intuition
  • Letting go of living to impress others, and finding the courage to stop being fake
  • How to define realistic expectations so you can reasonably lower your standards
  • Learn the importance of small, esteemable acts and how to incorporate them into your life
  • Understand how excessive apologizing minimizes our value and lowers self worth
  • How to cope when regret is the source of your insecurity
  • The value of therapy - not just in sobriety, but in building self esteem
  • The interconnectedness of shame, vulnerability, and healthy self esteem
  • To learn more about Ginelle, Azure, and Brianna, click here

    Visit our website at throughtheglassrecovery.com for access to weekly zoom support meetings, our weekly newsletter, and other resources to support your sobriety.

    42 min
  • E80: The People Pleaser's Guide to Sobriety

    The stereotypical "alcoholic" is seen as selfish. Always focused on their own gain, getting their needs met, and using other people to make that happen. 

    But... it's actually far more common for people struggling with alcohol misuse to be people pleasers. They bend over backward, taking care of everyone, keeping everyone happy, to the point where they find themselves exhausted, empty, and full of resentment. People pleasing can be a huge pitfall in maintaining lasting sobriety. Today we're joined by Robbie, co-host of Golden Hour Adventures podcast; Leah, sober yoga instructor; and Daph, recovery coach and sober companion, to chat about what people pleasing looks like in our lives, how it affects us, and how we've found the courage to say no more often.

    "Sometimes I forget to check in with myself."

    In this episode, you'll hear about:

    • People pleasing as the desire to be liked and to fit in
  • Understanding the pressure that people pleasing places on us in our daily lives
  • Saying yes when we really mean no, and how that leads to resentment, which leads to drinking
  • Boundaries and how to set them if you're a people pleaser
  • People pleasing to avoid conflict
  • Dealing with the guilt and resentment that we carry from decisions made from people pleasing
  • Learning - and remembering - to check in with yourself
  • Early sobriety requires a certain amount of being 'selfish'
  • Working through the fear of disappointing others
  • To learn more about Robbie, Leah, and Daph, click here

    Visit our website at Through the Glass Recovery for access to weekly zoom support meetings, our weekly newsletter, and other resources to support your sobriety.

     

    43 min
  • E79 Cultivate Hope: Finding Meaning and Purpose in Recovery

    We hear from a lot of people who are struggling with finding purpose in recovery. That feeling of being lost, of just floating through life, can be frustrating and can even lead to thoughts of drinking again. We know that if you have found your purpose in life, and you've found the courage to live out that purpose, maintaining lasting sobriety becomes achievable. So we've gathered together a group of folks to share their experiences in finding their purpose, and how it's looked in their lives. You'll hear from sober podcast host Michal, sober influencer Gary, and John, who is a sober ultra runner. We hope you're inspired to dig a bit deeper, and take the steps necessary to live out your own purpose.

    "The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose in life is to give it away." -Pablo Picasso

    In this episode, we talk about...

    • Defining our values so that we can more clearly understand our purpose
  • Allowing your purpose to evolve with you
  • How sobriety provides the clarity necessary to discover your purpose
  • Everyone has a gift. To know your gift is to know your purpose - or at least get you pointed in the right direction.
  • Purpose is nearly always centered in helping others in some way
  • Don't overcomplicate it! Your purpose is likely something quite simple.
  • Finding purpose in recovery means you must first discover your true identity
  • Experiment with what works. Keep an open mind and be willing to change directions often.
  • What to do if you know your purpose, but you're too afraid to say it out loud
  • "I know what my purpose is today. I don't need to commit to that for eternity."

    34 min
  • E78: How To Build a Sobriety Support Network

    If you're feeling alone in your sober journey, if you're wishing you had some extra sobriety support, this sober podcast episode is for you. We've gathered three inspiring women to share with us how they've built a sober support network that works for them. The conversation explains perfectly how no one recovery journey is the same as any other, and how our needs for support in recovery are as unique as our journeys. Listen as we chat with TikToker Taylor, Courtney, author of The One Brought Back , and Through the Glass regular Sherralynn, and discovery many new resources that you can use to build a sobriety support network of your very own.

    "Online strangers saved my life."

    In this episode, you'll hear about:

    • The I Am Sober app and community where Steve, Julie, and Sherralynn all met
  • Why it's important to find people who are also in recovery, so they can relate to your experiences
  • How to find online meetings (like the ones we host!)
  • The pros ad cons of telling your immediate family and friends right away
  • Courtney's journey through court ordered rehab, AA, and other recovery programs and how it was helpful for her
  • How your church family can provide sobriety support
  • Figuring out where you feel the most safe, so that you can be vulnerable
  • How people who aren't in recovery just don't understand, and how that's okay
  • The importance of continuing to experiment with new sources of support, as you continue to grow on your journey
  • Not knowing what to expect at a support meeting, and what it's really like when you finally do show up
  • "I didn't want to be the kind of person who needed to go to meetings."

    To learn more about Sherralynn, Courtney, and Taylor, visit our website at throughtheglassrecovery.com 

    There, you can also sign up for our weekly newsletter, and to gain access to our FREE weekly recovery meetings.

    You can also find Julie and Steve on:

     Instagram 

    Facebook 

    Tiktok

    42 min
  • E77: Recognizing the Alcohol Voice: Practical Tips for Managing Cravings and Urges

    "The Alcohol Voice was telling me, 'You don't have to feel this way.'"

    Urges and cravings to drink alcohol look different for everyone, but most of us can agree on one thing: there's a voice that pipes up inside our head, trying to convince us to drink. That voice sounds a lot like our own, and it gets really creative and tricky, trying to find ways to get you to give in and have the drink you've been working so hard to avoid. It's not unlike the angel on one side and the devil on another. In this podcast episode, we're joined by sober influencer Elle (@soberinthesprings) and Rich, a recovery coach, to talk about what that voice sounds like inside our heads. We share some practical tips and tricks to shut the voice down and manage the urgest and cravings so common in early sobriety.

    "You will never regret choosing to stay sober."

    In this episode:

    • Knowing when you've reached a limit
  • Giving yourself permission to do whatever you must, to put your sobriety first
  • The alcohol voice is a bully
  • How alcohol marketing gives alcohol its voice
  • Learning to confront and question thoughts
  • The drinking voice is an alarm - let's talk about how to respond to it.
  • Mental tips and tricks to move through an urge to drink
  • How we compare our problems to others and use that to justify our drinking
  • Our #1 tool for dealing with the drinking voice
  • To learn more about our guests, visit our website at throughtheglassrecovery.com

    Get in touch with Steve and Julie:

    Visit our website at throughtheglassrecovery.com to sign up for our weekly newsletter, and to gain access to our FREE weekly recovery meetings.

    You can also find Julie and Steve on:

     Instagram 

    Facebook 

    Tiktok

    43 min
  • E76: Conflict Resolution: Improving Communication Skills in Recovery

    So it turns out, a lot of us were really bad at communicating. And then we got sober, and realized we couldn't just hide from difficult conversations and conflict anymore. We had to actually learn how to handle it. And it started with learning healthy communication skills in recovery. In this podcast episode, we dig into communication, and how to handle conflict effectively, after you get sober. We're joined by Mike, creator of Own Sobriety; Chris, creator of More Than 28; sober influencer Higgy, and our friend Melissa for a conversation about how we've learned healthy communication skills in recovery.

    "I had to learn how to tolerate discomfort."

    In this episode:

    • Finding the courage to say what you need to say
  • Learning to identify and then express needs
  • Understanding that conflict in relationships is normal
  • Facing the shame of forgetting drunken conversations
  • Developing active listening skills
  • Recognizing when you are being heard
  • You must know yourself in order to communicate effectively
  • Recognizing and unlearning unhealthy behaviors (i.e. manipulation)
  • Honesty and communication skills in recovery
  • How to communicate without the "lubricant" of alcohol
  • Gaining confidence and self awareness in sobriety allows for improved communication
  • Identifying and communicating boundaries
  • To learn more about our guests, visit our webite at throughtheglassrecovery.com

    Get in touch with Steve and Julie:

    Visit our website at throughtheglassrecovery.com to sign up for our weekly newsletter, and to gain access to our FREE weekly recovery meetings.

    You can also find Julie and Steve on:

     Instagram 

    Facebook 

    Tiktok

    43 min
  • E75: Redefining Love: Build Thriving Relationships in Recovery

    In this Valentine's Day episode, we invite our guests to share their thoughts on love. We share what we've learned about love and how it affects our relationships in recovery. You'll hear from sober influencer Amber, Jared Blaine - host of the Blaklist Podcast, and sober influencer Jennifer, about how their understanding of love has changed as they've worked on healing and understanding themselves. Each of us walked away with a new understanding of love, and we know you will, too.

    "I had this idea that love was giving all of yourself, no matter what."

    In this episode, you'll hear about:

    • Sobriety allows us to show up in loving relationships in the way that others deserve.
  • Understanding attachment theory and how it pertains to our relationships is helpful.
  • Our upbringing models love to us, and creates our definition of love.
  • Learning to embrace solitude when you're single
  • Discovering and understanding emotional needs, and how to meet them.
  • It is possible to be loved by someone, but not feel loved by them.
  • Love is an action, and it requires constant practice.
  • Loving someone from afar, or leaving in love, can both be healthy solutions.
  • How codependency and love are interrelated.
  • Conflict in love - what it looks like, and determining healthy vs. toxic relationships in recovery.
  • In this episode, we mention the following books and resources:

    Codependent No More by Melody Beattie

    Rewired by Erica Speigelman

    The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman (Click the link to take a quiz and discover your own love language!)

    If you loved this conversation and want to learn more about how our understand of love changes in recovery, be sure to check out this episode.

    To learn more about our guests visit our website at throughtheglassrecovery.com

    Get in touch with Steve and Julie:

    Visit our website at throughtheglassrecovery.com to sign up for our weekly newsletter, and to gain access to our FREE weekly recovery meetings.

    You can also find Julie and Steve on:

     Instagram 

    Facebook 

    Tiktok

    46 min
  • E74: Courageous Conversations: How Vulnerability Fuels Recovery

    Vulnerability is one of the hardest pieces of a strong recovery foundation, but it's also one of the most important. Without embracing the discomfort, you'll never find the connection that is truly the key to thriving once you quit drinking. In this podcast episode, we are joined by Justin from The Hope Shot, Casey from F-around and Recover, and our friend Matt to talk about the challenges they have faced when it comes to showing up vulnerably. We talk not only about the wins, but also the struggles, especially when it comes to men and facing society's beliefs surrounding vulnerability. 

    Connection is the opposite of addiction. Vulnerability is how we find connection.

    In this episode:

    • Showing and receiving love feels vulnerable
  • It takes time to break down walls and let people in
  • Drinking numbs our emotions; vulnerability is allowing ourselves to feel them
  • Calculated risk: knowing when you're ready to face something vulnerable
  • Despite society's beliefs, vulnerability is strength and courage
  • Being vulnerable with strangers is sometimes easier
  • Ownership of our mistakes and flaws is vulnerability
  • How honesty pertains to vulnerability
  • Why the people close to us are the hardest to be vulnerable with
  • Facing fear and standing up for yourself
  • Misplaced vulnerability - finding the right person with whom to share your truth
  • Today February 5th, Matt celebrates one year of Sobriety.  This is something he always believed would happen but at the same time feared may never come.  The past five and half years have been a battle with alcohol that he wishes upon no one.  Along the way he has had the constant support of his family, friends and so many he has met along the way helping him achieve sobriety.  He wants to thank you all for sticking with him through all this. 

    He'd like people to know that substance abuse and mental health issues do not discriminate and that if you are struggling there are people out there who want to and who will help you.  Matthew Perry always said to people who are struggling “It’s not your fault”, but this Matthew believes it’s your responsibility.  It’s your responsibility to acknowledge, to accept and to treat it every day, just like you would any other disease. 

    Be kind to those who are still struggling.  Sobriety is hard, but it’s worth it.

    Casey Jordan is a recovery advocate and father of 2 from Hillsboro, Ohio. When Casey made the choice to get sober in May of 2022, he quickly became passionate about spreading hope to others in active addiction. He started the online recovery community “F Around & Recover” shortly after finishing an inpatient rehab program as a way to connect with other sober individuals and inspire anyone struggling to take the first step toward recovery. Since founding F Around & Recover, Casey has increasingly focused his energy on spreading the message that recovery is NOT “one size fits all”, feeling strongly that people shouldn’t be shamed for using different paths to sobriety. His dream is to play a role in recovery and sober living programs being implemented in rural communities. When Casey isn’t running “F Around & Recover”, he can usually be found spending time with his young kids.

    Get in touch with Steve and Julie:

    Visit our website at throughtheglassrecovery.com to sign up for our weekly newsletter, and to gain access to our FREE weekly recovery meetings.

    You can also find Julie and Steve on:

     Instagram 

    Facebook 

    Tiktok

    47 min
  • E73: The Next Chapter: Maintaining Sobriety After the Early Days

    For many of our listeners, Dry January is coming to a close, and you're starting to think about maintaining sobriety going forward. If you've decided you want to keep going, but you're not sure what that needs to look like, this episode is just for you. We've invited Chuck LaFlange, host of the Ashes to Awesome podcast, Jason Williams of Sober Gangster, and sober influencer Hayley Delashmit to dig into what it looks like after you've gotten used to not drinking, and are ready to start moving forward into really building an alcohol free life. We ask them the question, "What Now?" and they all share their very different, very valuable experience.

    "When it gets easy, I get complacent. And complacency is almost scarer than turmoil."

    In this episode:

     

    • Periods of growth come and go, ebb and flow. That's normal.
  • How to avoid complacency - tips and tools for maintaining sobriety long term
  • Finding your purpose, understanding that it will shift as time goes on
  • Keep doing the things that work
  • Start uncovering the reasons why you drank
  • Learning to stay in the moment - the power of mindfulness
  • Creating intention in day to day actions
  • Bonus topics:

    • Dealing with the shame of relapse
  • The power of social media in maintaining sobriety
  • "When I get stagnant, I get slippery."

    At 18, I entered prison. At 19, facing a potential 10+ years for parole violation, a pivotal decision changed my life. In a jail cell on October 12, 1996, at 3 a.m., I swore off mind-altering substances. The 21st encounter with handcuffs pushed me to break free. Living clean and sober for 27 years, I’ve found genuine freedom—earned through work, willingness, and honesty. Sobriety, my most gangster feat, opens doors to a life beyond imagination. – Jason Williams aka Sober Gangster

    https://www.instagram.com/sober.gangster/

    https://www.facebook.com/Sobergangster

    Chuck's 25-year struggle with addiction, marked by relapses and PTSD, took a turn following his father's death and his mother's constant reminder, "You are loved." This led to his recovery and the creation of the Ashes to Awesome Podcast. Alongside co-hosts Ryan Bathgate, and Dr. Lisa, the podcast addresses addiction and mental health, promoting hope, love, and acceptance. It's a platform for sharing stories and support, not only for those in recovery but also for their families, embodying a message of transformation and understanding.

    Hi ya’ll I am Hayley Delashmit or “Giggles”. I was raised in Nashville, TN. I did take a random adventure and moved to Buffalo, NY in 2010 for 2 and a half years.(GO BILLS) . I currently live in a small farming and trucking town in Munford, TN. 

    My sober birthday is January 11,2023. I recover out loud just so people know that they are seen and they matter. God gave me the strength and the voice to speak with kindness, grace and understanding just so I can let people know there is HOPE and that they are not ALONE.  This next chapter of my sober journey will be by Gods grace I get placed on the Liver Transplant list and in the meantime I will spread hope and smiles because smiles and laughter are contagious!  I am mostly found on  Facebook but I also have a tik tok & both are under my name, Hayley Delashmit!

    Get involved in the Through The Glass Recovery community!

    Visit our website at throughtheglassrecovery.com to sign up for our weekly newsletter, and to gain access to our FREE weekly recovery meetings. We also have a new Facebook Group where our friends and listeners can offer support to one another. Come join us!

    You can also find us on:

     Instagram 

    Facebook 

    Tiktok

     

    45 min

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Hanging out at the intersection of emotional wellness, personal growth, and living an alcohol-free life.

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