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  • 19. The Love Code with Marialuisa

    Marialuisa is back for her BIRTHDAY! She and Jess share all kinds of love over champagne and cake as they discuss their journeys through unfulfilling relationships as a result of a lack of self-empowerment to ultimately calling in soulmate love. They get intotrauma bonds, attachment styles, and their new joint project, The Love Code - a retreat centered around learning how to call in your energetic match.

    In this episode of OPEN LATE

    • What is the Love Code and how it was started
    • The empowerment of taking responsibility in “bad” relationships
    • What it takes to call in your soulmate
    • Infidelity and Elvis weddings
    • What does “working on yourself” really mean? 
    • Follow Marialouisa:

      • Instagram: @marialuisaferro_

      Connect with Jessica:

      • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
      • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
      • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
      • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
      • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
      • Open Late Dictionary
      • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
      • Interested in the Love Code? The Love Code

        Want to know more about your attachment style? Attachment Style Quiz

        Listen to Marialuisa on episode 2

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        50 min
      • 18. SOLO | The Danger of “The One”

        Your partner is not your superhero. That is a controversial and also very popular statement. There is so much pressure to find “The One.” We’ve been taught it from a young age, we’ve seen it in movies, lost sleep over thinking about it. But here’s the thing, you can lose yourself after you find the one because you made them your everything. It’s time to think outside of the programming and explore a relationship style that truly works best. I’m not saying being in an open relationship is the end-all-be-all, but taking the time for exploration into what you really want is so important. Having a sense of independence while sharing a common vision with your partner is really the key to personal and relationship fulfillment. After all, have you ever seen a superhero that isn’t stressed out?

        Whether you’re in an open relationship, monogamous, or in a committed relationship with yourself, you’re going to want to listen in.

        In this episode of OPEN LATE:

        • Why your partner is not your hero 
        • Generations evolve, so why don’t our relationships?
        • Twin flames, soul mates, and cosmic lovers
        • What happens when you make your partner your everything
        • Connect with Jessica:

          • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
          • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
          • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
          • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
          • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
          • Open Late Dictionary
          • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
          • Resources:

            Open Late Episode 3 with Chloe Francke

            Open Late Episode 17 with Lauren Urbiztondo

            Esther Perel Books

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            22 min
          • 17. Sex and Spirituality with Deborah Kagan

            In this extra juicy episode, Jessica and Deborah open up about the connection that sex and spirituality has always had and the the depths it can really go.

            Deborah Kagan is a Speaker, Author, Mentor and Mojo Recovery Specialist, supporting you to conquer self-doubt and indecision to step into your full power and live a turned on life. She is the creator of Rock Your Mojo programs, and the author of Find Your Me Spot: 52 Ways to Reclaim Your Confidence, Feel Good in Your Own Skin and Live a Turned on Life. Deborah is also the host of The Real Undressed Podcast. 

            In this episode of OPEN LATE:

            • P*ssy Power Posse: Deborah’s call to work with women
            • Breaking the cycle of calling in the same destructive patterns 
            • Dancing between masculine and feminine energy
            • Seeing God through orgasm and reclaiming sex and spirit
            • Follow Deborah

              • Instagram: @deborahkagan
              • Website: deborah-kagan.com
              • Podcast: The Real Undressed
              • Connect with Jessica:

                • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                • Open Late Dictionary
                • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                • Check out Jessica on Deborah’s Podcast

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                  46 min
                • 16. Room for Three: Meeting My Other Love with Lauren Urbiztondo

                  Lauren Urbiztondo is a creative entrepreneur who specializes in photography, life coaching, sound facilitating, and women's retreats. She loves to spread love and compassion through her work. Lauren and Jessica have created a beautiful business together that include retreats and sound meditation journeys.

                  In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                  • How to become a throuple
                  • Falling in love with your husband’s girlfriend
                  • Navigating changes in relationship
                  • Ending the relationship with a third
                  • Maintaining friendship after the breakup
                  • Follow Lauren:

                    • Instagram: @lolo_urbiztondo

                    Connect with Jessica:

                    • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                    • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                    • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                    • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                    • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                    • Open Late Dictionary
                    • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                    • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                      • Open Smarter Course

                      The product I love who support this show:

                      •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                       

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                      46 min
                    • 15. Ginger Banks Gets Catfished and Has a Scary Experience!

                      - TRIGGER WARNING -

                      *Topics discussed in this episode involve sexual violence and may be sensitive to some listeners*

                      The Goddess herself, Ginger banks is back on Open Late to talk to Jess about her crazy catfish story and how she is working to destigmatize and heal trauma surrounding sex work.

                      In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                      • First time being Catfished
                      • Diving into TikTok and OnlyFans
                      • The consequences stigmatizing sex workers and sexuality
                      • Creating a therapeutic space for sex workers
                      • Healing trauma and addressing how it starts
                      • Follow Ginger:

                        • Instagram: @thegingerbanks

                        Connect with Jessica:

                        • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                        • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                        • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                        • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                        • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                        • Open Late Dictionary
                        • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                        • BBC’s The Fall of a Porn Icon

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                          • Open Smarter Course

                          The product I love who support this show:

                          •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                           

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                          43 min
                        • 14. Open Marriages and Divorce with Lea Fisher
                          Lea Fisher emerged from a traumatic childhood to become a multi-awarded reflectionist artist. With a master's in counseling, she guides her audience to unlock their creative capacity and design a life of holistic wellness. She holds space for shame reducing conversations while promoting radical self-acceptance through honest dialogue. As a healing curator, Lea also provides her audience with the raw materials they need to activate their self healing.
                          This was a powerful conversation around the journey of marriage and divorce, navigating societal views on relationships, and working through the emotional trauma.
                          In this episode of OPEN LATE:
                          What NOT to do in an open marriage
                          Things to know before opening up
                          Breaking patriarchal programming: Being married does not mean being owned
                          Identifying and breaking through the spiral of sexual shame
                          Using art to heal relationship with self
                          Follow Lea:
                          Instagram: @leafisherart
                          Website & Art: leafisherart.com
                          See Lea’s work: www.samuellynne.com
                          Connect with Jessica:
                          Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                          Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                          Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                          What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                          Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                          Open Late Dictionary
                          Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                          Book mentioned:
                          You Were Not Born to Suffer
                          Gaia TV
                          To Be Magnetic
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                          47 min
                        • 13. Labels and Sexual Identity with Madison Girifalco

                          Jess met Madison Girifalco at Burning Man. She's an immersive installation artist, a puppet fabricator and children's book author. It's her goal to help facilitate space for creative communities and individual independence through the immersive arts and storytelling.

                          This episode goes into how important language is to how we communicate with each other and how we navigate the world.

                          In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                          • Bisexual, Queer, and learning about labels
                          • How language guides culture around the world
                          • The challenges of effectively communicating with your partner
                          • The patriarchal influence on language
                          • All about the new OPEN LATE Dictionary
                          • Follow Madison:

                            • Instagram: @mindovermadison

                            Connect with Jessica:

                            • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                            • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                            • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                            • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                            • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                            • Open Late Dictionary
                            • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                            • Resources:

                              Esther Perel's Intimacy Inventory Quiz

                              Matthew McConaughey Pickle Expert

                              Lea Boroditsky Ted Talk

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                              • Open Smarter Course

                              The product I love who support this show:

                              •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                               

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                              39 min
                            • 12. Language and Communication in Open Relationships - Open Late Dictionary Launch

                              There are so many things to explore when diving into modern day relationships, but how are we supposed to communicate about these things if we don’t know the words to use. This episode will help you understand what all the terminology really means.

                              In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                              • When you want to try something new in your relationship
                              • Learning the language of desire
                              • Introducing the OPEN LATE Dictionary
                              • The OPEN LATE community
                              • Connect with Jessica:

                                • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                • Open Late Dictionary
                                • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                  • Open Smarter Course

                                  The product I love who support this show:

                                  •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                   

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                                  6 min
                                • 11. Live Q&A from this Polyamorous Couple

                                  Get ready for this bonus episode, it’s both hysterical and answers some of the most burning questions Jessica and Pasha get about their open marriage. Kurt Maloney did some stand up comedy back at the OPEN LATE Launch party and then moderated a LIVE Q&A. It’s too good not to share.

                                  In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                                  • Kurt’s Stand Up
                                  • Why Jess started the Podcast
                                  • Working through jealousy and insecurity
                                  • Having kids in an open marriage
                                  • Balancing desire for multiple partners
                                  • Follow Pasha:

                                    • Instagram: @pashaesfandiary

                                    Follow Kurt:

                                    • Instagram: @kurtmaloney

                                    Connect with Jessica:

                                    • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                    • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                    • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                    • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                    • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                    • Open Late Dictionary
                                    • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                    • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                      • Open Smarter Course

                                      The product I love who support this show:

                                      •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                       

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                                      32 min
                                    • 10. How Sexual Repression Manifests in Dark Ways with Steve Cha

                                      Steve Cha, one of Jess’ best friends is back on the show today. Some of the audio was lost for the last episode with him, so they got together on IG live to talk more. There was so much amazing feedback on it and they wanted to share it here. This conversation turned to their history as friends and gives a real glimpse at Jess’ life before Pasha.

                                      In this episode of OPEN LATE:

                                      • How sexual repression manifests in dark ways
                                      • Unpacking the ending of a toxic relationship
                                      • Almost losing the love of your life
                                      • Normalizing challenging conversations
                                      • Creating non-sexual intimate relationships
                                      • Follow Steve:

                                        • Instagram: @estebanchampion
                                        • Website: Empowerthebarrios.org
                                        • Connect with Jessica:

                                          • Instagram: @journey.with.jessica | @openlatethepodcast
                                          • Website: openlatepodcast.com | jessicaesfandiary.com
                                          • Youtube: Open Late Podcast
                                          • What's my relationship style? Take the Open Late Quiz
                                          • Join our free chat community, "Open Talks" on WhatsApp
                                          • Open Late Dictionary
                                          • Asking for a friend (AFAF) Question Form
                                          • Check out Afrotrace Music:

                                            • Instagram: @afrotrace
                                            • Soundcloud: Aftrotrace
                                            • • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                              • Open Smarter Course

                                              • Take advantage of a 30% discount on Dr. Zhana's eligible courses with code "JESSICA", applied to the first payment only for offers with multiple payments or subscriptions.

                                              • Open Smarter Course

                                              The product I love who support this show:

                                              •  Honey Pot Lube and Massage Oil OPENLATE20

                                               

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                                              42 min

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