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  • 9. When to Close the Relationship with Bianca Taylor

    Bianca Taylor is an entrepreneur and coach who specializes in women’s confidence. She has co-founded multiple successful companies and advocates for women to break out of the box and explore their multi-faceted nature. In this episode, Bianca asks Jess questions about what to do when problems come up in a relationship, when is the right time to close, and dealing with toxic energy. 

    In this episode of OPEN LATE:

    • When is the right time to close the relationship
    • Somewhere between monogamy and poly
    • Getting relationship coaching
    • How to identify what causes problems in the relationship
    • Dealing with unwanted attention and toxic energy
    • Follow Bianca:

      • Instagram: @biancataylorm
      • Twitter: @biancataylorm
      • YouTube: Bianca Taylor
      • Podcast: Badassbabe Radio
      • Connect with Jessica:

        • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
        • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
        • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
        • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
        • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
        • Open Late Dictionary
        • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
        • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

          • Open Smarter Course

          The product I love who support this show:

          •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

           

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          33 min
        • 8. Consensual Nonmonogamy for a Single Guy with Kurt Maloney

          We talk a lot about what it’s like having an open relationship but what if you are single and want to try out this lifestyle? In this episode, Jess’ friend Kurt Maloney opens up about his experience trying things out as someone who is single, diving into the world of poly and ethical non-monogamy. 

          In this episode of OPEN LATE:

          • Opening to Ayahuasca
          • The ups and downs of using apps to meet people
          • Dating as a throuple
          • Navigating judgment from family and society
          • What happens when non-monogamy is not ethical
          • Follow Kurt:

            • Instagram: @kurtmaloney

            Connect with Jessica:

            • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
            • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
            • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
            • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
            • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
            • Open Late Dictionary
            • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
            • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

              • Open Smarter Course

              The product I love who support this show:

              •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

               

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              55 min
            • 7. The Game of Polyamory: Men vs. Women with Daniela Tudor and Julie Comeau

              Julie Comeau is a yoga teacher and meditation practitioner who empowers others to discover themselves through natural living. Daniela Tudoris a DJ, Producer, and CEO/Co-founder of ​​WEconnect Health Management.

              This conversation dives into the differences in building connection, trust, and romance in an open relationship vs a monogamous relationship. The three also break down the myths and misconceptions placed on men and women around non-monogamy and sexuality as a whole.

              In this episode of OPEN LATE:

              • Breaking down judgment and desire
              • The differences in how sexuality and ethical non-monogamy are viewed for men and women
              • Romance and communication in open relationships
              • Traditional communities and raising children
              • Incorporating variety and consistency into long term relationships
              • Follow Daniela and Julie:

                • Instagram: @danielaluzit | @iamjuliecomeau

                Connect with Jessica:

                • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                • Open Late Dictionary
                • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                • Cynthia Nixon: Be a Lady They Said

                  • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                  • Open Smarter Course

                  The product I love who support this show:

                  •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                   

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                  45 min
                • 6. Lessons and Struggles of an Open Relationship with P

                  In this special episode, Jessica gets put in the hot seat with her husband P. They unpack what it’s like going from insecurities and being unfilled to having a strong, trusting open marriage. P has the chance to ask questions he’s never asked and talk about the reality of choosing non-monogamy, even the not so pretty parts of it.

                  In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                  • How non-monogamy can be incredibly healing 
                  • What it’s like going from an open relationship back to monogamy
                  • The challenging side to open relationships
                  • Addressing the stigma of non-monogamy
                  • Being in an open marriage and having kids
                  • Connect with Jessica:

                    • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                    • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                    • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                    • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                    • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                    • Open Late Dictionary
                    • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                    • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                      • Open Smarter Course

                      The product I love who support this show:

                      •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                       

                      This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

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                      54 min
                    • 5. Intimacy, Sex with Women and Plant Medicine with Kelli Moore

                      Kelli is a Podcaster, women’s circle facilitator, plant medicine advocate, and total badass. In this raw episode, Kelli and Jessica open up about the unexpected healing through intimacy that can happen when we open ourselves up to the sexual exploration we’ve always desired.

                      In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                      • Learning to be open to breaking the rules
                      • The intimacy we didn’t know we wanted
                      • The connection between sexuality and personal development
                      • When NOT to be open
                      • The power of plant medicine
                      • Follow Kelli:

                        • Instagram: @kellitmoore
                        • Podcasts: The Kelli Show | OK, Babe
                        • Connect with Jessica:

                          • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                          • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                          • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                          • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                          • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                          • Open Late Dictionary
                          • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                          • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                            • Open Smarter Course

                            The product I love who support this show:

                            •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                             

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                            42 min
                          • 4. Burning Man, Sex Parties and Boundaries with Steve Cha

                            Steve Cha is one of Jessica’s best friends and has absolutely no filter, so get ready for some off the rails questions around open relationships, orgies, and upholding boundaries.

                            In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                            • Creating intimacy in threesomes
                            • Sex parties and Burning Man
                            • Creating boundaries for more freedom
                            • Identifying blind spots in relationships
                            • Follow Steve:

                              • Instagram: @estebanchampion
                              • Website: Empowerthebarrios.org
                              • Connect with Jessica:

                                • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                • Open Late Dictionary
                                • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                  • Open Smarter Course

                                  The product I love who support this show:

                                  •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                   

                                  This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

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                                  38 min
                                • 3. Your Partner is NOT Your Superhero & Compersion Explained with Chloe Francke

                                  In this beautiful conversation about jealousy, Jessica and Chloe get into what compersion means and how the idea can be used to create a powerfully connected relationship. Putting the ego aside for your partner’s happiness and exploring unconditional love with understanding and support takes away the pressure in relationships and allows for the breathing room for it to flow.

                                  In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                                  • Creating the foundation for confronting conversations
                                  • Working through and releasing jealousy in a relationship
                                  • Communicating your needs and designing your own relationship
                                  • Learning to be happy in your partner’s happiness
                                  • Follow Chloe:

                                    • Instagram: @prettybitches_bychloe

                                    Connect with Jessica:

                                    • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                    • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                    • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                    • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                    • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                    • Open Late Dictionary
                                    • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                    • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                      • Open Smarter Course

                                      The product I love who support this show:

                                      •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                       

                                      This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

                                      See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

                                      32 min
                                    • 2. The Aftermath of the Accidental Threesome with Marialuisa

                                      In this episode, Jessica discusses what happened after deciding to continue down the open road. Marialuisa is a life coach specializing in authentic confidence and women’s empowerment. She works with women and non-binary folk to break limiting beliefs around romantic relationships, careers, and lifestyle so that they are ready for the life they deserve. Marialuisa is also the Director of Programs at a non-profit and works with women in leadership positions. 

                                      In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                                      • The process of opening a monogamous relationship
                                      • Breaking the stigma and explaining monogamish
                                      • 1000 person sex parties
                                      • Creating newness in a relationship of familiarity
                                      • Follow Marialouisa:

                                        • Instagram: @marialuisaferro_

                                        Connect with Jessica:

                                        • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                        • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                        • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                        • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                        • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                        • Open Late Dictionary
                                        • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                        • This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

                                          Take the Erotic Blueprint Quiz

                                          • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                          • Open Smarter Course

                                          The product I love who support this show:

                                          •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                           

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                                          43 min
                                        • 1. The Accidental Threesome with Ginger Banks

                                          In this inaugural episode, Jessica and Ginger go through exactly what went down in the accidental threesome that forever changed this monogamous couple. Ginger is an advocate for sex workers and the sexual empowerment of all people. Through her questioning of all things related to the sexual status quo, she stumbled upon ethical non-monogamy and has spent the past four years educating herself on the topic. 

                                          In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                                          • Open relationships and being monogamish
                                          • Organic threesome experiences
                                          • New Year’s Eve make-outs and the hottest cab rides 
                                          • How polyamory leads to incredible connections
                                          • The deeper side of sex parties and BDSM
                                          • Follow Ginger:

                                            • Instagram: @thegingerbanks

                                            Connect with Jessica:

                                            • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                            • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                            • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                            • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                            • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                            • Open Late Dictionary
                                            • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                            • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                              • Open Smarter Course

                                              The product I love who support this show:

                                              •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                               

                                              This is a Sabbatical Jess Production

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                                              39 min
                                            • Open Late - The Trailer

                                              Welcome to Open Late, a deep dive into all things relationships. Let’s explore the multi-faceted, frequently misunderstood, dynamics of polyamory and what being “open” even means.  Each week you’ll hear all about my personal journey with Opening Up, and uncovering the deep, complicated, and occasionally kinky layers of our hearts as expressed in the ways we love others and ourselves. If you're interested in discovering how your relationships can be a vehicle for self-discovery and growth, or maybe just looking for new ways to spice up your life, then you've come to the right place. 

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                                              2 min

                                            About Open Late

                                            From the publisher's feed

                                            Welcome to Open Late, a deep dive into all kinds of relationships. Let’s explore the multi-faceted, frequently misunderstood, dynamics of polyamory and being “open” even means. Weekly on…

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