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  • 39. Polyamorous Parenting with Melanie and AJ, Part 2

    We’re back with part two of Jessica’s conversation with polyamorous couple, Melanie and AJ. Today, they talk about raising kids in a polyamorous home, and how it brings more love and community into their lives. Melanie and AJ share what their ‘coming out’ experience was like with their families, and how Melanie’s using TikTok to express herself and break stigmas around sex, bisexuality, and polyamory.

    In this episode of Open Late

    • Navigating polyamory with kids
    • How to build a foundation of openness, honesty, & trust
    • Breaking polyamory stigmas on TikTok 
    • Melanie & AJ’s ‘coming out’ process to their families 
    • Exploring & leaning into your curiosity and desires
    • Follow Melanie & AJ:

      • TikTok: @melanie_morton_ 
      • Instagram: @melanieemorton
      • Connect with Jessica:

        • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
        • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
        • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
        • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
        • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
        • Open Late Dictionary
        • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
        • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

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          43 min
        • 38. Bisexuality + Becoming Polyamorous with Melanie and AJ, Part 1

          Melanie and AJ’s relationship journey is a beautiful example of how polyamory looks different for everyone. In part one of this two-part conversation, you’ll hear their story of falling in love in their 20s, getting pregnant, and the challenges they faced in those early stages. AJ shares how he was initially wired for monogamy, while Melanie wanted to explore her bisexuality, and what this meant for the evolution of their relationship and becoming polyamorous.

          In this episode of Open Late

          • The early challenges of Melanie & AJ’s relationship
          • Going from the verge of divorce to healthy polyamory
          • Melanie coming out as bisexual & AJ’s evolution from monogamy
          • Bringing self-discovery with others into your partnership
          • Follow Melanie & AJ:

            • TikTok: @melanie_morton_ 
            • Instagram: @melanieemorton
            • Connect with Jessica:

              • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
              • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
              • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
              • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
              • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
              • Open Late Dictionary
              • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
              • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                • Open Smarter Course

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                •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                 

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                47 min
              • 37. Polyamory, Pleasure, and Education with Evita Sawyers

                Evita Sawyers is a content creator, educator, and coach who helps people transition from monogamy to non-monogamy. Today, Evita shares her journey into non-monogamy during marriage and finding a swinging community. Jess and Evita also talk about reclaiming your sexual agency through self-pleasure and raising kids when you’re non-monogamous.

                In this episode of Open Late

                • Evita’s origin story of becoming non-monogamous
                • Opening her marriage & finding a swinging community
                • Owning your sexuality through self-pleasure 
                • Not losing yourself in parenthood
                • Navigating sex conversations with your kids
                •  

                  Follow Evita:

                  • Instagram: @lavitaloca34
                  • Facebook: facebook.com/lavitalocasawyers 
                  • Connect with Jessica:

                    • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                    • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                    • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                    • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                    • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                    • Open Late Dictionary
                    • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                    • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                      • Open Smarter Course

                      The product I love who support this show:

                      •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                       

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                      56 min
                    • 36. Kinky Communities and Q&A with the Funny Dom

                      The Funny Dom is back on the show for a fun and insightful Q&A episode on Dom/sub dynamics, polyamory, and kink. If you’re interested in trying out the Dom/sub life, he shares what to know about opening a conversation with your partner and why vetting a potential partner is a critical step. The Funny Dom also answers questions about his dating life and why he’s a fan of the ‘birthday party’ vs. ‘kitchen table’ dynamic in the polyamorous world.

                      In this episode of Open Late

                      • Vetting: topics to cover before entering a D/s dynamic
                      • Workshops, education, and training for a submissive
                      • Kink communities to find play partners
                      • Diversity within the kink space
                      • The Funny Dom’s current relationships
                      • ‘Kitchen table’ & ‘birthday party’ polyamory
                      •  

                        Follow The Funny Dom:

                        • Instagram: @thefunnydomreturns 
                        • Patreon: www.patreon.com/thefunnydom 
                        • Connect with Jessica:

                          • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                          • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                          • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                          • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                          • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                          • Open Late Dictionary
                          • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                          • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                            • Open Smarter Course

                            The product I love who support this show:

                            •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                             

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                            1 hr 11 min
                          • 35. 15 Years of Non-Monogamy with Emma & Fin

                            Emma and Fin share their 15-year journey of being non-monogamous and their more recent transition into polyamory. They talk about non-monogamy as an aspect of their relationship, and their seasons of closing and opening. Emma and Fin talk about finding community, sharing their relationship dynamic with friends and family, and how exploring polyamory has changed them personally and in marriage. Be sure to check out their podcast, Normalizing Non-Monogamy!

                            In this episode of Open Late

                            • Emma & Fin’s 15-year journey of non-monogamy into polyamory
                            • Finding community & blending friendship with sexual exploration
                            • How their podcast has created a community
                            • Navigating falling in love with other people
                            • Letting go of what you know to create what you desire
                            • Recognizing complacency & showing up better for your partner
                            •  

                              Follow Emma & Fin:

                              • Instagram: @nnmpodcast 
                              • Podcast: Normalizing Non-Monogamy
                              • Website: normalizingnonmonogamy.com 
                              • Patreon
                              • Connect with Jessica:

                                • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                • Open Late Dictionary
                                • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                  • Open Smarter Course

                                  The product I love who support this show:

                                  •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                   

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                                  1 hr 9 min
                                • 34. Ready for Motherhood with McLean McGown

                                  McLean McGown, postpartum doula and host of Mother The Mother podcast, joins Jess for a conversation on how polyamory has deepened Jess's marriage, how she’s on the path to becoming a mother via surrogacy, and what Jess desires for her family dynamic.

                                  In this episode of Open Late

                                  • How polyamory has deepened Jess’s marriage
                                  • Misconceptions about non-monogamy
                                  • Why Jess is seeking a surrogate & the surrogacy process
                                  • Challenging the nuclear family dynamic: the power of community in polyamory & motherhood
                                  • Longterm partnerships: how to start a conversation on opening up your relationship
                                  •  

                                    Follow McLean:

                                    • Instagram: @motherthemother
                                    • Website: www.motherthemother.com 
                                    • Podcast: Mother The Mother
                                    • Resources:

                                      • Want/Will/Won’t List

                                      Connect with Jessica:

                                      • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                      • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                      • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                      • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                      • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                      • Open Late Dictionary
                                      • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                      • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                        • Open Smarter Course

                                        The product I love who support this show:

                                        •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                         

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                                        49 min
                                      • 33. Your Sex Bucket List with Layla London from The Curious Girl Diaries

                                        Layla London from The Curious Girl Diaries is on the show to talk about her journey from a 3.5-year self-imposed dry spell to her sexual awakening. She talks about getting clear in her desires and creating a ‘sex bucket list,’ and how liberating this part of herself has allowed for more play and curiosity in life.

                                        In this episode of Open Late

                                        • Using a ‘sex bucket list’ to communicate what you desire
                                        • Trusting her intuition: looking for a threesome
                                        • Choosing to be anonymous & the evolution of Layla’s podcast
                                        • How porn is a performance, not sex education
                                        • Self-discovery in sex, BDSM & staying curious about what you enjoy
                                        •  

                                          Follow Layla:

                                          • Instagram: @the_curiousgirldiaries 
                                          • Website: thecuriousgirldiaries.com 
                                          • Podcast: The Curious Girl Diaries
                                          • Connect with Jessica:

                                            • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                            • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                            • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                            • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                            • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                            • Open Late Dictionary
                                            • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                            • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                              • Open Smarter Course

                                              The product I love who support this show:

                                              •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                               

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                                              52 min
                                            • 32. Sex, Love, Trauma and Communication with Serena Rose

                                              As a Sex, Love, and Relationships Coach, Serena Rose is passionate about helping couples and individuals embrace love, communication, and their kinks. Today, Serena vulnerably shares how her sexual trauma and healing journey led her into her calling of becoming a sex coach. Serena goes deep into how she learned to love herself after sexual assault and ways to navigate STI conversations, along with ways to bring play into your life — this is a beautiful, heart-opening conversation you don’t want to miss.

                                              In this episode of Open Late

                                              • Serena’s journey: Catholic upbringing to a sex and love coach
                                              • Navigating sexuality and finding your voice after sexual trauma
                                              • Learning to love herself after sexual assault & contracting HSV
                                              • How to open up conversations around STIs
                                              • How Serena’s marriage dynamic is opening-up
                                              •  

                                                Follow Serena:

                                                • Instagram: @spiritualsexcoach
                                                • That Sex Chick Podcast
                                                • Sex & Love Co: thatsexchick.com 
                                                • Connect with Jessica:

                                                  • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                                  • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                                  • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                                  • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                                  • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                                  • Open Late Dictionary
                                                  • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                                  • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                                    • Open Smarter Course

                                                    The product I love who support this show:

                                                    •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                                     

                                                    This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

                                                    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

                                                    51 min
                                                  • 31. Service Daddy Sex Ed with the Funny Dom

                                                    Get ready for a thoughtful and juicy conversation with The Funny Dom on the behaviors, identities, and overall relationship dynamic of dominance and submission. He also takes us on a journey through a D/s scene, providing insight and tips into how you could play around with this dynamic in your own life.

                                                    In this episode of Open Late

                                                    • The creation of The Funny Dom & the censorship on social media 
                                                    • ‘Service Daddy’: education, sadism, & embracing his full identity
                                                    • Becoming aware of how your kink behaviors may be showing up in your relationship 
                                                    • The dynamic of Dominant/submissive identities in relationships
                                                    • Tips for exploring a D/s dynamic with your partner
                                                    • Growth opportunities & finding play in kink and BDSM
                                                    •  

                                                      Follow The Funny Dom:

                                                      • Instagram: @thefunnydomreturns 
                                                      • Patreon: www.patreon.com/thefunnydom 
                                                      • Resources:

                                                        • BDSM Quiz: bdsmtest.org

                                                        Connect with Jessica:

                                                        • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                                        • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                                        • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                                        • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                                        • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                                        • Open Late Dictionary
                                                        • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                                        • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                                          • Open Smarter Course

                                                          The product I love who support this show:

                                                          •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                                           

                                                          This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

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                                                          51 min
                                                        • 30. What is Erotic Wellness with Nadège

                                                          Nadège is a sex scholar, writer, and fiction novelist with a passion for wellness, spirituality, and sexuality. This episode is an exploration of erotic wellness, expressing desires, and exploring fantasy and desire.

                                                          In this episode of Open Late

                                                          • Nadège’s study of porn at Berkeley 
                                                          • Communication through porn and BDSM 
                                                          • Fantasies and making the taboo not so taboo 
                                                          • Nadège’s deep dive into astrology 
                                                          • The power of creative writing for expressing emotions and desires
                                                          •  

                                                            Follow Nadège:

                                                            • Instagram: @pleasurescience
                                                            • Website: pleasurescience.com
                                                            • Erotic Astrology e-books (use code “openlate” for 20% off!)

                                                              Connect with Jessica:

                                                              • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                                              • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                                              • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                                              • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                                              • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                                              • Open Late Dictionary
                                                              • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                                              • Feminist porn sites mentioned in the show:

                                                                Bellesa

                                                                The crash pad

                                                                Erika Lust film

                                                                Feminist Film Awards Conference in Canada

                                                                • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                                                • Open Smarter Course

                                                                The product I love who support this show:

                                                                •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                                                 

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                                                                44 min

                                                              About Open Late

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                                                              Welcome to Open Late, a deep dive into all kinds of relationships. Let’s explore the multi-faceted, frequently misunderstood, dynamics of polyamory and being “open” even means. Weekly on…

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