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  • 29. Monogamish Relationships with the Conscious Bro Jordan Bowdich

    Jordan Bowdich is an unapologetic #consciousbro. Silly and sincereAF, he fancies himself the bridge between the esoteric and the generic, inspiring higher truths through humor and radical authenticity. He is a men’s performance & relationship coach, (kinda) conscious comedian, certified space-holder, biohacker, world-class MC, and BROfessional edu-tainer.

    In this episode of Open Late:

    • Becoming the Conscious Bro 
    • Meeting the person you’re meant to be with
    • Monogamish: Setting boundaries and going slow 
    • Navigating insecurities and strengthening discernment  
    • The journey of cultivating a triad relationship
    • Follow Jordan:

      • Instagram: @conscious.bro
      • Website: thatsexchick.com 
      • Connect with Jessica:

        • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
        • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
        • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
        • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
        • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
        • Open Late Dictionary
        • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
        • Check out Jessica’s episode on That Sex Chick

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          54 min
        • 28. Why (Not) Sex Therapy? with Nicoletta Heidegger

          Nicoletta Heidegger is the host of Sluts and Scholars podcast and is a licensed marriage and family therapist. She offers coaching, consulting, and equine therapy. This conversation goes into why sex coaching is beneficial and when is the right time to seek it out.

          In this episode of Open Late:

          • What led Nicoletta to become a Sexologist 
          • How shame can be the root cause of trauma and how to move through it
          • Seeking help before crisis mode: When to know it’s time for sex therapy
          • Discussing the causes and remedies of pelvic pain
          • Questions to ask when thinking about opening up the relationship
          • Follow Nicoletta:

            • Instagram: @slutsandscholars
            • Twitter: @therapywithnicoletta
            • Website: nicolettavheidegger.com
            • Connect with Jessica:

              • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
              • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
              • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
              • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
              • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
              • Open Late Dictionary
              • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
              • Show Resources:

                Take the relationship style quiz

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                50 min
              • 27. Jess' Husband and Girlfriend Take 2

                This is the second part of a two part, juicy, tell-all conversation about long term polyamory. There are so many ideas, misconceptions, and projections around polyamory. Maybe you want to try it out, maybe you’re afraid, or don’t know how to start. Listen in to hear all the ups, downs, and highlights of real experiences stepping into a triad relationship.

                In this episode of Open Late

                • Setting up boundaries within polyamory
                • Navigating jealousy as it comes up
                • How leaning into discomfort can lead to peak life moments
                • More to polyamory than sex
                • The most epic threesome stories
                • Follow Lauren:

                  • Instagram: @lolo_urbiztondo

                  Connect with Jessica:

                  • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                  • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                  • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                  • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                  • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                  • Open Late Dictionary
                  • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                  • Show Resources:

                    Open Late Episode 16 with Lauren

                    Untrue By Wednesday Martin

                    Sex at Dawn

                    Check out Cakes by Alexys:

                    Instatgram: @cakesbyalexys

                    • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

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                    43 min
                  • 26. From Threesome to a Full Time Girlfriend

                    This is the first part of a two part, juicy, tell-all conversation about long term polyamory. There are so many ideas, misconceptions, and projections around polyamory. Maybe you want to try it out, maybe you’re afraid, or don’t know how to start. Listen in to hear all the ups, downs, and highlights of real experiences stepping into a triad relationship.

                    In this episode of Open Late

                    • The fears around becoming a throuple 
                    • Being able to be yourself in relationship  
                    • What does “healing work” actually mean?
                    • Understanding the time and energy needs of relationship
                    • Using communication as the compass
                    • Follow Lauren:

                      • Instagram: @lolo_urbiztondo

                      Connect with Jessica:

                      • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                      • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                      • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                      • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                      • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                      • Open Late Dictionary
                      • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                      • Open Late Episode 16 with Lauren

                        Check out Cakes by Alexys:

                        Instatgram: @cakesbyalexys

                        • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                        • Open Smarter Course

                        The product I love who support this show:

                        •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                         

                        This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

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                        42 min
                      • 25. Sex Therapy, Attachment Styles, and Addiction with Lindsey Locke

                        Lindsey Locke is an associate therapist and podcast host with a passion for showing others how to get curious about their lives and what it means to be your true self. In this episode, Lindsey shares the questions that led her to pursue psychology, all the stories that shape who we are, the nuances of addiction, and the problems with fear-based sex-education.

                        In this episode of Open Late:

                        • How we write our stories around sex 
                        • The issues with sex education 
                        • Identifying what sex actually means to you 
                        • Explaining different attachment styles
                        • Psychedelic assisted psychotherapy 
                        • Follow Lindsey:

                          • Instagram: @lindseytaylorlocke
                          • Podcast: Get Psyched
                          • Connect with Jessica:

                            • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                            • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                            • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                            • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                            • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                            • Open Late Dictionary
                            • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                            • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                              • Open Smarter Course

                              The product I love who support this show:

                              •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                               

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                              54 min
                            • 24. Better Sex and Powerful Orgasms with Courtney V

                              Courtney Virden is a core and pelvic floor specialist who works with all kinds of women to get more in touch with their body through pelvic floor work. While the benefits of having a healthy pelvic floor cannot be overstated, so many of us don’t know what that really means or even how to feel the pelvic floor. In this episode, Courtney gives us all the insight we need to get started with the journey of getting in touch with the pelvic floor.

                              In this episode of Open Late

                              • What no one is saying about pelvic floor health
                              • What even is the pelvic floor?
                              • How to check pelvic floor health 
                              • Protocols for working on the pelvic floor
                              • Better sex and becoming multi-orgasmic
                              • Follow Courtney:

                                • Instagram: @courtneyvfitness
                                • Website: courtneyv.com
                                • Connect with Jessica:

                                  • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                  • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                  • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                  • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                  • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                  • Open Late Dictionary
                                  • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                  • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                    • Open Smarter Course

                                    The product I love who support this show:

                                    •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                     

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                                    42 min
                                  • 23. Polyamory, Relationship Dynamics, and Self-Love with Cami and Niki

                                    The last episode with Cami and Niki was about all things kink and now they are back to talk about what that can look like in different relationship styles, what it means to celebrate your own needs and desires, and how to put yourself out there when you don’t know where to start.

                                    In this episode on Open Late

                                    • Polyamory to non-sexual: The spectrum of BDSM
                                    • What it means to date yourself
                                    • Getting started with kink
                                    • Finding the courage to put yourself out there
                                    • Follow Niki and Cami

                                      • Instagram: @doubleteamedpodcast
                                      • Tiktok: doubleteamedpodcast
                                      • Twitter: @doubleteamedpod
                                      • Podcast: Double Teamed with Cami and Niki
                                      • Connect with Jessica:

                                        • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                        • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                        • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                        • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                        • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                        • Open Late Dictionary
                                        • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                        • Resources:

                                          BDSM quiz

                                          Kink influencers and podcast:

                                          @ms_nighteyes

                                          @thefunnydom2

                                          @coach_emilyy

                                          @askasub

                                          @kinkykarrot

                                          @ariel_80s

                                          @the.male_submissive

                                          • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                          • Open Smarter Course

                                          The product I love who support this show:

                                          •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                           

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                                          32 min
                                        • 22. Let’s Get Kinky with Niki and Cami

                                          There is such a spectrum for kink and BDSM. The most important thing is to really look at what you want in your life and what you want to feel. What do you need moment to moment and how can you create the space for that in your life.This juicy conversation goes into all things kink and what that might mean for you.

                                          In this episode on Open Late

                                          • How Niki and Cami discovered kink 
                                          • Impact play, daddy-dom, and top-bottom 
                                          • What is subdrop?
                                          • The healing side to BDSM
                                          • Follow Niki and Cami

                                            • Instagram: @doubleteamedpodcast
                                            • Tiktok: doubleteamedpodcast
                                            • Twitter: @doubleteamedpod
                                            • Podcast: Double Teamed with Cami and Niki
                                            • Connect with Jessica:

                                              • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                              • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                              • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                              • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                              • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                              • Open Late Dictionary
                                              • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                              • Books Mentioned:

                                                Topping and Bottoming 

                                                Daddy Memoir

                                                BDSM quiz

                                                Kink influencers and podcast:

                                                @ms_nighteyes

                                                @thefunnydom2

                                                @coach_emilyy

                                                @askasub

                                                @kinkykarrot

                                                @ariel_80s

                                                @the.male_submissive

                                                • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                                • Open Smarter Course

                                                The product I love who support this show:

                                                •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                                 

                                                This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

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                                                30 min
                                              • 21. Exploring Cuckolding with Áine from Sexualchemy

                                                Being a wife, sister, friend, lawyer, lover, executive coach, and spiritual shaman in training, Áine has spent decades compartmentalizing the different parts of herself. All of that juggling led her to wake up one day at 40 exhausted, confused and completely out of alignment. Through the process of embracing her deepest pleasure and using sexual alchemy, she has reclaimed herself as the wholly integrated woman that she has always been, and that is her birthright. This is such an exciting episode for you all.

                                                In this episode of Open Late

                                                • What it means to be a Cuckoldress 
                                                • Sexual exploration as a form of self love 
                                                • Redefining the meaning of “slut” + finding community
                                                • Sexual orientaiton for full expression 
                                                • The challenges of alternative relationship dynamics
                                                • Follow Áine:

                                                  • Instagram: @sexualchemy
                                                  • Twitter: @goddess122217
                                                  • Podcast: Sexualchemy
                                                  • Connect with Jessica:

                                                    • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                                    • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                                    • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                                    • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                                    • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                                    • Open Late Dictionary
                                                    • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                                    • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                                      • Open Smarter Course

                                                      The product I love who support this show:

                                                      •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                                       

                                                      This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

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                                                      45 min
                                                    • 20. How to stay in Discovery Mode

                                                      In the last solo, I talked about the dangers of seeking “the one” and making your partner your everything. So how do we avoid falling into that trap? Discover mode, and in this episode I’m going deeper on what that means and how to do it.

                                                      In this episode of Open Late

                                                      • So what is discovery mode?
                                                      • The importance of setting common and independent goals
                                                      • Creating mystery in long term relationships 
                                                      • Using time apart to strengthen the relationship 
                                                      • Being intentional with building community
                                                      • Connect with Jessica:

                                                        • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                                        • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                                        • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                                        • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                                        • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                                        • Open Late Dictionary
                                                        • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                                        • Resources:

                                                          Check out episode 18: The Danger of “The One”

                                                          Esther Perel Books

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                                                          26 min

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