Marialuisa is back for her BIRTHDAY! She and Jess share all kinds of love over champagne and cake as they discuss their journeys through unfulfilling relationships as a result of a lack of self-empowerment to ultimately calling in soulmate love. They get into trauma bonds, attachment styles, and their new joint project, The Love Code - a retreat centered around learning how to call in your energetic match.

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Your partner is not your superhero. That is a controversial and also very popular statement. There is so much pressure to find “The One.” We’ve been taught it from a young age, we’ve seen it in movies, lost sleep over thinking about it. But here’s the thing, you can lose yourself after you find the one because you made them your everything. It’s time to think outside of the programming and explore a relationship style that truly works best. I’m not saying being in an open relationship is the end-all-be-all, but taking the time for exploration into what you really want is so important. Having a sense of independence while sharing a common vision with your partner is really the key to personal and relationship fulfillment. After all, have you ever seen a superhero that isn’t stressed out?

Whether you’re in an open relationship, monogamous, or in a committed relationship with yourself, you’re going to want to listen in.

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In this extra juicy episode, Jessica and Deborah open up about the connection that sex and spirituality has always had and the the depths it can really go.

Deborah Kagan is a Speaker, Author, Mentor and Mojo Recovery Specialist, supporting you to conquer self-doubt and indecision to step into your full power and live a turned on life. She is the creator of Rock Your Mojo programs, and the author of Find Your Me Spot: 52 Ways to Reclaim Your Confidence, Feel Good in Your Own Skin and Live a Turned on Life. Deborah is also the host of The Real Undressed Podcast. 

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Lauren Urbiztondo is a creative entrepreneur who specializes in photography, life coaching, sound facilitating, and women's retreats. She loves to spread love and compassion through her work. Lauren and Jessica have created a beautiful business together that include retreats and sound meditation journeys.

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*Topics discussed in this episode involve sexual violence and may be sensitive to some listeners*

The Goddess herself, Ginger banks is back on Open Late to talk to Jess about her crazy catfish story and how she is working to destigmatize and heal trauma surrounding sex work.

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Jess met Madison Girifalco at Burning Man. She's an immersive installation artist, a puppet fabricator and children's book author. It's her goal to help facilitate space for creative communities and individual independence through the immersive arts and storytelling.

This episode goes into how important language is to how we communicate with each other and how we navigate the world.

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There are so many things to explore when diving into modern day relationships, but how are we supposed to communicate about these things if we don’t know the words to use. This episode will help you understand what all the terminology really means.

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Get ready for this bonus episode, it’s both hysterical and answers some of the most burning questions Jessica and Pasha get about their open marriage. Kurt Maloney did some stand up comedy back at the OPEN LATE Launch party and then moderated a LIVE Q&A. It’s too good not to share.

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Steve Cha, one of Jess’ best friends is back on the show today. Some of the audio was lost for the last episode with him, so they got together on IG live to talk more. There was so much amazing feedback on it and they wanted to share it here. This conversation turned to their history as friends and gives a real glimpse at Jess’ life before Pasha.

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